Actually yes it is.
Looks matter. They matter alot. And thats coming from a dude who is fantastic at talking to women. Better than I am at talking to men. Have legit gotten women to sleep with me the same day, whilst sober. It took years to gain the confidence I have now with the opposite sex. And even then the importance of sexual attraction is simply undeniable. The reason most men disagree is because they refuse to believe me when I describe it to them. However I love to approach women wherever I feel the occassion calls for it. In a coffee shop, train station, library, bar. My rate of failure is shockingly low.
Most physically unappealing men dont have the same opportunity. And its really going to take alot more than some lame miscers who all seem to be teeming with anecdotal evidence (but never any pics) which disprove my theory. I have seen who and who does not pull, 95% of them its always driven by physical attraction. Once you get older u realize most women are attracted to the idea of men rather than men themselves. This is where miscers fail (the shredded ones at least)...your personality needs to fit your look. Cant be an aesthetic looking, alpha male adulterer if you have the personality of peter parker. No woman wants that. When she is looking for casual dick to fukk she is looking for brash, aggressive, arrogant men with an air of masculine energy.
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11-04-2014, 06:11 PM #91
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11-04-2014, 06:16 PM #92
First of all that statement doesnt even make sense. Makes you sound 19.
Secondly...just lol. Your world view is amusingly lacking and comical
You would wince if u knew the chit I have had women doing and the chit they're willing to do
Soooo...unless u have fukkbuddies who like to attend ******* fueled sex orrgies, get regularly propositioned bang mens wives, know 18 year old sloots who have told me they fantasized getting fukked by barnyard animals and have run trains on chicks with daddy issues...then no. You're not more experienced than me in anything. If you knew the true nature of the female mind dudes like u would go on killing sprees.
Banging mutual acquaintances is lame and requires zero effort. Any idiot can do it. Hence most men meeting significant others through friendship circles. Women keep the true nature of their sexual intent a secret from guys like u so they can continue selling the image that they're virtuous creatures who value "personality" and good nature.
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11-04-2014, 06:20 PM #93
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11-04-2014, 06:22 PM #94
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11-04-2014, 06:22 PM #95
Is that your way of saying that the words I used were too big for you to understand? Here, let me simplify it for you. You obviously are lacking in experience in the real world.
Secondly...just lol. Your world view is amusingly lacking and comical
You would wince if u knew the chit I have had women doing and the chit they're willing to do
Soooo...unless u have fukkbuddies who like to attend ******* fueled sex orrgies, get regularly propositioned bang mens wives, know 18 year old sloots who have told me they fantasized getting fukked by barnyard animals and have run trains on chicks with daddy issues...then no. You're not more experienced than me in anything. If you knew the true nature of the female mind dudes like u would go on killing sprees.
Banging mutual acquaintances is lame and requires zero effort. Any idiot can do it. Hence most men meeting significant others through friendship circles. Women keep the true nature of their sexual intent a secret from guys like u so they can continue selling the image that they're virtuous creatures who value "personality" and good nature.
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11-04-2014, 06:30 PM #96
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11-04-2014, 06:32 PM #98
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11-04-2014, 06:38 PM #99
LOL I always hear the bolded. So much its becomes cute. Just makes me reaffirm my opinion of u. But yeah, if u really want to open the pandoras box of female sexuality u need to have something which makes them want to explore. Talking good game to mutual acquaintances isnt it. It doesnt even require effort. Why? Because if u lock a woman and a man in a cupboard...eventually they will fukk. Maybe not today, not tomorrow...not even a week. But eventually, they WILL smash.
If a guy really wants to improve his sex life, beyond merely chasing women inevitably for some puss he'll need to elevate himself to a level above other dudes. This only happens by getting outside ones comfort zone, building an impressive physique, earning loads of money or status. Otherwise you're just another dick to most of these sloots. You're just playing the numbers...but on harder mode. This is where dudes who think they're good with women actually arent. They're only hitting on women they already know who often are not even that attractive and just trying so many times they're bound to get a lay by way of availability. A cock is better than no cock. And most women wont sit around in celibacy waiting for a brad pitt. But they will fukk one behind their partners back.
Looks money and status reduces your numbers for success CONSIDERABLY. There is just no getting around that.
