wtf. why can't I ejaculate? gf is getting upset... (help me black jesus?)

[RoccoDB]

being srs here, I can ejaculate fine when I fap and if I'm the one in control during sex (deep long strokes, rough or fast) but other than that I can't finish at all although I get close sometimes


been with my gf for about 7 months and she was a virgin so the sex started out chit but now it's fine and she's started wanting to do more things but no matter what she does I can't finish... it's not down to her being bad either, she's gotten really good at head, riding and everything else and has started getting more confident regarding other stuff like sending pictures too. even did anal recently and finished inside her with no problems


well last night it was like her personal mission to make me finish while giving me head and i just couldn't. an innocent blowjob turned into her telling me to facefukk her so I literally grabbed her head and facefukked her for about 30 minutes srs, I got close a few times and it felt amazing but i just couldn't finish and ended up just turning her around and doing it inside her doggie style


wat do misc? she's starting to get really upset and acting like she isn't good enough to please me, I feel bad and dont know what to do or say to solve it also making me frustrated as fukk.

[BiggerDenYou]

she was a virgin

Lmao if you actually believe this.

[bobshmob123]

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/forumdisplay.php?f=18

[Hornyguyluv]

Can we see which miscer opened this second account?

[chinchillabrah]

My two housemates were nice, but they kept inviting over this friend of theirs named
Chance. He was black boy who came over all the time, and I hated his cocksure attitude. Inevitably, a vile incident occurred between me and him. I was eating a meal in the kitchen when he came over and started bragging to my housemates about his success with girls. I couldn’t stand it, so I proceeded to ask them all if they were virgins. They all looked at me weirdly and said that they had lost their virginity long ago. I felt so inferior, as it reminded me of how much I have missed out in life. And then this black boy named Chance said that he lost his virginity when he was only thirteen! In addition, he said that the girl he lost his virginity to was a blonde white girl! I was so enraged that I almost splashed him with my orange juice. I indignantly told him that I did not believe him, and then I went to my room to cry. I cried and cried and cried, and then I called my mother and cried to her on the phone. How could an inferior, ugly black boy be able to get a white girl and not me? I am beautiful, and I am half white myself. I am descended from British aristocracy. He is descended from slaves. I deserve it more. I tried not to believe his foul words, but they were already said, and it was hard to erase from my mind. If this is actually true, if this ugly black filth was able to have sex with a blonde white girl at the age of thirteen while I’ve had to suffer virginity all my life, then this just proves how ridiculous the female gender is. They would give themselves to this filthy scum, but they reject ME? The injustice!

[SupremeGlory]

Strong 1st post.

[RoccoDB]

Lmao if you actually believe this.

she bled the first time and it took her like 3 months to pluck up the courage to touch my cawk, i believe her brah.

[thsker]

Maybe switch to guys and see if that helps?

[RoccoDB]

link

who cares?

Can we see which miscer opened this second account?

ok "hornyguyluv", pretty sure I saw your username on to catch a predator brah.

edit: no I won't put a pic up of my gf on a site full of supreme gentleman and detectives. stop begging

[Rambo26]

lay off the vice-grip fapping

don't watch porn, also try a fleshlight for practice (srs)

[Chindrew]

Maybe switch to guys and see if that helps?

+1

OP I think you should facefukk a dude

[InnerThighChafe]

go nc

[L_Coops]

Wait, so you cum when you're in control and this only happens when she's the one controlling the thrusting and pace or giving you a bj? That's completely normal.

If you really want her to get you off then stop fapping and don't have sex for a couple days. Heightened sensitivity will make it easier to bust.

Or you could go NC.

[RoccoDB]

lay off the vice-grip fapping

don't watch porn, also try a fleshlight for practice (srs)

thanks brah


when I don't have sex all day I just have to though but ill try and cut down. when you stopped furiously fapping how long did it roughly take for you to start finishing properly other than during sex?

[foreveravirgin]

Go nc immediately

[second2noneBrah]

Dink to small ? Pussy to loose? You're gay?

[QueOndaWhey]

I couldn't cum from sex with like the first four girls I smashed srs.

I went on no fap/porn for like a month then busted in like three strokes raw dogging a milf.

Basically I got used to kung fu gripping my dik when fapping, so cut that out op.

[RoccoDB]

Wait, so you cum when you're in control and this only happens when she's the one controlling the thrusting and pace or giving you a bj? That's completely normal.

If you really want her to get you off then stop fapping and don't have sex for a couple days. Heightened sensitivity will make it easier to bust.

Or you could go NC.

i really want to finish inside her mouth though and she wants me to too, she's tried so many times. it feels amazing but I can't finish and it's so fukkin frustrating and she's blaming herself. does the sensitivity really only take a couple of days to come back?

Dink to small ? Pussy to loose? You're gay?

above average, fine during sex so no
tight as fukk
groce

I couldn't cum from sex with like the first four girls I smashed srs.

I went on no fap/porn for like a month then busted in like three strokes raw dogging a milf.

