30th bday: ask a girl officially in her sexual prime anything.

[arman24]

For the sake of the child please don't have kids after 35, gl with your Downs Syndrome goals of 2020.

[CharolaisBull]

Happy Birthday. How do you keep your pussy smelling fresh at 30?

[GeenoForreal]

OP: Who is your favorite muppet

[winterbulk]

Can you recommend any good seasoning for chicken?

[BrownRice123]

Please don't have kids

please

[Mightymuddy]

Please don't have kids

please

Please

[naturallyd2013]

'As a girl what do you think about my reasoning?
Only read the first two pages

But what do you think about this reasoning (I'm aware it's a delicate question and you might ignore it because it might be offensive but please answer)

>Everything you do determines who you become (obviously)
>Women with more pre-marital sex partners have a lower chance of having a stable long term relationship ( *****://unitedfamiliesinternational.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/non-marital-sex-partners1.jpg)
>Children raised by single mothers are 5 times more likely to kill themselves, 20 times more likely to become rapists, along with a whole lot of other problems (http://www.nownys.org/docs/fatherlessness%20article.pdf)
>Even if you're the "exception" to this trend, which I'm sure most women think they are, by doing it and being proud of it you're helping it become more socially acceptable.

Do you think this is wrong? Do you regret it?
Because in all honesty I think it's selfish and evil for you to live your life in the pursuit of your own happiness knowing it will likely put your future children which you supposedly love in risk.

Did you just not know? Or do you not care?

Edit: There is more than just one source for those points, too. I think they're well justified, but if you want to critique my logical flow, please do.

And this is why I misc. Instead of playing candy crush or chess on my phone while I wait on my car to get fixed, I can get some discourse in!

Geez I'd like to not have a long azz post, but I'm wordy so forgive me for the length.

As human beings both men and women have very strong biological imperatives to both have sex and also control our sexual needs for long-term quality of life benefits. Hence we want sum fuk, but we also try to shame and control the fuks of others for all lol!

As a woman, biologically most are wired to want sex and emotionally bond with the most fit male possible to ensure the safety and provision for ourselves and our offspring. We want love and strong emotional connection with the male we desire. Our sex drive isn't as strong as the male sex drive, while the male capacity for emotion isn't as strong as a woman's. I think we're born with these biological deficits to encourage men and women to learn and grow from one another.

The negative effects you described in your post that we're seeing in today's society is a result of men and women being encouraged to act outside the realm of the initial natural biological gender imperatives. I say "initial" because human nature isn't static but will change and adapt with it's environment.

In our current environment, women are socially rewarded and encouraged to be as sexual as possible as young as possible. Women are now shamed by both men and other women to become as promiscuous as possible and sexual promiscuity is a requirement for any type of relationship with today's male. Also true emotional vulnerability and love is viewed as weakness.

To adapt to this environment, women have sought to become more like males in their sexuality in that they are trying to convince themselves that they can find emotional and physical satisfaction in brief meaningless sexual encounters. Ironically, they are actually mimicking a false attribute associated with some men b/c many men themselves will tell you that sex in meaningful relationship with someone you care for is more satisfying than ****ing randoms.

Regardless of all of this, the nonsense you're describing is caused by cultural trends causing men and women to lie to themselves about basic biology. Common sense is no longer common these days good sir.

[PatheticPeter]

what state are you in? not mentally, on the map.

[FitnessBlue]

OP, you are now ready to join the 30+ crew. Come on over.
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=165064761

[mdrive22]

oh hey gorbeth

[ClarkCheekyKent]

Also lol'd at the edit. It's been my rule for a while now. #FA tho

I can confirm

[PtMD]

DO NOT date a female med student or doctor

just don't. holy **** you will be shooting yourself in the foot

i can confirm my foot has a couple of bullet wounds already

But i've learned and i'm shooting at another place now


OT: Nothing to ask sis, happy bd and keep doing a good job in the pediatric ICU

[Flexish]

LOL okay run away from the argument.
The reason I used the beta/alpha thing is to show how ridiculous the mindset is. See you're just criticizing the way I'm writing because you can't criticize what I'm writing. You're trying to leave the conversation when you're blatantly wrong with a little face by criticizing how I write. Disappointing.

