No, because you're so fukking invested into race and appearance. You're not getting them because you're boring as fuk and socially awkward, face it.
Newsflash, if you're ugly as fuk you won't get many girls, no doubt. However, if you're average (normal looking) with bad bone structure or [insert ethnicity] and you're not getting girls, it's probably something you're doing, not what you're looking like.
Heres something that is hard to swallow: being good looking isnt enough if you're awkward and boring. I have a feeling im replying to a person who rarely even approaches women because he thinks that his average looks or skin color will Mess up his success. The truth? Low self-esteem. High inhibition. Low confidence. See how that toxic mentality stops you from doing things in the first place?
Its easy as fuk to sit there at your bedroom computer complaining about things you probably don't even have life experience on.
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12-29-2014, 05:17 AM #61*Finasteride crew*
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12-29-2014, 05:18 AM #62
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12-29-2014, 05:21 AM #63
I am enjoying this thread
Cliffs:
OP says women prefer white men
Black posters get mad AF and start talking about how women prefer black men
White posters repeat OPs assurance that women prefer white men
Chitstorm ensues with much mad from both sides*breaks PRs to Ellie Goulding crew*
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12-29-2014, 05:25 AM #64
The only solutions today is to looksmax and save money, learn to interact, develop a super thick skin, understand womens bull**** and learn to defelct it, and learn how to deal with in-your-face whiteknights who come at you for standing up to bad women. So when its your time you will be ready to go after attractive girls and women.
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12-29-2014, 05:28 AM #65
First of all it doesnt take a genius to realize that you're another FA loser who gets no pussy
anyone "conducting studies" on the opposite sex on a dating site (u really must lack self awareness, another trait of the sexual failure, if u cant see how lolworthy that statement sounds) I'll hazard a guess is probably not beating off willing female contenders with a stick.
I dont need to make myself feel better as I dont create threads to circle jerk with fellow losers about what traits (that I posses conveniently enough) make me physically attractive to the opposite sex. No matter how accurate those "traits" may be
I mean u seem to feel relationships work like attributes on yugioh cards....lol that alone tells me all I need to know about your obvious lack of female company. I mean lol at u not having any women in the real world to conduct your "study" on. Textbook loser.
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12-29-2014, 05:30 AM #66
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12-29-2014, 05:42 AM #67
I agree OP.
INB4 preferences........well it's not a "natural" thing that humans are born with it is socially culturally learned and comes about because of fear/stereotypes.
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12-29-2014, 05:48 AM #68
most people live the same lives go to work have lame hobbies and have mildly interesting things to talk about on occasion. as long your not autistic its not too hard not to be "socially awkward" for most people.
being shy, awkward, and ugly almost always go hand in hand and none of these traits are almost never mutually exclusive. Usually if your shy your awkward/ugly and if your ugly your gonna be shy and awkward(unless you have a huge cock because you know your value comes from having a big cock.. this is rare tho). good looking guys usually dont possess the same insecurities that ugly people have unless they are insecure about something else like their dick, or sexuality of something. a confident outgoing ugly manlet can approach a hundreds of girls and maybe a few will like him but he will need to be act like a clown(try to be extraordinarily funny/witty) or try to act tough to compensate for the lack of looks. good looking guys have the luxury of being themselves and not having to worry about the girl thinking they are boring or weird. their value stems from the fact that women intrinsically understand other women will want to **** them because they are hot no matter how dumb or weird they are.
also anyone can lower their inhibitions with liquor and be carefree and confident. at the end of the night almost every guy going out is drinking liquor and have equally low inhibitions but the majority of those guys are going home alone where the good looking are going home with pussy.
i gaurentee you i have more life experiences then you and my perception of the dating game is more accurate then yours. you can sit around and circle jerk with other miscers to get reps all you want but we both know what i have written is very accurate
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12-29-2014, 05:54 AM #69
so you acknowledge their is truth to what was said but your too much of a pussy to accept it.. i bet you believe in religion too.
