I dont understand why Misc'ers get mad at dudes for banging a chick with a BF.

[Atlas_Army]

Its her responsibility not to cheat, youre not the whos committed. You're not the home wrecker. If a girl wants to cheat it means shes not happy/content in her current relationship. If anything, in the long run its probably best for the guy or else both parties are just settling for one another while actually craving other people.

Is it an awesome thing to do? No, but its certainly not as bad as misc'ers make it sound. Especially when the MAJORITY of the responsibility is with the woman. Women dont require men in order to engage in infidelities. Relationships are based on intentions and emotions, the physical is simply an after thought. A penis is not hte basis for infidelity. For example if your wife came home and it was dark, she gets pinned down and fked by some total stranger but she think its you. She later finds out and tells you, odds are youll let it go because of what happened.(Real story btw)

Now if a woman calls a dude, says I cant wait to suck your cock, leaves him all sorts of texts without him responding. Youd break up with her in a heartbeat regardless of the dudes involvement because the INTENTION is everything.

[DatPass]

Why? Because the kind of kunts who cheat are the same ones who have a breakdown when their girl cheats on them or when the girl who's cheating with them stops.

It takes two to tango brah, you're not morally safe just because "it's her choice". If you smash a chick KNOWING she's playing headgames with her man then you deserve anything that happens to you.


Would you want some dude to fuk your wife? No? Then don't fuk someone elses.

[NotANun21]

Because nobody likes being cheated on, so why would you allow someone to cheat if you can prevent it?

It's hypocritical

[WintryRaven]

I don't see why this is so hard to understand. Sleeping with a woman who has a boyfriend makes you an accessory to her cheating, and if you had knowledge of her having a boyfriend, then it becomes fair to attribute some level of guilt to you.

Just because she's the bigger kunt here, that doesn't make you completely innocent.

[Atlas_Army]

Why? Because the kind of kunts who cheat are the same ones who have a breakdown when their girls cheats on them or when the girl who's cheating with them stops.


It takes two to tango brah, you're not morally safe just because "it's her choice". If you smash a chick KNOWING she's playing headgames with her man then you deserve anything that happens to you.

What? Your first statement has little to no basis whatsoever. I never said someone was morally safe. Responibility is with the chick & lol at not having the focus on her for staying in a relationship when she doesn't want to be in one and focusing on the dude. Strong ability to hold people accountable for their own actions.

Because nobody likes being cheated on, so why would you allow someone to cheat if you can prevent it?

It's hypocritical

You cant prevent, thats the whole point. Someone who wants to cheat is GOING to cheat. Does that mean you have to involve yourself excitedly, of course not but the responsibility certainly isn't yours.

[YasiinBey]

if you know she has a S/O and you still proceed to engage her in cheating, you are a scumbag and karma's gunnin for ya neck.

[NotANun21]

You cant prevent, thats the whole point. Someone who wants to cheat is GOING to cheat. Does that mean you have to involve yourself excitedly, of course not but the responsibility certainly isn't yours.

But if every man thought like me, then cheating wouldn't exist simply because men wouldn't allow it to

You can't have it both ways

[Atlas_Army]

But if every man thought like me, then cheating wouldn't exist simply because men wouldn't allow it to

You can't have it both ways

Again you live in an idealistic world. I think the focus that people place on the other man and who he is is Irrelevant, hes simply a symptom of a larger issue, YOUR relationship isn't working for her and SHE chose to not honour it so her cheating is simply a symptom of this. And the guy is simply symptom of that action, NOTHING MORE.

The fact that she WANTS to cheat places all responsibility on her.

[Dan_Staat]

Came in expecting red. Leaving surprised and disgusted.

Get a sex change OP, we as males don't want you in our club anymore you fukkin prick

[BrownRice123]

If you actively persue a girl you know is in a relationship then you are a piece of chit end of

if she just so happens to offer herself to you then id hope you atleast have the decency to tell the bf after, people who cheat and anyone who encourages it are the lowest form of scum in my eyes

[NotANun21]

Again you live in an idealistic world. I think the focus that people place on the other man and who he is is Irrelevant, hes simply a symptom of a larger issue, YOUR relationship isn't working for her and SHE chose to not honour it so her cheating is simply a symptom of this. And the guy is simply symptom of that action, NOTHING MORE.

The fact that she WANTS to cheat places all responsibility on her.

If she wanted to cheat and nobody would let her then she gets 100% responsibility
If she wanted to cheat and you let her, then you share that responsibility... probably not 50:50 but you at least take a third of the blame

You can't simultaneously take someone else's girl and be pissed off when someone else takes your girl... Karma brah

[BootneckBrah]

The brotherhood is real.

[djeffreys]

Why? Because the kind of kunts who cheat are the same ones who have a breakdown when their girl cheats on them or when the girl who's cheating with them stops.

It takes two to tango brah, you're not morally safe just because "it's her choice". If you smash a chick KNOWING she's playing headgames with her man then you deserve anything that happens to you.


Would you want some dude to fuk your wife? No? Then don't fuk someone elses.

Are you kidding? I was thrilled when my wife cheated on me. It just meant there was more chit to use against her in the divorce. I'd gladly buy the dude a beer.

[Represente]

There's a difference if you know she has a boyfriend versus if you think she's single.
If you know she has a boyfriend, you're just as much at fault and are a scumbag.
If you don't know she has a boyfriend/think she's single, then I'll give you benefit of the doubt and won't think down on you as bad because you didn't know any better.

[Benihanas]

You cant prevent, thats the whole point. Someone who wants to cheat is GOING to cheat. Does that mean you have to involve yourself excitedly, of course not but the responsibility certainly isn't yours.