To neckbeard:
Ad hominem lel

actually no. There is an assumption again.

I'm leaving because you are showcasing the emotional control of a tantruming toddler and your dissertations are pretty pointless. When hysterics come into play, along with swear words and other unnecessary bits of information, yeah, I have no desire to continue. Work on your presentation and take the emotion out of it. I'm simply pixels on a screen.

[buildingbrah]

So let me get this straight, you expect a dude to go down on the first fuk on a girl who's had 20+ dicks in her because it shows he's adventurous? Chit I race cars and jump off planes on the regular but even I'm not that adventurous.

[SKIN__N__BONES]

DO NOT date a female med student or doctor

just don't. holy **** you will be shooting yourself in the foot

why not?

[JurassicBrah]

ITT: OP is 8 years past peak sexual market value, and now has to desperately and pathetically resort to the misc to garner male attention that her life is now devoid of.

Classic, womyn gonna womyn.

[Mightymuddy]

In our current environment, women are socially rewarded and encouraged to be as sexual as possible as young as possible. Women are now shamed by both men and other women to become as promiscuous as possible and sexual promiscuity is a requirement for any type of relationship with today's male. Also true emotional vulnerability and love is viewed as weakness.

Err, I don't value promiscuous women, which is probably why I've been accused of slut shaming in this thread (well I guess I have been)

I suppose you're talking about rap videos and stuff?

I think one of the main differences between the upbringing of men and women is that a women is told from a young age that her sexuality is marketable and she determines a lot of her self worth from it. And so to reassure herself that she's a "worthwhile" women she'll exercise her sexuality and see how much she's "worth"

[Roke]

Your sexual prime is when your estrogen and testosterone are at their highest, which is around 25.

You're simply less fearful of men now that your estrogen is lower.

[WizardMode]

In what world are 30 year old women in their sexual prime rofl.

Professional prime sure
Relationship prime of course
Overall life prime you bet

But biologically set in stone sexual prime? LOOOL nope.tiff. That's teens and early twenties until like 25 for women by biology itself. The mere fact that you have to say you're in your sexual prime in the title is just proving it, you're basically convincing yourself by saying it out loud, it's cringy as **** just take your years with pride for what they are.

[ThatzItBoiiiIiZ]

why not?

Here's what I have noticed amongst the people I study/work with. Of course it doesn't hold true for all of them, but I don't want to take the chance.

- most are severely self-entitled and think everyone is out to oppress them

- self-absorbed and very selfish

- think that being a woman in medicine automatically raises their desirability in the same way as being a doctor does for a man, thus they feel they deserve men that are out of their league

- will usually dedicate their life to medicine instead of making adequate time for their family and kids (note - this is OK with me but not a quality that I look for in a partner. So don't bother trying to call sexism because it's tired and incorrect).

- won't have much time to spend on the relationship

- are convinced that being a med student/doctor is the hardest thing in the world and that they have no time for anything else

It's more of a general attitude which is readily apparent when you spend time working in the medical field. I would much rather shack up with a nurse than a female med student/doctor, but I go one step further and do not date within the medical field at all. You get many of the same issues with nurses, except on a whole they are more argumentative and many have inferiority complexes.

Tl;dr career women are not good for you if you are looking for a fulfilling relationship. No hate on them, I fully support women who want to dedicate their life to their career but that is not a quality I look for in a potential wife because I think family will suffer. Much better to date someone who has a stable 9-5ish job and has time for life outside work and is ready to have a family and make sacrifices for that family.

- (some thing I forgot) often by the time they are ready to have a family they will be in their 30s. Med school + training can take more than 10 years. This is unacceptably late and it's why men date women younger than them on the whole

[SKIN__N__BONES]

Here's what I have noticed amongst the people I study/work with. Of course it doesn't hold true for all of them, but I don't want to take the chance.

