Getting tired of girl I'm dating not putting out (pics)(am I wrong?)

[Assemblage]

Okay so I met this chick in the gym three weeks ago. Went up to her and cold approached. We had fukkin great chemistry so we pretty much hit it off immediately. Went and trained together and went on a couple dates. She a crazy eastern european chick but she's smart as fukk and a great conversationalist. Its a bit early to say I feel anything but she's definitely someone whose company I enjoy.

Thing is though, I have been getting sick of the fact that she isnt putting out and has no plans to. I dunno why buts its starting to bug the fukk outta me. I am currently staying with my family for the summer so going all the way back to the city I reside in just to pork is redundant (subletting my place anyway) and, get this, she says the reason I cant come over is because she lives in a one bed apartment with her roomate and that means I wouldnt be able to come over (bullchit excuse I know)

We know how we feel about each other so its not really up for debate but I am fast beginning to lose patience and feeling like a douche for doing so. I dont think I have ever waited this long for something to happen so I am wondering if I should just let it be or if I should start making dem moves nomsayin'


oh and pics of course:





edit 1:

seems like I spoke to soon



seems like this thread was good karma, will delete

[Devine88]

She's busy taking other dinks, bro.

[dimassive]

you know what the misc is going to say, go NC srs

[Highwind7]

round here we call those type of girls a female friend

[DGen94]

you done goofd. she most likely has other dudes coming over while youre worrying about this srs

[ace_gauntlit]

how did you approach her at the gym?

[MikeEagle12]

maybe she doesn't want to take it any further with a sloot who lives with his parents?

[CrookedDink]

You're a friend that holds hands and kisses her like a bitsch. Go NC...maybe she'll come around or maybe she won't. Either way stop giving a fuk about girls you aren't smashing.

[Assemblage]

you done goofd. she most likely has other dudes coming over while youre worrying about this srs

round here we call those type of girls a female friend

She's busy taking other dinks, bro.

eugh

u FAs who get no pussy are way too retarded with your way of thinking...way too little experience with the opposite sex

1. Not every attractive person is talking to 12 people at the same time. It gets old fast...real fast

2. Even if she is talking to other dudes its none of my business, we're not exclusive so I really have no right to demand exclusivity

[Assemblage]

You're a friend that holds hands and kisses her like a bitsch. Go NC...maybe she'll come around or maybe she won't. Either way stop giving a fuk about girls you aren't smashing.

maybe she doesn't want to take it any further with a sloot who lives with his parents?

round here we call those type of girls a female friend

LOL I really just came to laugh at the appalling advice this forum tends to dole out

its kinda comical and sad when I read it...kinda see why this many people are FA here

[sickh11]

while you're wondering why she ain't putting up she's getting cawks up her angus

[Assemblage]

how did you approach her at the gym?

I approach hot women in the gym all the time

Just be aesthetic and kick off a conversation. Keep it casual and get a feel for it she's into you. Alot of girls I can "close" right then and there and just get their number...sometimes I leave it for the next time we meet but u have to be careful as (if you're aesthetic at least) some women may assume you're disinterested.

[COFFEEMUG]

Maybe she's got a boyfriend

[CrookedDink]

LOL I really just came to laugh at the appalling advice this forum tends to dole out

its kinda comical and sad when I read it...kinda see why this many people are FA here

Yet here you are getting played with dry dink in hand. Good luck with your purse holding goals of 2015. Only a matter of time before she starts telling you about the juicy cawks shes getting on the reg.

[Arkileon]

she banging somebody else

the chicks that don't have sex are not in the same group as girls with piercings that they wear revealing clothing to show off

[EoR]

Where as I don't condone women who put it up straight away, aka sloots there does come a point where if nothing has happened then there is legitimately no physical chemistry on one side of hte equation. Early stages there should be rampant lust, so I am sorry but she is either banging someone else or just "likes" you.

[Assemblage]

Yet here you are getting played with dry dink in hand. Good luck with your purse holding goals of 2015. Only a matter of time before she starts telling you about the juicy cawks shes getting on the reg.

lol and thats why u bang nothing but mediocre whores who smash on the first date and then sit around asking why their girls are whores

[Assemblage]

Where as I don't condone women who put it up straight away, aka sloots there does come a point where if nothing has happened then there is legitimately no physical chemistry on one side of hte equation. Early stages there should be rampant lust, so I am sorry but she is either banging someone else or just "likes" you.

ah there is plenty of physical chemistry tbh

as I said three weeks isnt a great deal of time and I am thinking like a bit of a douche

wanted to see what would be the best way around the roomate situation tbh

[TheAdz95]

you want quick sex?
Go find a prostitute.

