How to teach GF to give better blowjobs? (Srs) (no pics)

[Grabre]

I've tried telling her what I like but it hasn't really helped. I told her that I figured out how to eat poosy from reading a few things online (also true) and she says "I'm not going to do that". I suggested she could watch pr0n to have a visual idea of what to do but she got all sad and said she felt pathetic about being told to "watch some skank with fake tits blow some guy with crabs".
She has also said "I'm sorry that you're so good at everything and I'm really not".

What can I do?

[anonymous]

get a mate to come over and show her how you like it

[leoaa777]

Show her doing it to your bf *******tt

[Perfectbrah213]

Call up Tyrone so u can demonstrate on him to teach her brah. I'm sure you know all the proper techniques *******

[Lighten923]

I would tell her to watch porn but since you already did that and she refuses to read about it..sounds like she's not too focused on pleasing you sexually. Very selfish behavior, she should want nothing more than to please you in bed. Unless shes amazing in every other aspect I would dump her

[daisbest]

majority of girls are horrible at blowjobs, i've only had one good blowjob but she was a 3/10 and i was drunk and the lights were off

[Voluspa]

give her a grapefruit

[Grabre]

I would tell her to watch porn but since you already did that and she refuses to read about it..sounds like she's not too focused on pleasing you sexually. Very selfish behavior, she should want nothing more than to please you in bed. Unless shes amazing in every other aspect I would dump her

"I want to be able to please you but I'm not going to watch porn "

"And I hate how you can please me so easily/ frequently and I just want to be able to do the same to you and I can't, which obviously isn't your fault it just frustrates me/makes me feel pathetic and ugly lol"

"I know we have way better things going for us than sex but I'm just scared that you're going to get bored of me/ want more"


So she says she wants to but isn't willing to put in the necessary effort to learn, which is stupid

[Tyr616]

She sounds lame srs. My gf is 10/10 at beej's, but if I asked her to do something I like or watch porn to figure out a technique she would without being a kvnt like your gf is acting like. Your gf sounds like a bish, srs.

[Grabre]

She sounds lame srs. My gf is 10/10 at beej's, but if I asked her to do something I like or watch porn to figure out a technique she would without being a kvnt like your gf is acting like. Your gf sounds like a bish, srs.

I wouldn't break up with her over this

[Rocalvic]

tell her what to do IN the act not before.

take control, face-**** her, everything, she'll eventually learn that you like deepthroat

summary of potentially longer post: be dominant when she's performing dat fellatio, make it seem as if you aren't teaching her, but just getting off in the moment, she'll get wet as **** and her self-esteem will remain in tact. srs.

[umop3pisdn]

What's not good about it specifically?

[sammywatkins]

The next time she wants to have sex say you don't feel like it. Srs. Shell figure it out.

[Grabre]

tell her what to do IN the act not before.

take control, face-**** her, everything, she'll eventually learn that you like deepthroat

summary of potentially longer post: be dominant when she's performing dat fellatio, make it seem as if you aren't teaching her, but just getting off in the moment, she'll get wet as **** and her self-esteem will remain in tact. srs.

Will do this, although I'm somewhat hesitant because I feel like she might not be totally comfortable with it..... Although I do dominate her when we have sex. I'll give it a shot, thanks brah

What's not good about it specifically?

All things I've told her:
Occasional teeth (told her multiple times)
Doesn't focus on the tip
Doesn't seem excited to do it
Doesn't go deep at all

[WinoCat]

Will do this, although I'm somewhat hesitant because I feel like she might not be totally comfortable with it..... Although I do dominate her when we have sex. I'll give it a shot, thanks brah



All things I've told her:
Occasional teeth (told her multiple times)
Doesn't focus on the tip
Doesn't seem excited to do it
Doesn't go deep at all

She probably doesn't go deep because she doesn't want to puke on your dick. And some girls just aren't into having a cock in their mouth, so that probably explains her lack of excitement (I mean, would YOU be excited to have a dick in your mouth? lol its not for everyone) ...but the other two should be easy fixes, I mean no teeth and working the head are kind of common sense right? Maybe next time you're munching on her snatch, ignore the clit and scrape her labia with your teeth....when she asks wtf you're doing, explain that you're just using her moves lol.

[illbleed]

Get mad at her for not wanting to do it

[nextyearsharks]

"Yeah im sorry too. My bad for trying to give you the best pleasure ever bitch

[Xzorroth]

she's immature and will resent you soon for not appreciating her chitty dink sucking skills.

This resentment will build up until she decides to find someone who truly appreciates her chitty dink sucking skills, which generally entails her cheating and dumping you.

Sorry bruh, had to tell you.

[BetaAsPhuck]

Get mad at her for not wanting to do it

LOL.

OP, you can;

1) Accept that she doesn't like giving blowjobs.

2) Break up if you can't accept it.

3)Continue to try to pressure into pleasing you.

I'd advise you not to choose the 3rd option for her sake. And your future self will get bouts of guilt due to essentially bullying your partner into doing what you want, after she has expressed a clear boundary (I'm talking from experience).

[MuayThailand]

sounds like a ****ty relationship. if she was crazy about you she would do whatever she could to please you. not get all uptight about being told to watch porn.

edit: there's no point forcing a girl into giving you blowjobs. it wont be pleasurable on either end. unless there is genuine desire on her end to please you, then there is no point.

[CostaDelSalford]

majority of girls are horrible at blowjobs, i've only had one good blowjob but she was a 3/10 and i was drunk and the lights were off

You are missing out mate.
and no, the majority ARE good at it. You are just getting with chit girls

[y0jimbo]

Don't put your face down there again, smash and dash her from now on, just root her and blow your load straight away 0 fuks about her

[Yurian]

Selfish lovers are not worth it. Move on

[Land_Down_Under]

just tell her to deep throat. if not then throat fuk her

[2RDEYE]

strap a dildo on her and show her how you usually do it

[y0jimbo]

She can practice on me if u like *******

[HymanRoth]

get her mom to show her how it's done ...
























hehe

[jiujitsubro]

practice 69 or next that bitch.

[TurboTay]

Just keep getting her to blow you and add in lil things for her to do. Those soon get incorporated into her BJ resume and they keep getting better and better. After awhile even if she still doesnt like giving bjs she will just do it and if she doesn't even attempt to improve them for you might want to consider your future with her. I've dealt with chicks "i hate bjs" "I really dont like dicks in my mouth" and after some work and conditioning they felt more comfortable and willing to do them. Good luck OP

[Violator009]

lmao thread backfire, just make her go down on a banana, tell her not to scrape it with her teeth or she fail..