Thinking With My Dick:(A summer cold approach journal)

[Broshi]

Your the man OP.. making me feel im wasting my life in my current relationship.. semisrs.. i tried adding you on instagram brudduh approve me

he's only posted like 1 pic...

no hijack, but... anything that can read pdf files for the most part usually. a regular kindle would be fine if your're planning on doing a lot of reading.
otherwise, just read on your smartphone or pc/laptop

[neverquit2012]

What are your favourite books or ereaders or whatever you watch online to read/listen to, and good job man you put that douche in his place, its such a good feeling afterwards because now he knows how beta he is

Mystery Method
The Manual
No More Mr Nice Guy.

All 3 can be found on Amazon in kindle format

[neverquit2012]

Your the man OP.. making me feel im wasting my life in my current relationship.. semisrs.. i tried adding you on instagram brudduh approve me

Thanks for the kinda words man. And I haven't even been using the insta honestly. Only out up one pic. Can't remember my code lol. Next time I log in I'll add you

[neverquit2012]

Went out with the 18 year old last night. Played some golf since she had a gift card and then grabbed dinner and watched a movie at her house.

It was terrible.

I came into the night with a pretty good energy level and ready to talk and have fun. She has a habit of letting me do ALL the talking and letting me ask ALL the questions. She does that when I call her, when I text her, and when we hang out. In our past interactions, it only takes me 30 minutes to warm her up and get her talking. Last night she did barely any talking. I asked 90% of the questions and did 90% of the talking.

Major turn off for me. Tried to initiate physicality during the movie, but the most I got was a 15 second makeout and my arm around her. She was just acting limp all night. I thought she might be losing interest, but she brought up hanging out again more than once and said she's going to come see me at work tomorrow.

Pretty much lost almost all attraction for her last night. There's something about a girl who can't carry on a fuking conversation that turns me off completely.

Oh well, time to find some new girls anyways. I've worn out my welcome with the German and the 18 year old. On to the next two(or three).

[Broshi]

Went out with the 18 year old last night. Played some golf since she had a gift card and then grabbed dinner and watched a movie at her house.

It was terrible.

I came into the night with a pretty good energy level and ready to talk and have fun. She has a habit of letting me do ALL the talking and letting me ask ALL the questions. She does that when I call her, when I text her, and when we hang out. In our past interactions, it only takes me 30 minutes to warm her up and get her talking. Last night she did barely any talking. I asked 90% of the questions and did 90% of the talking.

Major turn off for me. Tried to initiate physicality during the movie, but the most I got was a 15 second makeout and my arm around her. She was just acting limp all night. I thought she might be losing interest, but she brought up hanging out again more than once and said she's going to come see me at work tomorrow.

Pretty much lost almost all attraction for her last night. There's something about a girl who can't carry on a fuking conversation that turns me off completely.

Oh well, time to find some new girls anyways. I've worn out my welcome with the German and the 18 year old. On to the next two(or three).

Updates plz brah.

Been reading "The Manual" and this is probably the best book you could ever read for seduction. Other PUA methods just make you more unsure of yourself because of all the chit you "should consider in an interaction", which can only make you more anxious in the short run. Definitely the book you want if your're just getting into this to change your way of thinking.

Anything more advanced, scratch that, specific will only hurt you in early stages by making you doubt yourself.

[neverquit2012]

Work has been busy as hell. Been working over time 6 days a week at the gym and then Lifeguarding on the side. Only girl I'm talking to right now is the 18 year old and I barely even talk to her.

I've been the top sales man in the company for most of the month and a half I've been there. Toyota recently offered me a job. When my owner at the gym found out, he said he would promote me to Assistant Manager this week if I stayed, so I agreed to stay and am now Assistant Manager. Lol life just keeps getting busier.

Found a Roomate to move in with. Some chill ass bodybuilder guy who also does pick-up. Sh*ts about to get real. Gonna work during the day and go out at night. Can't wait

[xxxKingxxx]

In b4 OP gets banned from the gym for harrassment

[kingreyez]

Work has been busy as hell. Been working over time 6 days a week at the gym and then Lifeguarding on the side. Only girl I'm talking to right now is the 18 year old and I barely even talk to her.

I've been the top sales man in the company for most of the month and a half I've been there. Toyota recently offered me a job. When my owner at the gym found out, he said he would promote me to Assistant Manager this week if I stayed, so I agreed to stay and am now Assistant Manager. Lol life just keeps getting busier.

Found a Roomate to move in with. Some chill ass bodybuilder guy who also does pick-up. Sh*ts about to get real. Gonna work during the day and go out at night. Can't wait

What gym you work at?

[neverquit2012]

What gym you work at?