ya bro the study took one minute to send a mass email and 5 minutes to read through all the answers. these girls have literally zero reason to lie so why would they say they prefer whites unless it were true? and ya i must be an FA neckbeard for taking 6 minutes of my day to conduct a social study online.. lol strong logic with that one..
you can circle jerk with other miscers for reps who agree with your POV all you want it wont change anything either. Also nobody hear ever mentioned relationships you stupid phuck. god damn you are like my ex girlfriend always making baseless assumptions and pulling **** outta the sky.
the female logic is strong with this one
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12-29-2014, 06:33 AM #70
Im not talking about ugly people, im talking about average people. Most people fall into a category where you wouldn't really call them ugly but not good looking either. OK-looking. Most of us are in this category. Shyness is caused, most of the time, by an insecurity in the self-image, and less often it stems from childhood experiences with other adults. Shyness can be worked on but it requires reinforcement of the self-esteem. Social awkwardness, typically stems from lack of experience in social interaction or social anxiety. This, too, can be worked on.
So, we can work on these problems and make ourselves better. The odds are that you and me are average, skin color has very little to do with it, so we have no excuses. Therefore the biggest paragraph in your post is irrelevant to this discussion as it is about two extremes of how difficult it is for ugly people and how easy it is for good looking people. Understand that there's the average, and that average isnt the same as ugly. Most girls are average and they try to hide it with make up because they have self esteem issues from comparing themselves with megan fox, etc., leading them to think of themselves as ugly people. Average guys (especially miscers) have the exact same problem only that they deal with it differently.
You shouldnt have to need liquor in order to have low inhibition. I know that's alot to ask given how fearful and awkward most guys are today, but really, being afraid to say things and do things, like touch girls, is severely handicapping you.
And come on dude...you said you asked 60 women on a dating site about their preferences and talked about ingrained female brain preferences or some chit. Whatever that cringeworthy chit you posted had self-doubt written all over it. I totally do not see you interacting with women just because of that. If you sit there worrying about women's preferences of skin color, you're definitely not going out with self confidence, let alone have the confidence to meet any. Stop taking women seriously, stop taking yourself so seriously and just go talk chit to females. You'll learn that they don't necessarily reject you because of your appearance, but because of the vibe you give off, how you carry yourself, etc. I'm not posting this to circlejerk for reps, im posting this because this is what I think.
Accept that you're not ugly nor are you good looking, as is the case for most guys and girls. The truth is that the guys who are complaining about looks or status, or whatever they don't have, are most likely average and have a social handicap(s). This is detrimental because it further lowers your self-esteem, increasing self-doubt, when you're supposed to be striving for an attitude where you don't care about your flaws and give 0 fuks.Last edited by Mikkolol; 12-29-2014 at 06:41 AM.
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12-29-2014, 07:43 AM #71
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12-29-2014, 07:49 AM #72
Agreed.
Getting girls information or getting in contact with is not even a challenge the older you get.
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12-29-2014, 07:59 AM #73
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12-29-2014, 08:14 AM #74
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I feel like location is a huge factor. I remember going out one time with my bro. I'm 6'1, he's 6'5, we're both well-dressed, clean cut dudes who don't fit any sort of stereotype (he's way better looking than me too), and we were hanging out on the balcony area, and I open up conversation with this girl and get to chatting. Idr how it came up, but she kept referring to her group of friends who kept looking over in our direction. According to her, they were really displeased that she was even speaking to a couple of black dudes. She even went on to say in a lot of circles, getting with black dudes is a no-no and gets you outcasted.
Can confirm that at my college, it was about 90% white, and the aesthetic black dudes (including basketball and football team) were getting zero to minimal play while fat, beer bellied white dudes with money were getting their pick of the litter. It could just be a southern thing, but I hate to justify it as that. In certain areas, just simply being white entitles you to more sexual opportunities srs. I've witnessed some awkward af, average looking dudes throughout college get with girls on the reg. Felt bad, brahs.LUFC crew
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12-29-2014, 08:25 AM #75
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12-29-2014, 08:28 AM #76
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Yeah man, I've heard this many a times. Not necessarily for the poon or anything, but I just wanna head out there and check it out. I hear it's way more laid back on just about everything over on the west coast. I'm pretty sick of Dallas, it's backwards in a lot of regards (Austin's pretty chill, though).
