Girlfriends wants to travel but I want to save money for a house

[darkeminence]

Ok so here's the thing brahs. I'm trying to save up for a house but my girlfriend wants to travel. I still live at home so get to save a lot of money. I realize this is a once in a lifetime chance so I have to take advantage of it now.
My girlfriend is YOLO and lives it up renting an apartment, saves no money for the future. Now she's constantly whining for me to go travelling with her a few weeks next year.

Sure I'm not a total hermit and said I want to travel for 1 week. But then she gets mad and says she wants to travel at least 2 weeks and another week a little later in the year... WTF do I do misc, do I find the cheapest holliday possible or put my foot down and say no?

[dwill094]

go NC

[PatheticPeter]

Nc 2 minutes ago.

[pengh]

you won't be ****ing that hoe in 2 years in your new house.

Go NC

[T_O_N_Y]

Go on a trip OP, 2-3k wont kill you and will make her happy, if you want this girl long-term you will be haunted by this decision to not let her travel.

[gsxtreme1987]

Not sure why some ppl are crazy about buying houses.
Just go travel *******.

[twopoundtorch]

Sounds like me brah haha, holidays is all I spend my money on.

[Tomiesto]

LOL stay at home sucking on your moms saggy tits and lose your girl then, phukking kunt

you piss me off because I used to be like you

[TheCore84]

Don't listen to the two above me. Trust me, houses are so much better than apts. Save up for that house and cut your girl lose. Tony clearly puts it on the pedestal anyways. As has been stated you probably won't be dating her forever so a house is a much better investment than this chick. Plus her not saving is a sign of things to come brah.

[Tanerian]

Dude ur phukin 25. Go live a little.

Plenty of time for buying a house later so long as you got Career goals.

[DLTBB]

Go travelling OP, travel with a one way ticket to North Carolina, I hear it's amazing at this time of year.

[texansfankillme]

Not sure why some ppl are so crazy about traveling. Just buy a house *******.

But seriously, most divorces are for financial reasons. Sounds like you don't have a future with this yolo sloot unless you want to end up penniless. One week traveling vacation is a perfect compromise.

[DunkinD]

Travel bro - since you are living at home dropping a little bit of money to go away wont hurt you trying to save for a house...

[sennas]

I didnt even contemplate buying a house just until recently (30). Spent my entire 20's renting apartments, partying, and travelling. Cant say I regret it a single bit either. Had all my fun and saw everything I wanted, now I can settle down more.

Edit- Just wanna add I never did any of this **** just because some girl wanted to do it. **** that.

[TheCore84]

Traveling is usually overrated anyways. Houses can lose value yes but brb living comfortably and they often increase in value.

[FatJambob]

It's a holiday do it lots of sexors


Thought you meant travelling like going seeing the world I'd say do it to that too but go alone

[Tomiesto]

Don't listen to the two above me. Trust me, houses are so much better than apts. Save up for that house and cut your girl lose. Tony clearly puts it on the pedestal anyways. As has been stated you probably won't be dating her forever so a house is a much better investment than this chick. Plus her not saving is a sign of things to come brah.

eat a dick, my point is that OP is making it seem like 2 weeks of not sucking on his mommys tits will be a HUGE setback

get out of your comfort zone OP, it won't kill you to leave the nest for a little while

[Internexus]

Ok so here's the thing brahs. I'm trying to save up for a house but my girlfriend wants to travel. I still live at home so get to save a lot of money. I realize this is a once in a lifetime chance so I have to take advantage of it now.
My girlfriend is YOLO and lives it up renting an apartment, saves no money for the future. Now she's constantly whining for me to go travelling with her a few weeks next year.

Sure I'm not a total hermit and said I want to travel for 1 week. But then she gets mad and says she wants to travel at least 2 weeks and another week a little later in the year... WTF do I do misc, do I find the cheapest holliday possible or put my foot down and say no?

You need to take a good hard look at what you just said. You are financially responsible and she is not, this is going to be a strain on your relationship forever. You need to sit her down and see if your financial goals can coincide symbiotically and if they can't you need to move on because this will be a serious stressor in your life otherwise.

[LilMcKiller]

My dad paid for EVERYTHING when it came to my mom even when they were just dating. They are happily married still. But my dad balled out so idk about your case. He also lived with his mom until he got back from the honeymoon (age 31).

[miscHelix]

Disregard girlfriend acquire house.

[BuckN20T]

You should go travel to NC

[T073]

Just travel or else you'll be one of those people that regret it when you're 40+ not being able to travel in your prime. Right now you're saving up for a house, then you'll be saving up for wedding/kids/school tuition/elderly parents/etc. Travelling just gets harder later in life. Do it now.

I'm saving up for a house too but I'll be taking a month off to go to asia in feb. The trip will run me <5k, that won't make or break my abilities to buy a place.

[a-blok]

you also will never get to really travel for the longest time if you end up buying a house.. it only gets harder. do it now, experience the world before settling down

[DYELbruh]

Why the fuk would you travel with a girlfriend? She's going to whine the whole time and might even cuck your ass halfway through. You're supposed to travel with your best bros and "live a little." I suggest going on holiday to North Carolina, then buying the house as the sole owner.

[ThatOneBigKid]

I'd say a lifetime trip to North Carolina should solve your problems.

[leafs43]

lol @ travel


She wants to take your money, use it to something fleeting that won't leave you with anything tangible.

Then when she is done traveling, she will monkey branch to a guy who owns stuff.

[Ossay]

You should go traveling if traveling means you both pay your share, not you pay for her holiday.

[JaxBrah]

travel you dumb kent. you might not have the chance when you have dat morgage and all the bills that go with it. why cement yourself in one location with a house at such a young age?

trust me, you will appreciate the experiences you have had far more than the objects you own later on in life. experiences>>>>>materials. go travel man

[Inb4ImRed]

All comes down to how much you love her...or how much of a beta ******* u are.

[Enzant]

Just travel or else you'll be one of those people that regret it when you're 40+ not being able to travel in your prime. Right now you're saving up for a house, then you'll be saving up for wedding/kids/school tuition/elderly parents/etc. Travelling just gets harder later in life. Do it now.

I'm saving up for a house too but I'll be taking a month off to go to asia in feb. The trip will run me <5k, that won't make or break my abilities to buy a place.

you also will never get to really travel for the longest time if you end up buying a house.. it only gets harder. do it now, experience the world before settling down

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