Basically I got used to kung fu gripping my dik when fapping, so cut that out op.

sex isn't the issue though brah, i can finish during sex multiple times in one day if it's rough, fast or deep long strokes. it's just during head or whenever she's in control.


the kung fu grip is a good shout though, just hard not fapping when you don't have sex that day, used to busting nuts and have an insane libido

[RoccoDB]

black jesus I need your input

[velvetmudhole]

Its all mental now op

[pushittothemax]

it's called death grip syndrome. google it.

[idontknowbro]

i'm exactly the same, it's pretty normal, i've also had plenty of mates tell me they can't bust from head

sometimes i'll fuk until i almost blow and then get gf to finish it with bj, good enough for me

[RoccoDB]

i'm exactly the same, it's pretty normal, i've also had plenty of mates tell me they can't bust from head

sometimes i'll fuk until i almost blow and then get gf to finish it with bj, good enough for me

tried that a few times and I just ended up losing the close to busting a nut feeling due to having to move into position and so on and she doesn't want to try it again because she prefers finishing together

[mrcarter1990]

i really want to finish inside her mouth though and she wants me to too, she's tried so many times. it feels amazing but I can't finish and it's so fukkin frustrating and she's blaming herself. does the sensitivity really only take a couple of days to come back?



above average, fine during sex so no
tight as fukk
groce



sex isn't the issue though brah, i can finish during sex multiple times in one day if it's rough, fast or deep long strokes. it's just during head or whenever she's in control.


the kung fu grip is a good shout though, just hard not
fapping when you don't have sex that day, used to busting nuts and have an insane libido

So whats ur point here OP?

[lcicchini]

being srs here, I can ejaculate fine when I fap and if I'm the one in control during sex (deep long strokes, rough or fast) but other than that I can't finish at all although I get close sometimes


been with my gf for about 7 months and she was a virgin so the sex started out chit but now it's fine and she's started wanting to do more things but no matter what she does I can't finish... it's not down to her being bad either, she's gotten really good at head, riding and everything else and has started getting more confident regarding other stuff like sending pictures too. even did anal recently and finished inside her with no problems


well last night it was like her personal mission to make me finish while giving me head and i just couldn't. an innocent blowjob turned into her telling me to facefukk her so I literally grabbed her head and facefukked her for about 30 minutes srs, I got close a few times and it felt amazing but i just couldn't finish and ended up just turning her around and doing it inside her doggie style
.

First, it's not uncommon to not be able to get off if someone else is in control because (among other reasons) of porn and fapping. Can you get off easily without porn? If not you need to learn to get off without that visual stimulus. Porn addiction is not trivial. Second, try not fapping for a few days before you guys get to it. You'll be more sensitive and ready to finish. Third, when you fap, do you just use one standard motion? Your body can get too used to the fist pump and won't respond to variations from another person. Try some different techniques when fapping so your dick knows all attention is good attention. Hope that helps.

[RoccoDB]

So whats ur point here OP?

u wot m8? i was answering the reds questions. the "groce" part is in reply of him calling me gay.

First, it's not uncommon to not be able to get off if someone else is in control because (among other reasons) of porn and fapping. Can you get off easily without porn? If not you need to learn to get off without that visual stimulus. Porn addiction is not trivial. Second, try not fapping for a few days before you guys get to it. You'll be more sensitive and ready to finish. Third, when you fap, do you just use one standard motion? Your body can get too used to the fist pump and won't respond to variations from another person. Try some different techniques when fapping so your dick knows all attention is good attention. Hope that helps.

any time I fap it's to pictures she sent me, videos I made with her myself or even sometimes just thoughts. I haven't fapped to porn in years, it's not attractive to me at all so it's nothing to do with that side of it but yeah when I fap it's just the same hand and movement every time. thanks brah.

[decentbloke]

tried that a few times and I just ended up losing the close to busting a nut feeling due to having to move into position and so on and she doesn't want to try it again because she prefers finishing together

dude, when you move positions just jack off on her face while she licks your nuts, like in porn, my ex gf used to love it when i did this, i felt awkward as **** with it at first but eventually it became awesome, just grab her by her hair and make her eat dem nuts, then when you're close put it in her mouth and face**** her a bit and blow in her mouth, damn i feel like calling my ex after typing this

also, tell her this minor problem is normal and to get over it

[kdelamont]

LOL at OP who wants to finish with a bj instead of coating his GF's sugar walls.

[SmarterChild]

Can't nut from head crew

[RoccoDB]

dude, when you move positions just jack off on her face while she licks your nuts, like in porn, my ex gf used to love it when i did this, i felt awkward as **** with it at first but eventually it became awesome, just grab her by her hair and make her eat dem nuts, then when you're close put it in her mouth and face**** her a bit and blow in her mouth, damn i feel like calling my ex after typing this

also, tell her this minor problem is normal and to get over it

we tried brah I just lost the feeling, also as you said it is awkward as it is but she was a virgin and has only just started getting confident enough to take control, send pictures andtry other things like anal and so on so it's hard. I'll try get her in the mood though and maybe she'll get freaky and let me do it


she thinks licking my balls is weird though, did it once during head but never again. feels badman