Fitness Connection in Allen

[Jeeter]

Found a Roomate to move in with. Some chill ass bodybuilder guy who also does pick-up. Sh*ts about to get real. Gonna work during the day and go out at night. Can't wait

and so it begins

[novawildcat25]

OP word of advice - maintain anonymous status. Stop giving out personal details ^

[novawildcat25]

Bump for OP... will share a story of my own

Walking and texting... going to my summer class. Get to the main door of the building, have my eyes glued on my phone, reach for the door handle, miss it... so just say screw it and stop for a moment, blocking the door. I finish my text and then go to open the door.

I open the door and this cute blonde is leaving; she has her eyes on me with a smile and I smile back and we both laugh at the fact that I was blocking the door. I say hi, she says hi, we are going our separate ways but I decide to go for it, why not? I turn back and ask her name and strike up a convo.

After not too long I say, "you're really cute, I want your number" she says thanks and says she can take down mine if that's easier, but I know better. I hand her my phone and she puts in her # and we small talk as she's putting it in. I say I gotta run to class and said goodbye. I think it went pretty well.

[Bulkinlikeamf]

Bump for OP... will share a story of my own

Walking and texting... going to my summer class. Get to the main door of the building, have my eyes glued on my phone, reach for the door handle, miss it... so just say screw it and stop for a moment, blocking the door. I finish my text and then go to open the door.

I open the door and this cute blonde is leaving; she has her eyes on me with a smile and I smile back and we both laugh at the fact that I was blocking the door. I say hi, she says hi, we are going our separate ways but I decide to go for it, why not? I turn back and ask her name and strike up a convo.

After not too long I say, "you're really cute, I want your number" she says thanks and says she can take down mine if that's easier, but I know better. I hand her my phone and she puts in her # and we small talk as she's putting it in. I say I gotta run to class and said goodbye. I think it went pretty well.

So how did that end up going? Was it a fake number or did u already go on a date with her

[Bulkinlikeamf]

Updates OP, how's life?

[Csteewart]

op fill us in

[neverquit2012]

Sorry it's been so long guys. As I said in an earlier post, I was recently promoted to Assisant Manager and am now working 60-70 hours 6-7 days a week(only getting paid for 50 hours, but I have to meet certain quotas so I come in in my off days).

As miserable as it sounds, I'm pretty damn happy. I've never found a job that I love this much. I literally spend 8-10 hours a day just talking to people, developing my personality, and learning a sh*t ton about how the human mind works as I try to sell people hundreds of dollars of memberships and supplements. It's honestly not even work for me as time flies by. We have 6 locations in the Dallas area alone, and I am currently number 1 for sales in the entire company and getting a lot of attention for it from the owners and other staff.

It feels weird having only worked there for 6 weeks and already being an assistant manager over people who have been there 2+ years, but my manager and the owners have been very pleased with me and are encouraging. The money is good, not amazing, but good.

I've literally had no time for girls outside of work, but my confidence has skyrocketed so much that I'm certain once I do find time to hit the clubs I will do very well. My parents are officially kicking me out by August 31(we had a huge fight recently) so I'm about to buy an apartment and a car which will provide me much more freedom to go out at night and bring girls back.

I miss football more than ever, and honestly I think that's why I've thrown myself so hard into my work. As long as my mind and body are occupied, I'm happy. I guess that's just one of the needs of an athlete.

[Lightsoft]

What do you argue with your parents about?

[Csteewart]

we best get some super long update

[Bulkinlikeamf]

I know work and life has been busy as hell. You got our support bro. Keep at it and gl to you

[neverquit2012]

Finally bought my own car, thank god. Got a 2003 Honda Accord. Great condition, passed inspection, got it checked by a mechanic, and had a flawless CarFax history. Paid $5000 cash, so no monthly payments.

Definitely have a lot more freedom now, but I still need my own place. I'm stuck in a dilemma. I'm making about 2600 a month which is enough to cover my bills, pay for an apartment, and leave me a little leftover to save/spend. The problem is, I want to return to college next fall. If I stay at home, I can save 1500 a month for the next 10 months. If I move out though I won't be able to save any more than 300 a month at most.

I don't know what to do. Living at home is awful. I have a horrible relationship with my super religious parents, my 4 younger brothers are loud as hell, I have no freedom to go out at night to the clubs and do pickup, and I can't bring girls home.

So basically I have two options:

1) stay at home until next fall and have ZERO social life but save a sh*t ton of money for college.
2) move out and have no money for college.

Once I move out, I know there will be no coming back to my parents' house. At this point, I think I'm just gonna have to swallow my pride and continue living at home because I realize that I do need to get my education.

I literally have no time or ability for pick-up anymore. My job is only supposed to be 50 hours and 5 days a week, but in order to meet crazy quotas I end up working 60ish hours 6 days a week. On my 1 or 2 days off I'm so stressed out and tired that all I do is sleep.

I'm getting labrum repair on my right shoulder on the 25'th and will be in a sling for 6 weeks which will further complicate things since I'll have to attend therapy 3 days a week in addition to work.

