GF and I fight, she goes out with another guy. Misc decides what I do. (pics) (srs)

[anonymous]

If you've been looking for an excuse to break up with her this seems like a pretty good one... don't know what the question is here lol

[EdmundGTP]

If ever there was a thread that didn't deserve to be 16 pages long.................. Dis be it...

[RKintaudi]

This thread has made it to 16 pages...

[BrahnyMan]

I think more than a casual date happened OP. Honestly, she seems to be talking too much and trying to justify why it was alright for her to go out. Get rid of her OP and be back on that tinder grind

[uabeng]

To be honest I think something else happened. She's going on and on about something that to be quite honest at face value I wouldn't give two sh!ts about. My wife goes out without me. I don't give a sh!t. If she ever cheats, I'm smart enough to figure it out.

I say dump her.

[GenR0bertELee]

Alright, in for another update.

So if there's any detail that I should've included in the OP, it's that I took her v-card. Bishes get emotional about that chit. So while there's no excuse for what she did, I did feel a tiny bit of guilt. (Inb4 OP is a beta *******). So I decided to be fair and tell her I was breaking up with her.

While I'm pleasantly surprised that she took it so well, her response indicates that she indeed is probably getting wrecked by some other dude.





So I asked one of her sorostitute sisters what was up, and she said the dude's name was Conner. So I called her out on it.











After that last text I went straight back to North Carolina.

Dodged a bullet brahs. Feelsgoodman.jpeg

[itsthegenetics]

Alright, in for another update.

So if there's any detail that I should've included in the OP, it's that I took her v-card. Bishes get emotional about that chit. So while there's no excuse for what she did, I did feel a tiny bit of guilt. (Inb4 OP is a beta *******). So I decided to be fair and tell her I was breaking up with her.

While I'm pleasantly surprised that she took it so well, her response indicates that she indeed is probably getting wrecked by some other dude.





So I asked one of her sorostitute sisters what was up, and she said the dude's name was Conner. So I called her out on it.











After that last text I went straight back to North Carolina.

Dodged a bullet brahs. Feelsgoodman.jpeg

wtf dont be friends with that bisshhhh

[Deathcore]

negged you, you ****ing loser.


22 but act like a desperate 16 year old.


Pathetic.


What part of don't ****ing reply do you not get? Misc gives you all this advice, yet you still interact with that piece of ****, you may think you've come across as "alpha" but in reality you haven't, you've just come across as a chump.

This is how it should of gone:

Her: "I haven't been honest with you"
You: "Go on"
Her: "blah blah tinder blah blah"
You: "Okay"
Her: "excuses, excuses, are we cool? etc"


You never reply again, never look at, remove from all social media and get on with your life. You don't validate her by continuing to talk to her, you don't behave like a child by trying to stoop to her level by "trolling" and threatening to do what she did to you by going out with another girl.

She's still the same piece of ****, she thinks what she's done is fine, she thinks you and future guys will be okay with it.

[thewiz8807]

Why are you even responding to her OP?

Just block her number already. This chick is being so cold about everything and all you're doing is enabling her to continue the act.


No contact, don't even answer her question about being friends.

[pinoykcin]

wtf you shoulve done the 'i am batman' response fuk

[GenR0bertELee]

negged you, you ****ing loser.


22 but act like a desperate 16 year old.


Pathetic.


What part of don't ****ing reply do you not get? Misc gives you all this advice, yet you still interact with that piece of ****, you may think you've come across as "alpha" but in reality you haven't, you've just come across as a chump.

This is how it should of gone:

Her: "I haven't been honest with you"
You: "Go on"
Her: "blah blah tinder blah blah"
You: "Okay"
Her: "excuses, excuses, are we cool? etc"


You never reply again, never look at, remove from all social media and get on with your life.

Fuk you dude. Being alpha =\= being a piece of chit. I told her it was over, we moved on civilly.

[Deathcore]

Fuk you dude. Being alpha =\= being a piece of chit. I told her it was over, we moved on civilly.

It's not about being alpha, it's about respecting yourself.

How the **** can you interact with a girl that ****ing cheated on you!? Grow some balls.

[GenR0bertELee]

Why are you even responding to her OP?

Just block her number already. This chick is being so cold about everything and all you're doing is enabling her to continue the act.


No contact, don't even answer her question about being friends.

