what's the most mind blowing thing you've learned in your adult life

[Answer1o1]

That the majority of humans are fukin stupid as fuk

[SoberToaster]

second selfishness, and while I don't think having kids is malicious it is inherently selfish

"oh I love this place, I think my kid will like it too"

K same logic (strictly hypothetical as I find rape to be one of the lowest insect scum actions someone can commit)

at a party flirting with a girl, seems to like me, laughing at all my jokes big smiles. OH NO she passed out, well I think she would like it if I stuck my weewee in her

it's not rape... I really think she likes me.
neither were consented choices, neither were asked if they wanted to partake in this game.


+1 your parents had you because it's something THEY wanted. not something YOU wanted. you didn't want anything. you were chilling on the comfy couch of non existence. They felt incomplete, wanted to continue the dynasty or bloodline or whatever egocentric **** reasoning. or maybe humans just want to keep reproducing to eventually transcend this place and have the gods themselves lift them into some trophy room in space and say "YES humans are worthy of the creature trophy room, they are so smart and beautiful and strong and artistic" yea but that's not just ego games....

all ego games
all comes from the SELF
and when you talk to someone and see someone
it's like listening to yourself, because what they say is only interpreted by your psychology. you can only understand them through the way YOU think.
so you will never really know someone

you can only try

you are always alone

and will always be alone

until the day you die

*bongos stop playing*

[anciz87]

always buy an enema bag.

[Cinderblock]

Adults are dumb as ****

As a kid you always figured that adults have **** under control and pretty much always know what to do. However, that is not the case.

this x10

[GardHainer]

Confidence in what you do is more important than knowing what you do.

The fun happens outside your comfort zone.

No one has life figured out.

The world is actually chaos. Even in the most tightly run business there is disorder, knowledge gaps, errors, etc.

Money isn't everything, this one took me a long time to learn, mainly because I didn't understand the meaning of the saying. But some people never learn it till its too late...

[GardHainer]

That money literally makes the world move. The reason we go to work, the reason we buy things, the reason we survive is because of money.

Just through the imaginary concept of currency. It's beautiful.

Actually its peoples want for contentment which drives the world. Money is just a product of it.

When you boil it down, every action every human has ever made since the beginning of time was to purse happiness.

[4SetsOfKegels]

To embrace the pain and hard work is actually weirdly enjoyable.

[invrlose123]

Women aren't the true pretty little flowers that we're lead to believe. Ever see the room of an average girl? Looks like a pig's sty.

[Cinderblock]

Actually its peoples want for contentment which drives the world. Money is just a product of it.

When you boil it down, every action every human has ever made since the beginning of time was to purse happiness.

Scarce resources and pussay have defined people's actions since the beginning of time.

[Tryceps]

that people do sex in the butthole when there is another perfectly fine hole less than a foot away

[RaaX]

That life is not as easy as i thought it would be.





people talk behind others back, when they're with that person, they will be sweet but once that guy is gone
they start talking about how dumb etc etc that person is.

The people who talk like that about others talk about you also when you're away.
This behavior rustles me alot.

[GardHainer]

Scarce resources and pussay have defined people's actions since the beginning of time.

Both of which lead to....

[kneeonbelly]

the world is literally worshipping money. women will sell their bodies for it men will kill for it all for power over each other. Its sickening.
I found that my friendships are far better when I value morals , experiences and moments over bragging rights or anything like that. i lol at people that only do things for the opinion of others. fuk 'em. when adults see that you dont worship their opinion or care at all what they think it's unnerving because most arent used to that level of confidence

[Mwizzle]

Nobody wants you to be successful, not even your family. Everybody wants to see you settle down with an average broad and have an ok job, they don't want to see you go up and beyond because it will leave them secretly jealous/upset.

[Synble]

Adults are dumb as ****

As a kid you always figured that adults have **** under control and pretty much always know what to do. However, that is not the case.

I love it how everyone quotes this implying that they themselves are above this category of people.

[drewskeOne]

I love it how everyone quotes this implying that they themselves are above this category of people.

strong misconception, r u potato

also, reality of the adult life hit me like a chit ton of bricks, was not ready but in saying that

positivity is key

[gtg]

that WWE is not real.

[hughaware1]

There are people who want to see you do well;just not better than them...except for your parents.Not surprisingly, they want their friend's/acquaintances children to do good, just not better than their own

And I guess this applies to most people itt and in general to an extent.

[MuayThailand]

I learnt the nature of women and how predictable they are once you realise how they really work and what they respond to.

[Sinan09400]

That your parents dont know a sh.t

[Ryan94LOZ]

Death waits for no one. You think someone is going to be with you for years to come and then they're gone when you least expect it.


I don't let anybody get close to me crew.

[Mwizzle]

I learnt the nature of women and how predictable they are once you realise how they really work and what they respond to.

go on...

[Purostaff]

OP is a much much more of a ******* than I originally thought

[STALKAN]

Adults are dumb as ****

As a kid you always figured that adults have **** under control and pretty much always know what to do. However, that is not the case.

Shieeet this is what I came in to post

[Nastradoomus]

Trust no one but yourself and the women that gave you life.

Life is all perception.

[anonymous]

Adults are dumb as ****

As a kid you always figured that adults have **** under control and pretty much always know what to do. However, that is not the case.

Add to that, that kids are brutally honest and don't give a crap what comes out of their mouths. I respect that. If kids are inexperienced and a bit "dumb" they at least have an excuse. What is an adults excuse for being an idiot?

But to answer the question, all that I have learned about the world, I can say that ignorance is bliss. Too much crap going on that I didn't see when I was a kid. The world was simpler and happier back in the 80's...

[maoriaz]

Nobody wants you to be successful, not even your family. Everybody wants to see you settle down with an average broad and have an ok job, they don't want to see you go up and beyond because it will leave them secretly jealous/upset.

you have a chit family and friends tbh

[XXLAFLAME]

nobody cares genuinely cares about you besides your parents/sibling

runner up is potentially bestfriend/wife

[Mwizzle]

you have a chit family and friends tbh

It's the truth srs, goes for everyone....nagging at the very back of their head.

[StrongPost]

Adults are dumb as ****

As a kid you always figured that adults have **** under control and pretty much always know what to do. However, that is not the case.

This