Feeling stressed and depressed as fuk right now. I'm realizing I NEED a college degree. Fuk this 2600 a month bullsh*t. That ain't enough to live on. I also feel lonely as fuk since all my friends are off at college. I absolutely have to go back to college simply for the purpose of having some friends and keeping doors open for future jobs.

[Dizzie38]

Move out man.

[neverquit2012]

Move out man.

Sure, if you can help me pay for my college.

[jdforsy]

Sure, if you can help me pay for my college.

Take out a small amount of student loans to help cover the cost of school. Student loans aren't going to be that large unless your going to some ridiculous private college.

[neverquit2012]

Take out a small amount of student loans to help cover the cost of school. Student loans aren't going to be that large unless your going to some ridiculous private college.

My parents won't co-sign a loan, and I have zero credit. So the only way I'm going to college is through scholarships and hard earned cash. In addition, even if I could take out student loans they would have to be huge. I'm not sure how expensive college is where you are, but in Texas any public or private college will cost you 15,000-20,000 a year not including additional expenses(spending money, savings, car payment, gas, etc..)

[JoshCube]

@neverquit2012,

I skimmed through your thread all the way from beginning to end, and was wondering if you could help me please. You're probably familiar with my name, I'm the thread starter of PUA Master Quest! Updated daily!! Its a PUA thread with a Pokemon theme, and I was having tons of fun.

I'm not sure what it is that I'm doing wrong, but I was having a blast doing PUA this summer that started in July, and ever since August rolled around, my game has completely gone downhill. People started subbing and replying to the thread like crazy, and now, its become dead. I was wondering if you could take a quick look at see what it is that I'm doing wrong. Am I not approaching enough?

I want my thread to start booming again, and its just so fukking dead right now. No approaches, failing at night game, Stephanie and Betty are gone, etc. I'm done doing night game, and want to try day game like you're doing.

One important question I need to ask you. How do you approach women without feeling embarrassed? I have trouble approaching women in a public setting, because you can feel embarrassed based on the other people that are watching.

[neverquit2012]

Been so ****ing exhausted with work that I've completely neglected pick-up. My people skills have been improving tremendously, so today I decided to try getting some numbers since it was a slow day at work.

Long story short... I failed miserably. Talked to a few girls and felt more awkward than ever. It brought me to the realization that game is like muscle gains. I might have strong legs(aka people skills) but that doesn't mean my chest is strong as well. Each aspect of your life must be worked on individually for maximum potential. My people skills are great now. Sh*t, people tell me they think I'm an extrovert. My girl skills are still nowhere near good though which means only one thing: my underlying issue is simply confidence. From confidence stems conversation, humor, a healthy indifference, and an overal relaxed environment that draws others towards you.

Although my work schedule and parents prevent me from going out to night clubs every week or doing much day game, I still have the power in my hands to use what little time/opportunities I do have each week to approach women. While my job is truly busy and my parents truly won't let me go out at night, that is still no good excuse for me not be improving constantly at the mall, gym, store, and other places I frequently visit.

As all the readers of this journal have seen, I have ups and downs. Weeks where I post, and weeks where I don't. Good days and bad days. In the end though, I am going to be a pimp and I'm gonna fuking figure this sh*t out and although it's coming slowly, I am making progress each day. Lately, my progress has been in my personal life. In 2 months, I've been promoted at work, made great money, bought a car, started a college savings fund, made some cool male friends at the gym, cut out almost all gluten and sugar, and haven't drank any alcohol.

The two areas I'm sucking in though are fapping and my game with females. Gotta work on these areas, but life is going very well right now overall.

Also, I will be headed back to college next fall. I'm putting away 1500 a month into savings for he next 10 months. By the time college rolls around I'll have 15,000 in savings which will cover a year at the school I want to go to. I've also been on a bit better terms with my parents lately, and they've agreed to chip in a little for college and let me stay at home as well as long as I'm working and saving.

Personal life is great. Now I just need to re brush up my skills with women. Stay tuned, will have a few reports tomorrow

[Bulkinlikeamf]

Updates OP

[neverquit2012]

Going through a heavy stage of depression. For one thing, my job is stressing me out beyond words. I sleep and work and that's about it. My friends are all gone at college and I miss them like crazy. I have no time or even motivation any more to talk to girls. Work is my life. I work out twice a week at most and never have time to eat. I've dropped from 250 to 218 pounds. Everyone notices how skinny I've gotten. I'm about to have shoulder surgery and my right arm will be in a sling for 6 weeks before I begin 3 months of rehab. After that, I need surgery on my other shoulder as well for the same injury. More than anything, I'm dying to go back to football. I have constant dreams about returning to play and I can't get it out of my head. It's torturing me.

I feel f**king miserable right now.

[foreveravirgin]

Is it even a question that OP can get girls? He's 6'6". Basically handed pussy on a platter.

[neverquit2012]

Is it even a question that OP can get girls? He's 6'6". Basically handed pussy on a platter.

If you haven't already seen from my journal I don't get that many girls. But if it makes you feel better to think that though then go ahead