My GF and I have been dating 2 months, she is amazing in person and very touchy and cuddly but sometimes over text she acts very distant/doesn't seem to care.
Last night we hung out and then talked on the phone for like 2 hours and that was great.
Today we have barely talked and she is giving me one word replies. Now don't say it's another dude cause I know for sure there isn't one...
Should I confront her? Should I act distant myself so she knows what it feels like?
Don't wanna seem insecure and clingy but I'd like to at least have a convo... I'm not a huge texter myself but at least when I do talk to her I put some effort into my replies.
ie: i'll send her a good morning text like, "good morning babe" and then I wont hear from her for like 5 hours and then she'll respond with "hello".. da fuk
What do?
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04-26-2015, 08:38 PM #1Registered User
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GF gets randomly distant?
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04-26-2015, 08:41 PM #2Registered User
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04-26-2015, 08:44 PM #3My Couch Pulls Out I Dont
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04-26-2015, 08:49 PM #6Top Miscer
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Its over OP dead srs..this is the first signs of her cheating with lesamuel jackson III
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04-26-2015, 08:50 PM #7
she's likely getting a cock with the girth of your forearm shoved up her tight little azzhole
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lolOriginally Posted by jigglybooty
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04-26-2015, 08:51 PM #10Registered Slayr
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Lold at Tyrone responding with hello after 5 hrs of smashing
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04-26-2015, 08:52 PM #11
This isn't a laughing matter
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04-26-2015, 08:53 PM #12Registered User
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probably typed it with his bee bee sea too.Originally Posted by bitchslayr
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04-26-2015, 08:53 PM #13Squirrel Brah
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prob in your head brah.
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Got sum bad news for you brah...
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Sometimes get complacent in a relationship and take their significant other for granted as they are young and don't necessarily feel the need to fully commit to another man due to the high volume of men who constantly and consistently flirt with them further expanding their egotistical desire for attention.Crews not even once
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1st serious response thx bb.Originally Posted by Benny_Lava
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notexpectingthat/10Originally Posted by KurenaiNoButa
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04-26-2015, 08:57 PM #17Registered User
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from my experience, confronting her is not the way to go.
the way to handle it is to seem like you don't need to text her, don't text her first tomorrow and wait for her to text you. that should rectify the situation.
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04-26-2015, 08:58 PM #18
Text her "Feedback??"
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04-26-2015, 08:59 PM #20**Bicep Warrior**
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dont say anything OP u can only lose.
makes u look clingy. give her the same treatment back.
when she warms up, u warm up, when shes distant ur distant.FC Bayern fan before it was cool.
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Five hours in between texts? One word replies? Sorry op, I have bad news for you.... It's not that she's sleeping with someone else though.... She's having sex with someone else.
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04-26-2015, 09:03 PM #22Bang Bang Skeet Skeet
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fukking gold. thanks pal. reppedOriginally Posted by Swolebraahh
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I'd confront her and ask what her deal is, if she can't speak to you properly / and its a common occurrence then why is she with you honestly? Communication is key!
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yup. good luck bossOriginally Posted by tranzz
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04-26-2015, 09:06 PM #26his advice is good op - but I would further it by even being cold when she warms upOriginally Posted by tranzz
lead her on a bit and make her want you - then leave her hanging. She won't be able to stop thinking about you. She will test you multiple times but wait. Do not double text her under any circumstance. Do not explain your behavior to her.
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i agree with you, communication is key and i feel she is very weak at doing so - she even admits to it.Originally Posted by michellealyse
I'd confront her and ask what her deal is, if she can't speak to you properly / and its a common occurrence then why is she with you honestly? Communication is key!
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04-26-2015, 09:06 PM #28**Bicep Warrior**
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Originally Posted by michellealyse
I'd confront her and ask what her deal is, if she can't speak to you properly / and its a common occurrence then why is she with you honestly? Communication is key!
ya dont do this.FC Bayern fan before it was cool.
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04-26-2015, 09:07 PM #29Registered User
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will do and i'll report back with pics of text convo.Originally Posted by JigglyBooty
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04-26-2015, 09:09 PM #30this is utter bullchit opOriginally Posted by michellealyse
I'd confront her and ask what her deal is, if she can't speak to you properly / and its a common occurrence then why is she with you honestly? Communication is key!
I just actually read your post.
Few keys:
1) stop that good morning text bs. I did that back when I was a beta. She's not being appreciative. You need to cut the beta chit. Text her that maybe once every few days if you want
2) the hours long phone calls are complete chit. Cut that chit out - you're busy, you're a man, you're in demand. If she doesn't like it she can fuk off srs. I'm assuming you're young. Stop putting all your eggs in 1 basket op. She ain't chit.
3) if you guys break up - who gives a flying fuk? She ain't ****. ****in lift and better yourself til you're at least 30 brah srs
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