Thought it would be better to tell her to avoid shenanigans and her constantly calling me. I went straight NC after her message about being friends.

[GenR0bertELee]

It's not about being alpha, it's about respecting yourself.

How the **** can you interact with a girl that ****ing cheated on you!? Grow some balls.

Part of being alpha is not giving a fuk. I clearly indicated in those messages that I don't give a chit. As I said, I went straight NC after she asked about being friends. I don't think there's anything wrong with at least letting her know.

[straightrippin3]

HAHAHAHAH

bruh played it okay I guess.

But you shouldn't be giving her any responses because she keeps trying to justify her actions and turn it around on you.

Just cut her off, you dodged a great big bullet, just sit back and smile that da misc led you in the right direction

[Devils]

lol WHY do you want to be friends with a cheating sloot? why?

[Jessejame5]

FFS Opie

Red flags everywhere, fuk her right off a$ap. Don't overthink it just move on

This did not need a thread

[Deathcore]

Part of being alpha is not giving a fuk. I clearly indicated in those messages that I don't give a chit. As I said, I went straight NC after she asked about being friends. I don't think there's anything wrong with at least letting her know.

Your first problem is thinking you have to be "alpha" or whatever, that **** only exists online.

I feel like you don't have much experience with girls so i'm gonna spell it out for you.

+ Your replies DO show you care, you care enough to talk that piece of ****.
+ You asking her soriority sisters for that guys name DOES show you care, a LOT.



I hope you learn from this OP, you can't let women, let alone anyone walk over you. You're number one.



Next time I want you to say "okay" and walk away, hopefully you learn and their wont be a next time.


*****, I'm saying this from experience.

[ANumber1]

This thread is going on still? Holy chit, OP. Delete the number cold and get on with your life.

However, now that she's asked to be friends, this is the correct time to reply with "Who is this?"

Then delete the number and get on with your life.

[HGM1989]

You a UNC-Charlotte brah?

[GenR0bertELee]

Your first problem is thinking you have to be "alpha" or whatever, that **** only exists online.

I feel like you don't have much experience with girls so i'm gonna spell it out for you.

+ Your replies DO show you care, you care enough to talk that piece of ****.
+ You asking her soriority sisters for that guys name DOES show you care, a LOT.



I hope you learn from this OP, you can't let women, let alone anyone walk over you. You're number one.



Next time I want you to say "okay" and walk away, hopefully you learn and their wont be a next time.


*****, I'm saying this from experience.

Fair point. Thanks brah. Repped.

[Archangel_Lost]

Oh look, another cuckold thread where op ignores misc advice

[Deathcore]

Fair point. Thanks brah. Repped.

I'm sorry if I came across as a bit harsh, but sometimes you need that to really realise what the ****'s going on. Tough love.


Here's a good post to read (need to open it in a new tab to read it):

[m1n2v5]

props on handling it like an adult

[dcbone30]

"completely committed" when dating. *goes out on tinder date after fight*
"different moral and ethical code" *got plowed by tinder guy*

Seems like OP made the right choice. reps

[ineedAdviceBro]

She went out to see him, there was no chemistry and that's all there was to it.

Imagine if there was, etc.

She's a sloot, time to get out.

[icewill36]

just downgrade the whore to fukk buddy and use her for what she's good for when you have no other options.

[Jeremyn87]

Was a virgin until OP plowed her (lol, yeah right)
Used tinder while "dating" someone
Was desperately trying to fix things with OP while seeing another guy
"We're not that compatible, our morals are different"
Lol wut?
If by different morals, she meant "my morals make me a huge kunt, while OPs morals make him a seemingly ok guy," then that's the only thing that makes even the slightest bit of sense

[GordonShumway79]

"My moral and ethical code is very different than yours"

Yeah it's different, I actually have one. ****ing bish rustled me big time. her reply was the biggest does of BS hamstering I've seen in quite some time. Loved her "you were not a good boyfriend" too. Like it's your fault she went out and effed some dude. Why do "some" women have such a hard time taking any personal responsibility or accountability for their actions. OP just cut this **** right out of your life, what a ****ing horrible person. SRS

[crypto186]

wtf dont be friends with that bisshhhh

THIS. Not even worth as a fwb hook up later on.

You did well OP. Trusted your gut feel. It's always right.