Abandoning my son..(HELP..ADVICE..SRS.. cliffs)

[confusedbruh]

Okay Misc, need some advice.
Two years ago, when my wife and I were just dating (we had been for about 7 years at the time) we got into a huge blow up over her taking a girlfriends trip to Vegas (I know, fuarkin Trey Songz). Anyways because I was pissed, I ended up sleeping with this chick all week while my girl was in Vegas. Fast forward 3 months, my girl and I have worked everything over, I've proposed and life is going smooth. Then the chick texts me that shes 3 months pregnant and keeping it. After holding it to myseld for another fw months I fess up and tell my fiance. She decideds to forgive me and we get married. However her condition was that she doesn't want me to have anything to do with the mom or child (heartless, kid did nothing). Anyways forthe last year and some months, I've been sneaking around, no not for gushy wet wet, but to be a father to my illegitimate son. He;s getting older and I can't keep this up. Wut do Misc

Cliffs
-OP has gf, gets other girl pregnant
-OP's girl and him get married
-OP's girl wants him to go NC on son with other chick

Inb4 TLDR, new acct for misc detectives

respect the srs tag, situation is so difficult for me brahs

[SteadyWayfarer]

[chalup]

how about you off yourself for being scum, *******

[ChiBearsfan]

I've been both a Dad and a husband.

It's more rewarding to be a Dad.

[Morati]

Dont go nc on your son, he's your blood. If your bish cant understand that than her fuk her.

New account, well good night sweet prince.

[Aceros]

The only right course of action here is to be a dad to your kid.

The kid should be your priority here, not your wife.

[MGFusion]

Urine idiot if you think this thread is even real tea.

[Roody12]

[BustaCapp]

Okay Misc, need some advice.
Two years ago, when my wife and I were just dating (we had been for about 7 years at the time) we got into a huge blow up over her taking a girlfriends trip to Vegas (I know, fuarkin Trey Songz). Anyways because I was pissed, I ended up sleeping with this chick all week while my girl was in Vegas. Fast forward 3 months, my girl and I have worked everything over, I've proposed and life is going smooth. Then the chick texts me that shes 3 months pregnant and keeping it. After holding it to myseld for another fw months I fess up and tell my fiance. She decideds to forgive me and we get married. However her condition was that she doesn't want me to have anything to do with the mom or child (heartless, kid did nothing). Anyways forthe last year and some months, I've been sneaking around, no not for gushy wet wet, but to be a father to my illegitimate son. He;s getting older and I can't keep this up. Wut do Misc

Cliffs
-OP has gf, gets other girl pregnant
-OP's girl and him get married
-OP's girl wants him to go NC on son with other chick

Inb4 TLDR, new acct for misc detectives

respect the srs tag, situation is so difficult for me brahs

You shouldn't have connected with the kid.

Now you will have to leave your wife.

[J411]

Hey since you just made an account for this question, should have named yourself Ned Stark. He had the same problem. He just brought the kid home and said deal with it. But I can see why that might not be a good idea for you.

But in all seriousness. Thats tough brah.

Does the other lady have a SO or father figure that could adopt your kid? I know a person that let the other guy adopt their kid when he wasn't willing to be there every day. That way kid at least had a dad. Not my suggestion, but could be a possibility.

My suggestion: You are a dad. Its not this kid's fault he is in this situation. You need to have a conversation with your wife. Tell her you have been feeling guilty. Explain its not about other women. But about your kid. Give her some time to come around. See if that can be a solution.

If that doesn't work. You might just have to tell her how it is that you are going to be seeing your son. Its your responsibility. Thats what I would do. I definitely wouldn't abandon my kid.

Good luck.

[Noname95]

Urine idiot if you think this thread is even real tea.

Lol this. No one can be so fkin cold hearted.

[gahptramsenoru]

kill them all then yourself, girls that grow up with daddy problems end up sluts/junkies, but when a guy grows up with daddy problems chit truly hits the fan.

but srs its your right to see your son, fk your wife

[confusedbruh]

I've been both a Dad and a husband.

It's more rewarding to be a Dad.

Thanks, I love being a dad to him.

Dont go nc on your son, he's your blood. If your bish cant understand that than her fuk her.

New account, well good night sweet prince.

I understand, but shes not some random sloot who I married. Legit been together almost half my life. High school sweetheart, etc..been with me through some of the toughest times in life

[PumkinPie]

Its your son. Bitches can come and go but not sons.

