I have a video of this and I was involved in it that I'll post later but I want to hear you guys' opinions before I share with you guys which guy I was.
Guy A approaches girl, and shes beautiful with well rounded body I'd say 7-8/10. She mentions boyfriend, but Guy A continues to hit on her.
Guy B comes out of restroom, but Guy A didn't care and continued hitting on her anyway in front of him. You are Guy B, how do you react to this situation?
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05-20-2015, 07:49 AM #1
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Guys hits on your girl. In front of you.
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05-20-2015, 08:10 AM #12
pretty much this. there's no way some random douche would be able to steal a female from me if I was with her. and if by some chance he could I'd send him a thank you card for getting the dumb broad off my hands.
this has happened a few times. I just sit there and encourage the guy while making sarcastic comments about myself just to make his failure that more awesome.MuscleTech Supporter
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05-20-2015, 08:21 AM #19
Prob observe for another few secs, if gf makes no attempts to get rid of him, would prob disregard her. Assuming this is a bar, I would kick my own ass for being ignorant enough to think a couple could have healthy drama free fun in a toxic environment like that.
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05-20-2015, 08:29 AM #20
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I do not agree.
I think a man that needs to intervene, and come forth with "she's mine" or something confrontational, is insecure as hell. And it shows by those actions. And positioning yourself between them and stuff, shows you're on the defense, therefore you just look insecure.
If your chick is even entertaining other men, shame on her. Regardless of circumstances. If you're giving her the dick right, she won't entertain anyone else. Promise you that.*US Navy Vet*
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05-20-2015, 08:37 AM #22
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Mostly this without the punching him out part. If he wants to start trouble, I would just leave with my gf.
If I was coming out of the bathroom and saw a guy talking to my gf, I wouldn't assume he was hitting on her. I would probably just walk up near her and join the conversation. If he was hitting on her, I would expect her to remove herself from the situation. I've had women start flirtatious conversations with me at the bar in front of my gf and I always would make her feel secure by holding her hand or shifting more of my attention to my gf. I would expect her to do the same.
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05-20-2015, 09:17 AM #25
Assert yourself confidently, but notike an insecure high schooler. From observation, the calm confident guys are respected more in these situations. Guys that errupt and make a scene are just insecure and lower self-esteemed individuals who get cheated on anyway OR get into an argument with their girlfriend when they get home about the situation.
Just introduce yourself and say something witty or sarcastic. "I like your taste man, whats your name" etc etc
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it doesn't "reek" of insecurity. It is the opposite, immediately assuming it is a guy hitting on your girl and freaking out is insecure...for all you know it could be a coworker, family member, etc. So to play it cool at first is definitely better.
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