Edit: holy phuck negged all the way into red. some of you are just upset for nothing
I'm 25, still in college (late start-took time off to work). Haven't even hung out with a girl let alone go on a date.
Anyway, I'm in summer session and in my bio class some guy invited me to a party. I ended up seeing seeing this girl there who played soccer and was in a sorority (23-she graduated) I was drunk and ended up talking to her for a little bit. Mentioned I've never been on a date or had a gf. She says she could help...
grabs my arm and we go by a corner so we can actually hear each other and she says she's up to go on a date, but I'm not entirely attractive and she needs money. said it would be great for both of us since I'd get my date and she could spend on her bills/whatever if I decided to agree and pay her $150.
handed me her number and said to text her if I agreed.
What do? I kinda want to go on my first date ever...
Legit just a date nothing else
pics (her ******** is loaded with pics with a bunch of guys and her up on them and chit, only decent ones I could find)
Wow so much hate. Already explained in posts following I don't see the issue. It's compensating for my looks with money. It's legit just a date no sex. Idk why it's so bad girls going nc after getting free dates are literally the same.
It's far better than crying about being huggless/dateless every day on the misc.
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08-02-2015, 09:25 AM #1
paying a girl $150 for my first date ever? (srs) (pics)
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08-02-2015, 09:38 AM #18
legit don't know why i'm being negged or getting hate
why not pay her? it would just be a date and if anything it would be with a hot chick and other girls would see us out
isn't that the same fking premise as when you guys say get rich then youll have money for chicks?
and those of you telling me to tell her off, this is legit the only girl that was "positive" while talking to me, besides telling her off? what would that do? she'd still get a bunch of guys lined up
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08-02-2015, 09:50 AM #25
It is about respect.
Not even hookers will tell you that ur ugly and she will only hold ur hand for a night if u pay her
When ur rich, woman r there for the mone yes, but they won't dare say that. Bcuz they would get properly checked by getting the dogchit slapped outt of them and cut off.
U seriously think ur going to feel good staring across the table knowing she despises your ugly ass and is just smugly waiting to get paid so she can go tell her buddies how easily she manipulated without even spreading her legs.
Get a grip
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$150, please tell me that includes date and any sexual acts that you choose
-The world needs more givers and less takers. The nature of mankind is selfishness, not enough know of selflessness.
-A poor man will do terrible things for money, a rich man will do even worse things to keep it.
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08-02-2015, 09:53 AM #28
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08-02-2015, 09:54 AM #29
You want to pay $150 to go and eat with a girl on a fake date, basically. How about you redirect your $150 to bettering yourself. Books, gym membership, whatever.
You know why you haven't had a date? Because you haven't made yourself into somebody who is desirable to date. Why would a funny, confident, smart, and attractive girl go out with somebody who doesn't embody those same characteristics? Because you are nice? There are a ton of nice guys out there, but you've got to have more than just that. Make yourself desirable if you are not. Go to the gym and work on bettering yourself physically (NOT to get girls, but to become healthy, get stronger and the result of those things, confidence). Read- fiction, philosophy, academic reading, whatever interests you. Get hobbies. Put yourself in uncomfortable positions so that they no longer become uncomfortable situations (for instance, if you hate public speaking, conquer that fear by volunteering for those types of things- class projects, presentations at work, etc. Over time, it will get easier and easier and you will become more confident. Or something more applicable to this scenario- go out and talk to girls. You might face plant the first few times, but you'll get better and better). And really, the major point I was trying to drive home about putting yourself in uncomfortable situations is- learn to not give a fuck about what people think. Life is too short to live your life in fear about what some random people think about you, lol. Don't put people on a pedestal, especially some sloot who has done nothing to deserve it.
I'm not saying that to be disparaging, but to try and help. Some people have those qualities naturally while others have to work at them. I've been fortunate in my experience to be naturally inclined to those things. If you are not, then you may have to put in more effort to better yourself. I'm not saying to be fake and become somebody you are not. However, self improvement is good and I try to get better every day- whether that is more weight in the gym, learning something new, or to experience something new.
I mean personally, I go to the gym, play video games, watch TV shows, travel, read books (both academic and leisure), and just genuinely have a bunch of interests. This lends itself well to conversation because you can bring something to the table and be interesting to people. Again, these are things I legitimately like.
Edit- to sum up my post. This is the equivalent of teaching a man to fish vs giving a man a fish. By bettering yourself and becoming desirable, you can be successful for the rest of your life (because you know how to fish). Paying $150 for a date gives you fake success for a night (because you were given a fish).
Good luck, brah.
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08-02-2015, 09:55 AM #30
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