- most are severely self-entitled and think everyone is out to oppress them

- self-absorbed and very selfish

- think that being a woman in medicine automatically raises their desirability in the same way as being a doctor does for a man, thus they feel they deserve men that are out of their league

- will usually dedicate their life to medicine instead of making adequate time for their family and kids (note - this is OK with me but not a quality that I look for in a partner. So don't bother trying to call sexism because it's tired and incorrect).

- won't have much time to spend on the relationship

- are convinced that being a med student/doctor is the hardest thing in the world and that they have no time for anything else

It's more of a general attitude which is readily apparent when you spend time working in the medical field. I would much rather shack up with a nurse than a female med student/doctor, but I go one step further and do not date within the medical field at all. You get many of the same issues with nurses, except on a whole they are more argumentative and many have inferiority complexes.

Tl;dr career women are not good for you if you are looking for a fulfilling relationship. No hate on them, I fully support women who want to dedicate their life to their career but that is not a quality I look for in a potential wife because I think family will suffer. Much better to date someone who has a stable 9-5ish job and has time for life outside work and is ready to have a family and make sacrifices for that family.

yeah I see what your saying in that they are constantly working/studying portion so its hard to have a relationship. I do see quite a few young attractive residents around the hospital though.

[Dirk Diggler]

20-30 is not abnormal for an attractive 30 year old who hasn't been married. It's not a big deal.

[ThatzItBoiiiIiZ]

yeah I see what your saying in that they are constantly working/studying portion so its hard to have a relationship. I do see quite a few young attractive residents around the hospital though.

That's kind of the general gist, but also the attitudes that I spoke about. I find those very unappealing and incompatible with a healthy family life

[HouseBro]

30. sexual prime. wants kids. has none.

[Dirk Diggler]

Go ahead and make fun of my avi, I have fu<ked a lot more hot girls than you. When you grow up, you don't expect every girl to be a virgin. it doesn't matter.

[Paulie92]

Go ahead and make fun of my avi, I have fu<ked a lot more hot girls than you. When you grow up, you don't expect every girl to be a virgin. it doesn't matter.

Lmao at unawares on dirk digglar

[naturallyd2013]

Err, I don't value promiscuous women, which is probably why I've been accused of slut shaming in this thread (well I guess I have been)

I suppose you're talking about rap videos and stuff?

I think one of the main differences between the upbringing of men and women is that a women is told from a young age that her sexuality is marketable and she determines a lot of her self worth from it. And so to reassure herself that she's a "worthwhile" women she'll exercise her sexuality and see how much she's "worth"

I wasn't referring to you personally about valuing promiscuity...just more of a commentary on cultural trends today. As for how women are raised I disagree that girls are told that their sexuality is marketable. How would those lessons look? Lol! Instead women are taught that their worth is tied to their vulnerability and encouraged to increase their worth or find safety in marriage. Boys are taught that women are beyond humanity which is why some men resent women so much when they realize that females are just as human and flawed as males. But this is a little tangential.

Regardless of upbringing nearly every social avenue in our culture encourages and pressures women to be highly sexual to find success or even love. Slut shaming is merely a shallow critique that some engage in to make themselves feel morally superior or to bond with others by pretending to share similar views. But this line of reasoning has no teeth, b/c the same individuals will abandon all and any traces of slut shaming when sex is offered to them.

[HankScorp1o]

Go ahead and make fun of my avi, I have fu<ked a lot more hot girls than you. When you grow up, you don't expect every girl to be a virgin. it doesn't matter.

[mmaguy90]

So you were a cum dumpster for 29 guys and claim no sloot?






Sloots gunna sloot man I tell ya

[watto33]

I have a question

Is your husband an idiot for marrying a girl who has phucked 30 guys ? Then makes a post on a bodybuilding forum saying she is in her sexual prime and boasts how she has had sex with this many guys ?

Aware your husband then answer plz