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12-29-2014, 08:41 AM #77
^^^^This right here. As a guy who was born, raised and played college football in the South, I can say that the stigma attached to the South is well deserved. Had I not lived in more "progressive" areas, my implicit bias would be out of control.
brojaysimpson7, get the fuk out of Texas brah. Go to the Northeast, Cali......the Northwest is not too bad either."Don't be afraid of being different. Be afraid of being the same as everyone else."
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12-29-2014, 08:55 AM #78
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12-29-2014, 09:24 AM #79
I love how black men get extreemely rustled over things like this. They always vehemently deny that white men, like their female counterparts are the benchmark of male beauty in Western culture/media.
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12-29-2014, 09:50 AM #80
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12-29-2014, 10:49 AM #81
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As a white guy in Northern Cali, I can honestly say that women are far less picky about race here. Being White or Black or Latino or Asian offers little to know advantage picking up girls of any race. The only people I see struggling here are the middle easterners and indians, no joke. I've never gone out of my way to ask women as to why that is though.
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12-29-2014, 10:53 AM #82
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See, I'd prefer that though. Everyone on an equal footing. Everyone's open minded and down for whatever. I can't tell you how many times I've heard people down here say they'd only get with a white person (guys and girls have both said this). Mind was blown at the thought process.
I remember one specific instance where I was going to this girl's birthday party, and I brought my old friend from high school who came to visit. He's half white, half Bolivian, a good looking dude srs. And I remember trying to hook him up with the birthday girl, and her saying "...But I only get with American guys." She sorta hesitated at American cause she was trying to mask the subtle racism without sounding racist, so she said "American" when in reality she meant "White". American could be anything. So much rage.LUFC crew
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12-29-2014, 10:58 AM #83
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Everyone know white racists are still supreme in the south, and really anywhere that isn't a large metropolitan area. There are areas of Cali that are still very white with a ton of openly racist people. And I'm not just talking stereotypes either. I'm saying outright aggression towards minorities, blacks especially, when they are in their small towns.
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12-29-2014, 11:16 AM #84
There really aren't any black people in this thread complaining about people being more attracted to white men more than anyone else. It's easy for one side to paint the picture of the other side as evil, low-born, treacherous, and worthless when you control the media. That's been the story spread by that side ever since we began to interact and live in integrated communities. This webforum is full of insecure white men constantly making jokes about Tyrone and Jamal ****ing their girls because in reality you think women are all obsessed with us because of sexual myths.
I do well with women of all ethnicities and I'm in the South. Obviously I get resistance mainly from white girls (and I've even run into black women who date white men only), but I throw way more TDs than INTs when it comes to attraction.550/385/655, 285 overhead press, 330 push jerk, 250 weighted dip, 190 weighted pull-up, 413.8 max weighted pull-up, 450 front squat, 365 RFESS, 305 x 2 log press, 400 (per arm) farmer's carry, 370 atlas stone, 31 pull-ups at 247.
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12-29-2014, 12:02 PM #85
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Word. I'm in a metropolitan area, and I really think it depends on the cliques you roll in. I used to roll with preppy people, and that quite obviously is where the racial bias is. I sort of just do me now and go wherever I please including rock shows, chill bars in the artsier districts, and I find that the people are way more open minded. So yeah, region may not be everything. It's also the social circles.
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12-29-2014, 12:04 PM #86
A lot of FA guys on here have those stats and still struggle.
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12-29-2014, 12:21 PM #87
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12-29-2014, 01:22 PM #88
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12-29-2014, 01:27 PM #89
bishes love black cawk.
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12-29-2014, 02:42 PM #90
White, manlet, average looking, muscular, not ripped at all
Do just fine with the ladies. Not sure what your problem is Opie.
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