I dont care at all one bit
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08-31-2015, 10:39 PM #1
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08-31-2015, 10:41 PM #2
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08-31-2015, 10:41 PM #3
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08-31-2015, 10:43 PM #4
Dont get me wrong, during my 20's and living alone it was a very hard and sad time. But within the last year everything has changed and I just don't give a chit. Its weird.
Its like the worlds influence on me to go out and have a GF, feel worthy and validated, do things for the opposite sex etc has NO HOLD on me whatsoever.
Im kinda thinking if that media crap didn't exist, this would be somewhat normal.
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08-31-2015, 10:45 PM #5
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08-31-2015, 10:46 PM #6
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08-31-2015, 10:46 PM #7
I think if i got a girl and told her and she freaked out it would say alot about her. If you knew what my 20's were like you would completely get where I'm coming from.
because most do, which leads them to bang a hooker or get sad n depressed, or make sad FA threads.
hopefully just one of them will find some value in this
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08-31-2015, 10:46 PM #8
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08-31-2015, 10:47 PM #9
Once you get a lay/fwb/gf you'll realize how much happiness you gave up in your youth because you didn't put in a tiny amount of effort to get a girl.
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 because I was super shy and didn't have the motivation to talk to girls, and I still feel like chit for wasting my high school years. Once you bag your first you realize two things:
1) It's not rocket science
2) Chasing chicks is fun, even when you get rejected
However, happiness shouldn't be dependent on the approval of women. But you shouldn't lock yourself away from such a fun aspect of life. You wasted 15ish years don't waste your 30s.
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08-31-2015, 10:47 PM #10
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08-31-2015, 10:50 PM #13
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08-31-2015, 10:50 PM #14
I go through phases of caring and not caring..
The past 3 weeks.. trying online dating like crazy..only made me realize how undesirable I was and made me the most depressed ive been in my life..
Now..THIS week..I stopd caring again and I can be happy..smiling a lot etc
Cliffs?
Stopped caring about being Fa and became happier
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08-31-2015, 10:52 PM #15
This. Getting rejected/heartbroken has a unique feeling to it. I remember putting myself in situations with ex where I would end up feeling heartbroken just for the feeling of being alive. I got sort of addicted to the feeling and kept doing stupid chit to get that feeling. What a year that was
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08-31-2015, 10:54 PM #16
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08-31-2015, 10:54 PM #17
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08-31-2015, 10:54 PM #18
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08-31-2015, 10:55 PM #19
I might be only a 6/10, but I could still get a GF tomorrow, if i really wanted to, but being 31, all that teenage chit goes away and im glad I never got any STD's or unwanted babynames.com
I know it doesnt happen with everyone, but the whole GF/BF lifestyle doesn't interest me much, but don't get me wrong, I love females
Ps: I did get a haircut
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08-31-2015, 10:56 PM #20
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08-31-2015, 11:00 PM #26
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08-31-2015, 11:00 PM #27
I swear my life to u, that I don't feel like that.
I've had girls go nuts over me at the beach and blah blah, I know what those feelings are like to have girls crazy about u and want to suck your cock
If anything i feel empowered that Im not enslaved to the whole "gotta get girls" culture that surrounds college and teen/early adult life.
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08-31-2015, 11:01 PM #28
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08-31-2015, 11:03 PM #30
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