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04-29-2015, 08:20 PM #61
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04-29-2015, 08:20 PM #62
Assuming you aren't a troll..
I don't know what to say.... putting a woman before yourself is the number one wrong approach in life. You are literally focusing on **** that doesn't matter in a wider perspective of life. If you are really so determined to lose your virginity just bang a hooker and get it out of the way. Who the **** cares?
I'm not saying to avoid being social with women but to change up your meaning and life goals altogether. When a FA loses his virginity and finds his "one" it doesn't solve **** let's be honest; he ain't alpha, he ain't happier , he ain't richer. You just scratched an Itch that has been buggin' you and you'll still have a ****ty outlook on life.disclaimer: nothing i post should be taken seriously. if you happen to be offended then i've done my job and im laughing at u
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04-29-2015, 08:22 PM #63
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04-29-2015, 08:23 PM #64
Dude, don't worry about sex, just have fun. I moved 800 miles away from everyone I know for a girl and got fuked over and found myself with no one. I was in a dark place until I decided to just do stuff I wanna do. I go out by myself, end up meeting cool ass people and go from there. I even met up with a miscer and had a blast. Just enjoy your life and people will come along and add to it.
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04-29-2015, 08:23 PM #65
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04-29-2015, 08:30 PM #66
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04-29-2015, 08:39 PM #67
I had a coach once talk to me in college after my first break up. Couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, the girl was my oneitis and I'd lost my virginity to her. His point was "be the type of man that a girl would be proud to be with." Because you're in this funk, you're entirely focused on your self. WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO MEEEEE? But think about it, have you progressed as an individual, are you really the type of person that you think a girl would want to date. You don't have friends, why is that?
This isn't hating on you, you just need to take a step back during your anguish. Also think about the oneitis issue, you TALKED to this girl a lot, and then she turned you down for a date. Well **** her man, she didn't want to be with you. Try and keep being her friend, maybe she can help you find another girl in the future. You need to start taking a deep look at yourself and find the issues, and don't complain when you find them or make excuses. Build yourself a day at a time. The more social capital you accumulate and the more you try to enjoy your life, the higher your chances of meeting cool women who might want to sleep with you.
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04-29-2015, 08:41 PM #68
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04-29-2015, 09:13 PM #69
how tall is op? also did u really take a knife and damaged yourself with it? wtf if yes, u have fukking issues. srsly u might be a potential elliott rogers or potential rapist bcuz you're so desperate that u tried to kill yourself
go get counselling, maybe tell the therapist u need to lose ur virginity
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04-29-2015, 09:20 PM #70
I know that feel very well OP. That's why nowadays I try to accept my fate and just do what I like. I have never had a girlfriend and girls have rejected me.
I was a virgin over 21 years old but... (not gonna talk about it)
I really know your feel brah...
It's painful but I look at other things. Just look at my recent threads, the one about how to become asexual. Because I think I would be better off not thinking about this.
You are not alone man. We suffer together. Hahaha.
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04-29-2015, 09:31 PM #71
This is true, college is the easiest time to get laid, it's much harder afterward.
I like your story. I was in a very similar place once, and reading your experience made me realize just how far I've come, even in just the past year. I'm much stronger now mentally and emotionally, and am actually happy even though I'll be FA forever.
If I could give you some advice it's to stop trying because you'll never make it, srs. Instead, put that effort into being happy on your own. Inject some celltech and hit the gym 3 hours a day, get jacked bro.
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04-29-2015, 09:38 PM #72
Crazy...
Size doesn't get you anything. There's more to it than our size. I am bigger than most guys here but it didn't make a difference to the girls. But I still lift because I enjoy it. I think my looks hold me back despite my size.
But you are happy now so that's just good I guess.
I just don't know anymore man. I'm like... forget about girls. Especially the ones here. I bloody hate singaporean girls.
I mean I am not a small guy but girls just don't like me
Not to hijack thread.. just sharing
Wth do girls want nowadays anyway. FUAAAAAAAAARK. FUARK IT AAAAAAAAAAAAALL!
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04-29-2015, 09:45 PM #73
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04-29-2015, 09:48 PM #74
"But now I have no more hope. I've tried tinder, barely any matches+responses. Tried okcupid and other sites. No responses. There are barely any women I'm attracted to in the college i'm in, and without hope or light, i'm done."
You are too picky OP. You complain and preach about taking your life because you never got laid, yet you barely find anyone attractive=high standards.
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04-29-2015, 09:51 PM #75
Maybe we should both become gay and settle it.
But the only problem is that I am straight. I just can't imagine being gay. Gays have it good sometimes. As men we are brotherly and help one another out and have some honor etc. Maybe gays have a good companion.
Kidding...
But sometimes I am just pissed at the fact that it will be many many years of loneliness. I try to just turn to things to do to improve myself.
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04-29-2015, 09:51 PM #76
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04-29-2015, 09:53 PM #78
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04-29-2015, 09:55 PM #79
Who cares what the sloots want? I find it kind of sad how men like OP are willing to throw away their dignity over some dumb broads. I can't judge anyone for it, since I used to be like that too. But keep your pride, do what you love and stand up for what you believe in. Chasing tail is for dumb *******s.
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04-29-2015, 09:56 PM #80
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OP, go talk to a therapist. There might be something deep down that's keeping you from advancing in life.
I didn't get laid until I was 22 and she was NOT attractive. Haven't had sex since (I'm 25). Does it bother me? Hell yeah it does. Do I let it get me down? At times, yes I do. But look at the big picture. You are young and have SO MUCH TIME. Work on yourself. Get a good job and make yourself financially stable. Find things that make you happy. Hockey, bodybuilding and fitness are my getaways.
You can't go through life basing your quality of life on how many times you get laid/relationships. I've NEVER been in a relationship. I know it will happen someday though. I'm not going to force it though. It'll backfire in the end.
I've decided to work on ME for now. Applying to med school in 4 months. Hopefully getting accepted and starting a new life in a new city. Work on you first!
PM if you want to chat. I don't mind at all.
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04-29-2015, 09:57 PM #81
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04-29-2015, 10:00 PM #82anonymousGuest
wow what an utter pussy dead serious
if you act like this now over a girl you werent even in a relationship with then god fukn help you if by some kind of miracle you manage to actually obtain a girlfriend and after 7 years she cheats on you and turns in to some kind of hellspawn super kunt you never knew existed
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