The problem with miscers is none of them want to be average. Estats and misc standards prove that. No one wants to be an average trying to get laid. No one wants to smash average pussy. If you want to be able to do anything above that consistently you're gonna need to be above average. Ironically, just like the dudes in your opening salvo. LOL this is no such thing as an "average guy who is very attractive to women"...u seem to really struggle with effective communication and the english language in general. Maybe u should improve that before doling out advice.
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11-04-2014, 06:39 PM #100
OP is right, im very good looking 8/10, and im not getting laid, cuz girls are afraid to speak with me, and i will never talk to them 1st, liek a beta *******
they will approach me, cu im alpha, im not gonna white knight some biatches, so i can get in their shorts, they will try to have me, cuz i lift and i have big dink.
But that is not working, i dont care... other 3/4/5-10 dudes are getting laid, cuz they are liek 7 days per week 5 hours per day wk the girls
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11-04-2014, 06:41 PM #101
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11-04-2014, 06:44 PM #104
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11-04-2014, 06:44 PM #106
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agree with OP in a way, but I'd honestly rather work on getting big/aesthetic then stay average and have to put more effort
right now I can only get mostly 4-6/10 sloots occasionly 7s with no game but that chit never happened before I started lifting
once I reach my final form get to 8% bf big and shredded and grow a beard I'll become aesthetic as fuk and I will bang hbb's with no effort soon..
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11-04-2014, 06:45 PM #107
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11-04-2014, 06:46 PM #108
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=164368781
the world is a crazy place
lol u dudes literally have no idea...u have NO FUKKIN IDEA how fukkin insane the female sexual mind truly is
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11-04-2014, 06:49 PM #109
Pointless, thread is pointless. For the benefit and education of my fellow Miscers, here's what girls go for:
1. Has a good job - provides regular income and spending money
2. Has assets - any type so long as a man has something
3. Is a door-mat or can be turned into one - girls love a man with no backbone
4. Has an average or above average c o c k
5. Not so fat
6. No weak chin
7. Does not look retarded
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11-04-2014, 06:50 PM #110
I'm above average looks and I treat women as if they are only a wet hole. They are still attracted to me. I don't have a job either and I'm awkward most of the time.
And please don't rate your friends. You know fuk all about facial aesthetics. Visit ********.com for a month or two and then come back.
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11-04-2014, 06:53 PM #111
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11-04-2014, 06:54 PM #112
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11-04-2014, 06:54 PM #113
Not true if you know some people girls will talk to you first. They won't come up in public but if you have at least some friends or even sit in class with girls, they will make it known that they are attracted to the objectively good looking guy. I'm not saying you can be completely mute, but you don't have to be skillful at all. At you need to do is express some interest.
If this doesn't happen to you, then you're not good looking.
Edit- Nevermind I only read the first paragraph. Second paragraph contradicted everything so I can't comment.
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11-04-2014, 06:55 PM #114
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11-04-2014, 06:55 PM #115
boffman, just give it up
Looks are fukking important. Your anecdotal evidence doesn't mean jack chit.
does that guy need to dress like a GQ model or to befriend a bunch of girls or to learn PUA to get girls? NO
all he's wearing is a cheap white t shirt and jeans and he can slay more girls than 99.9% of the guys. ALL BCUZ OF HIS LOOKS
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11-04-2014, 06:55 PM #116
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good looking bros have it easier, but it's not everything.
sure girls will approach you.
and yes they will make an effort to talk to you.
sure girls will spend loads of time chasing after you and s***
but if you dont have personality you wont bang
some girls are a gimme and they just absolutely adore you, but most girls won'tSniff hard as fuk when guys pass by to smell their balls crew
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11-04-2014, 06:56 PM #117
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11-04-2014, 06:56 PM #118
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11-04-2014, 06:58 PM #119
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11-04-2014, 06:59 PM #120
I wish this was true, I met this girl, we were talking for 4 months, first two months were beyond great, second two months, she started getting distant, couple of nights ago she posted a pic of a random guy on her snapchat (we were supposed to be exclusive), as of yesterday we stopped talking, **** feels bad! I was very into her, everything you said fits me(became a door-may and whitenighted the **** out of this girl).
I think you can get girls as long as you're not too nice and be a challenge, I was being myself from the beginning, I am a nice person (even to guys) and she probably got bored because there was no drama and I was understanding about many things..
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