[Iceman1800]

Not putting out at all? Zero sex not counting kissing?

[hope27]

ah there is plenty of physical chemistry tbh

as I said three weeks isnt a great deal of time and I am thinking like a bit of a douche

wanted to see what would be the best way around the roomate situation tbh

Her roomate can't be around all the time. Three weeks is really not that long. Also, with you staying at home you can't do it there really. I don't know have you talked to her about this. I mean when I was living with a roomate, we made arrangements to give each other space. If your hitting it off like you say you are, why can't you talk to her about the situation.

[Assemblage]

you want quick sex?
Go find a prostitute.

good point

just felt like getting a little clarity

have been disappointed by the lack of good advice on the misc these days...this place helped me change from being the lowly inexperience teenager to a sloot whisperer

these days the advice is just appalling

"no contact", "friendzoned", "purse holding"....real lack of all round maturity these days

LOL threads "does her number matter" seem to make sense right now...dont really see men like most of you pulling anything other than the most liberal of skanks

[Assemblage]

Not putting out at all? Zero sex not counting kissing?

We've made out and all that jazz. Its just the sex. We have been on two dates so far. I am just interested where its going. I'll be honest, I have vast more sexual experience that probably most of the guys posting in this thread but, judging by our chemistry and honesty with each other, its an intruiging play she is using. And its one I have seen before too. That time I took the misc advice and bailed...but it was downright horrible advice. Realized I was acting like the immature, passive aggressive, sex starved kunt that most miscers tends to be

Her roomate can't be around all the time. Three weeks is really not that long. Also, with you staying at home you can't do it there really. I don't know have you talked to her about this. I mean when I was living with a roomate, we made arrangements to give each other space. If your hitting it off like you say you are, why can't you talk to her about the situation.

We're meeting up today so I'll raise it. I have brought it up before and we kinda were at loggerheads as the summer living situation made it apparent that it was gonna create some problems. I dont wanna pressure her as, to be frank, it would come off as pathetic and I kinda just enjoy her sans sex for now anyway

[Arkileon]

the denial is real lol

[Iceman1800]

Step up your game a little. If you really like her and are exclusive, tell her that.

[kkevinn6]

dump that sloot

[Assemblage]

the denial is real lol

arent u the dude who whines about getting no pussy?

just lol at some of you

Step up your game a little. If you really like her and are exclusive, tell her that.

just to get laid?

nah

I enjoy this girl but I havent made a decision yet. I guess, in truth, I am not even entirely sure what I want. I mean I have offers on things like tinder all the time but I think the whole appeal of smashing random internet women has lost all its lustre. Looking for something of a little more substance tbh. Maybe I am worried about spilling feelings to a chick who I still dont feel as if I fully know, either way I definitely dont feel comfortable with asking her for exclusivity this soon. Whilst she's good company she gives off strong neediness vibes.

[USADave85]

So you aren't interested in dating women who haven't banged every dude after knowing them for 3 weeks?

Is she acting weird? Or is she just not a sloot?

There is no winning with the misc.

[hope27]

We've made out and all that jazz. Its just the sex. We have been on two dates so far. I am just interested where its going. I'll be honest, I have vast more sexual experience that probably most of the guys posting in this thread but, judging by our chemistry and honesty with each other, its an intruiging play she is using. And its one I have seen before too. That time I took the misc advice and bailed...but it was downright horrible advice. Realized I was acting like the immature, passive aggressive, sex starved kunt that most miscers tends to be



We're meeting up today so I'll raise it. I have brought it up before and we kinda were at loggerheads as the summer living situation made it apparent that it was gonna create some problems. I dont wanna pressure her as, to be frank, it would come off as pathetic and I kinda just enjoy her sans sex for now anyway

Good for you! I just thought talking about it would be a way around it and you can talk about it without pressuring her. I don't think it would come across as pathetic. Communication is the key to any good relationship.

[icetrauma]

Be honest with her and find out what her intentions with y'all relationship is? Does she feel it to or not? Maybe she is waiting for more dates than just 2.