[dragonbrahZ]

wife forgave you once, maybe shes pure gold and will understand and forgive second time

so long as youre not gettin that baby momma poon like you say

[confusedbruh]

The only right course of action here is to be a dad to your kid.

The kid should be your priority here, not your wife.

Again, I feel you, but I've been with my wife over half my life, couldn't even imagine life without her

[Starred]

This happened

[confusedbruh]

Lol this. No one can be so fkin cold hearted.

Not sure if you are referring to me or my wife as coldhearted, but its all real brah. And my wife is a teacher!! WTF!! Doesn't she love kids??

[JMAG90]

how about you off yourself for being scum, *******

If true, this.

[DLTBB]

The fact that your girl would want you to go completely no contact with your own son is disgusting OP. Yes he was conceived out of a relationship, that's not his fault at all, does he deserve to never know his father?

[confusedbruh]

wife forgave you once, maybe shes pure gold and will understand and forgive second time

so long as youre not gettin that baby momma poon like you say

My dad thinks this, but it was very rough when I first told her. I thought she was going to throw engagement ring at me and go NC

[jerkeife]

Yikes. Talk to your wife and explain how you are feeling. Did she give you a reason when she said you could never see him? inb4 he will remind her that you fuked that girl

[confusedbruh]

The fact that your girl would want you to go completely no contact with your own son is disgusting OP. Yes he was conceived out of a relationship but does that mean he deserves to not have a father for his whole life?

It was the last situation I saw playing out when I decided to tell my wife. Never guessed she would tell me to go NC on my own son. It is so far out of her character if I told people that knew us, they wouldn't even believe it.

[confusedbruh]

Yikes. Talk to your wife and explain how you are feeling. Did she give you a reason when she said you could never see him? inb4 he will remind her that you fuked that girl

Thats the exact reason. She even said she would never be able to have a relationship with the kid, because it would just remind her of my cheating

[Redfish225]

Saw abandoning son and instantly wanted to choke op out. If you're asking this you shouldn't have had kids brah. Get your chit together and raise that kid.

[confusedbruh]

You shouldn't have connected with the kid.

Now you will have to leave your wife.

breaks my heart when I tell him I have to go home and he cries and holds onto me...Not even 2 yet and he's becoming desensitized to me leaving him...feels bad

[confusedbruh]

Saw abandoning son and instantly wanted to choke op out. If you're asking this you shouldn't have had kids brah. Get your chit together and raise that kid.

I def didn't want the kid at first

[dgarner58]

so wait...girl has been with you half your life and through your toughest times...yet wants you to abandon your child.



i've got bad news for you OP.

[Highwind7]

wait a second...how do you know it's even your kid, it could be anybod-

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oh, I see...

[Victorious]

Okay Misc, need some advice.
Two years ago, when my wife and I were just dating (we had been for about 7 years at the time) we got into a huge blow up over her taking a girlfriends trip to Vegas (I know, fuarkin Trey Songz). Anyways because I was pissed, I ended up sleeping with this chick all week while my girl was in Vegas. Fast forward 3 months, my girl and I have worked everything over, I've proposed and life is going smooth. Then the chick texts me that shes 3 months pregnant and keeping it. After holding it to myseld for another fw months I fess up and tell my fiance. She decideds to forgive me and we get married. However her condition was that she doesn't want me to have anything to do with the mom or child (heartless, kid did nothing). Anyways forthe last year and some months, I've been sneaking around, no not for gushy wet wet, but to be a father to my illegitimate son. He;s getting older and I can't keep this up. Wut do Misc
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You're a worthless, piss poor excuse of a man. At the very least, support YOUR "illegitimate" son. Major slap in your wife's face in the first place, even if she went to Vegas and cheated on you, doesn't mean you should have fcuked up hard enough to impregnate another broad. Forget cheating, that's what it is, who gives - but getting another girl pregnant? Lol guy.

Any way, guess what, you have a child now, and it is legally yours - your blood, your sperm, so that's that. Just because your wife forgave you and married you, doesn't mean you turn your back on your child, even if it was planned or not. I'm not sure what your girl did in Vegas, nor am I going to wonder and ask, but because you're accountable for your actions, I hope you do the right thing and support your child regardless of having your wife's support or not. You decided to play a stupid game, and you won a stupid prize. GG.

For your sake though, I hope you're trolling. Otherwise refer to my opener in this reply. Best of luck.