All this statement is is a justification for your chitty actions. You don't know that, and to treat it as a statement of fact just to release responsibility from yourself is quite low-class.

Plenty of other women to choose from. Don't go for someone who's taken. Also, just because they're being a chitty person, why lower yourself to their level?

Are you kidding? I was thrilled when my wife cheated on me. It just meant there was more chit to use against her in the divorce. I'd gladly buy the dude a beer.

Location: Alabama

Credibility when discussing marriage: Zero

[notbadnotbrad]

One time I made a thread about smashing a girl with a bf and I was mod negged and negged about 40 times srs lmao

[2port]

Yes I agree with OP. It's not the guy that's ruining the relationship due to sleeping with the woman - the fact that she's willing means the relationship is already damaged. The sexual act doesn't really change much.

[Nickdude13]

Cause a lot are ***gots ,I remember creating a thread and everyone were negging me and a gay mod too ,they try to prevent cheating by saying those things (like it's gonna work), like I give a **** for random guys it's not my job to care for them

[GDPONE]

I dont control anyone elses actions but my own. I wish to retain what honor I have.

[drols]

Are you kidding? I was thrilled when my wife cheated on me. It just meant there was more chit to use against her in the divorce. I'd gladly buy the dude a beer.

Everything can be twisted in a positive manner!

[Iliftbra]

For the same reason you wouldn't shoot a man with cancer who has 90% chance of dying in the next week. His life may be fukked up (the same way their relationship is), but it's not up to you to decide to end it for them.

[Atlas_Army]

All this statement is is a justification for your chitty actions. You don't know that, and to treat it as a statement of fact just to release responsibility from yourself is quite low-class.

Plenty of other women to choose from. Don't go for someone who's taken. Also, just because they're being a chitty person, why lower yourself to their level?

Aware me on your alabama comment please.

Also nobody said anything about actively pursuing her, plenty of girls in relationships throw themselves at other guys. Seriously, I dont understand how people can get mad at the dude, was it weak maybe but the reality is its not his responsibility to care for their relationship. The one who really shat on it was the girl who decided that she was so unhappy with her relationship that she decided to cheat instead of simply breaking things off.

There's a difference if you know she has a boyfriend versus if you think she's single.
If you know she has a boyfriend, you're just as much at fault and are a scumbag.

How? how are you just as much at fault then her?

Are you kidding? I was thrilled when my wife cheated on me. It just meant there was more chit to use against her in the divorce. I'd gladly buy the dude a beer.

I think thats a positive way of looking at it imo, you learn that youre dealing with someone that isn't worth your time.

For the same reason you wouldn't shoot a man with cancer who has 90% chance of dying in the next week. His life may be fukked up (the same way their relationship is), but it's not up to you to decide to end it for them.

You do realize its the woman who ended it for them? Please tell me you're joking.

[djeffreys]

Location: Alabama

Credibility when discussing marriage: Zero

The dumbass is strong in this *******

[NateDG72]

I don't like it because every guy who bangs these girls with bfs is contributing to sloot behavior. No wonder girls are such skanks. Guys fall all over themselves for a piece of poos whether they have a bf or not. Then they come on misc in a rage fit whining about how they can't believe their bish cheated on them.

[Thankless]

Let's presume I have sex with a female that has a husband or a bf. If i don't know them personally then I owe them nothing, nor would I aware them. It's not my responsibility. If their gf decides to aware them it's her choice and their business.

That's like a female knowingly sleeping with a guy who she knows has a girlfriend then telling his girlfriend she slept with him. Sounds like something a sociopath would do.

[Ken-O]

I agree OP.


If i just stumble upon a chick and she happens to have a bf yet hits on me, im going to tap that unless i know the dude. Why? Because its not my responsibility, it isnt my RS and its sure as hell my dick the one getting wet... Dude probably deserves to get cheated on because hes an ******* to her, or dudes probably legit and a nice guy and shes the whore... I dont care either way thats not my business, my business is my cock.


Just as If my current gf cheated on me with some random dude i dont even know... I wouldnt be mad at him in the slightlest, because he isnt part of my RS or my life...

[SKIN__N__BONES]

If you know the bf than you are a kunt, if you dont know the guy who gives a chit. I understand the dont fuk over your bros but if its just some random guy's sloot than I dont see the problem. Shes going to sloot either way.

[headinahole]

Taking a break from your race baiting and bleeding heart threads I see.

[Atlas_Army]

Just as If my current gf cheated on me with some random dude i dont even know... I wouldnt be mad at him in the slightlest, because he isnt part of my RS or my life...

If you know the bf than you are a kunt

These

Taking a break from your race baiting and bleeding heart threads I see.

Focus on the thread at hand please.

[Nelly87]

Here's my .02.

Yes - if someone is going to cheat they are most likely going to find someone to cheat. However that is a b!tch ass move and you should just end the relationship before cheating. Just because someone is scared or a coward to end things does not give them the "Okay" to cheat.

As a dude - I have never knowingly slept with a girl in a relationship. I've been in situations at parties where people get drunk and one thing leads to another... Told the girl if she wanted to sleep with me, break up with her boyfriend if she isn't happy with him. 1 week later she broke up with him and I smashed. That chick then bounced around with other dudes for a few months and no idea what happened to her after.

Bottom line is if you knowingly sleep with a chick in a relationship - no rationale or justification or trying to twist facts to manipulate the situation matters. You're a piece of chit. The fact you knowingly slept with someone who was in a committed relationship is on you - quality girl you got there for your pump n dump. I can see you make excellent choices in your life.