46 year old banker finds wife has been cheating for 10 years

[hardestgainer]

Obviously this guy let work completely take over his world, I used to work 60-70hrs/week and never let it get to the point where I was disregarding my gf at the time completely and not even having sex with her, we slept in the same fukkin bed ffs. Its great that he's recognizing where he messed up because 99% of people seem incapable of doing that today.

But he's still a beta-hipster from everything I read, I dont give a fuk if your wife didnt get enough attention it's still no reason to cheat. For someone to be able to cheat and feel no remorse is deplorable, to be able to do it for a decade when you married the man you were with since 16 and start cheating a year after your son was born puts you in a group of the lowest scum I can imagine with zero moral compass whatsoever.

If I were him instead of making this long drawn out post that could have been cliffed to "Im a cuckhold", he should just be contacting the best attorney money can buy to make sure she doesnt get jack even if there wasnt a prenup. She's been leaching for 26 years with no sign of appreciation, its time for her to get a taste of the real world and introduced to a two bedroom apartment of Section 8 housing.



EDIT: Ill go out on a limb and guess she's also got an extra bank account she set up years ago and has just slowly been taking cash withdrawls from their joint account and putting it in her own for the inevitable day the gravy train stops.

[Idontlikeit]

sounds like shawshank redemption

[LatinBrahh]

Solid advice

[infinityplus1]

Hopefully his novel is about a bridge builder

[PVR]

Well than.

[mCheech]

*Family is everything crew*

Everything else is secondary.

[yondy12]

Fuark...

[bh4tmannn]

Good stuff, reposted on my fb

[Cynic09]

Just wanted to say this thread make me want to quit my job and do 1 year travel doing fuk all.
I will do just that if I get fired.

[sharepass11]

not going hard on the guy or anything, but living the life he lived, i wasnt surprised his wife cheated on him.

His entire look on life was wrong, focusing only on money and the materialistics.

oh well, c'est la vie

[Uncle-Phil]

I saw it coming, and yet it still pissed me off


cliff:
"Its my fault she cheated on me"



**** this guy. Its that type of mentality that is why she cheated on you, you no sack having zero.

What the real theme of this post should be:

"I sacrificed 26 years of my life doing something I hated, so that I could provide for my kunt wife and ungrateful son".

Get ANGRY bro! Feel that fire! This morose mother****er gets no sympathy from me. His sad post is just a continuation of his sad life.

This..

The grass is greener on the other side. If he hasn't gotten this stable job, where would he get the money to travel the world plus write a book?

He married a Sloot. Simple as that.

One thing I do agree with him is on living your life. Enjoy the money you make, responsibly of course.

[saiyar1]

Makes me happy I'm not married at 27 like both my brothers. My dad always told me don't even think about marriage until 30. He got married at like 32. I'm looking at Leonardo DiCaprio. Dude is 40 banging models and living the life. I think we can all take a lesson from this guy. Don't waste your youth.

He's a movie star. What in the **** makes you think you can have a life ANYWHERE close to his. You miscers are delusional idiots

[jackamo2887]

not going hard on the guy or anything, but living the life he lived, i wasnt surprised his wife cheated on him.

His entire look on life was wrong, focusing only on money and the materialistics.

oh well, c'est la vie

Obviously..

That is the point of his entire post, "I did everything for money and materials..and did nothing I should have or desired..dont be like me"

[Juzi]

I can't believe you idiots think this was all about his wife cheating on him. This was hardly the point of his comment

This. Probably the least important point of the story.

[HoustonMiscer]

If the wife had any integrity at all, she would have left before she cheated. Instead she chose to live off her husband who worked almost every day of his life to provide for her and the family. Ungrateful trash.

I have this feeling that she would have cheated even if the husband brah followed his dreams and stayed with the wife

[5x10]

Wonder why his kid doesn't like him

[smallbonesjones]

I saw it coming, and yet it still pissed me off


cliff:
"Its my fault she cheated on me"



**** this guy. Its that type of mentality that is why she cheated on you, you no sack having zero.

What the real theme of this post should be:

"I sacrificed 26 years of my life doing something I hated, so that I could provide for my kunt wife and ungrateful son".

Get ANGRY bro! Feel that fire! This morose mother****er gets no sympathy from me. His sad post is just a continuation of his sad life.

you cant buy love bro

[jakesonyou69]

ITT, OP refers to some loser who married his HS sweetheart he dated from age 16, deluded himself into thinking he was originally destined to be a world-changing man, and took some chitty 60/hr, 6 day/week banking job for 26 years, and is now bitching about his decisions.

[jakesonyou69]

Work a 30-40 hour week instead of a 60 hour week like this moron.

Have 20-30+ hours extra a week for your interests/family.

This.

I don't know what some people see in working 89-90hr work weeks consistently. I don't care how much money you're making while doing it, you're completely pissing your life away outside of the job by working that much.

[Luc1fer]

I don't think he's justifying his wife's cheating. I think that's the most minimal message out of the entire story, and it's only used to highlight how much he changed over the years.

He regrets becoming a workaholic, that's the main message. It's a good message for a forum like this, where people only dream of 10k/day CEO and expect that to be instant happiness. Or expect an aesthetic physique to lead to instant happiness. That's not how life works.

[Doc_Detroit]

lmao she justified 10 years of cheating by saying he "changed." Should have dropped her right then and there. I feel sorry for the guy, that he blames himself for "changing", and that led to the cheating. Insane how someone can even attempt to justify it. Why not just divorce, why hold on to him? For the wealth, the company? Sounds like she's completely selfish here.

[TheCore84]

I saw it coming, and yet it still pissed me off


cliff:
"Its my fault she cheated on me"



**** this guy. Its that type of mentality that is why she cheated on you, you no sack having zero.

What the real theme of this post should be:

"I sacrificed 26 years of my life doing something I hated, so that I could provide for my kunt wife and ungrateful son".

Get ANGRY bro! Feel that fire! This morose mother****er gets no sympathy from me. His sad post is just a continuation of his sad life.

Kinda feel this way and for the actual guy.

[jakesonyou69]

Working from 9-7 is far from investment banking. That would be an investment bankers dream. IB works 90+ hour weeks. 7-11pm+. 11pm on a good day. At any bulge bracket with constant and large deal flow you're up till 2-4 am, regularly.

lol @ spending your prime years working 80-100 hours a week.... just fkn lol.

Median salary of an investment banker is 82k/year. At 80hrs a week, that's not worth it, much less 90-100 hours a week. I truly believe that people making that type of career choice are flat out pissing their lives away for nothing. What's the point of earning good money when you're still not even extremely rich, but work so much you can never stop to actually enjoy the money?

[LooseAzzHole]

If the wife had any integrity at all, she would have left before she cheated. Instead she chose to live off her husband who worked almost every day of his life to provide for her and the family. Ungrateful trash.

You have described the modern female

[Polaris]

He bored the phuck out of her and she lost the feels.

[Cynic09]

You have described the modern female

Yet ppl still marry them. lol

[Del1nquent]

Did not see father for 15, years yet every year I'm sure he would of had atleast a week break...

[IH8RICE]

First you gotta star in a movie as a retard

This guy made it work

[BigGameHunters]

Fuk traveling and writing novels. Just give me a gaming rig and im set for life.

And fuk women too. LOL @ him blaming himself for his wife cheating. Once virtual reality comes an option im all fuking in. But in the meantime gaming computers/browsing ******** are good enough.

And accounting sounds like a fuking awesome job. But im content i chose engineering.

[Aftiel]

been considering dipping out on current unsatisfying life and moving down to florida with my cousin

this read pretty much stomped out any doubts i had

word my nerds