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10-30-2014, 05:43 AM #1Registered User
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Parents told me they're getting me engaged when I'm 26 (indian)
Last edited by rhinger; 10-30-2014 at 01:12 PM.
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10-30-2014, 05:45 AM #2C10H12N2O
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i am indian and let me tell you, being indian is actually a great thing. we have beautiful people and we have ugly people. just like any race. I for 1 am a great person, have great friends, and i take care of every one that is in my life and i am glad to do it, and for that i have people that love me around me. also, indian parents are one of the best parents you can have. sometimes they can be really strict, but they will take care of you no matter what, and they will buy you what ever it is that you need. as long as your not a selfish ****head. Also, we all have great jobs, lots of money and a family that we all love and take care off. suck my dick op suck my dick
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10-30-2014, 05:45 AM #3
no pics
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10-30-2014, 05:46 AM #4Registered User
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Thank you, come again.Originally Posted by hyuncho81
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10-30-2014, 05:46 AM #5βοΈ
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Lol @ agreeing to that at the age of 26. Personal freedom of peace
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10-30-2014, 05:46 AM #6
I love my parents but I'd tell them to F off with that noise. You are going to have to make a choice.
pics of lebanese girlfriend or negs.Stern Crew
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10-30-2014, 05:47 AM #7Registered Rep Trader
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OP why is it acceptable in your culture to marry a Hindu or a Sikh but not a Muslim or a Christian?
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10-30-2014, 05:47 AM #8OP, i am gonna neg you for not providing pics and for not growing a pair of balls.Originally Posted by rhinger
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10-30-2014, 05:47 AM #9Registered User
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damn bro thats sikh
Always pick #4.
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10-30-2014, 05:47 AM #10Banned
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You Gf has huge tits doesn't she?
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10-30-2014, 05:47 AM #11Registered User
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Cultural differences brah. It's worse in India, men get married off at the age of 23 to 18 year old women. It does ensure you don't get them sloots thoughOriginally Posted by TheBrentmeister
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10-30-2014, 05:49 AM #12Registered User
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How obedient are you to your parents? Have you lived in the US all your life? If so be your own man, appreciate the culture you're from but explain to them that thats not the direction you want to take (assuming you don't want an arranged marriage). They will be upset and they will argue with you for a long time but in the end they want you to be happy. They believe that this arranged marriage will make you happy and not some sloot you've been dating on/off for a couple years in high school. Break it off with the sloot, and go out there and search for your one and only.
Life is in your control.
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10-30-2014, 05:49 AM #13Registered User
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Hindu/Sikh: Dharmic religions, they're quite different from each other but a lot of Hindu families including mine believe in tenets of Sikhism, so we basically practice a fusion of the two religionsOriginally Posted by ILLUSIONZ
Idk, there are lots of complications with marrying Muslims/Christians. Indians aren't openly racist but when it comes to family/reproduction we're very insular~ Desi crew ~
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10-30-2014, 05:53 AM #14Registered Manmore
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I'm here bro
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10-30-2014, 05:53 AM #1501001000 01101001
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lots of differences, hindus do not eat beef usually, for example.Originally Posted by ILLUSIONZ
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10-30-2014, 05:56 AM #16Registered User
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i have a strict middle eastern family, they told me i have to get married by 24 my response was moving out. i dont care where you live if youre 26 and your parents force you do marry some one you are a *******.Originally Posted by rhinger
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10-30-2014, 05:57 AM #17One Of Our Top Posters!
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Crazy world we all live in huh
Well good luck with that, I'm gonna marry a stripper if I want to
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10-30-2014, 05:58 AM #18Works fine though
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Sikhening
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10-30-2014, 05:58 AM #19Registered User
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I don't really mind arranged marriage. It's got low divorce rates even outside India and I know probably just 5 arranged marriages that have failed in all my life. It's done to preserve our culture too, there's more likeliness of my children speaking my native language fluently and practicing our traditions if I marry someone from my ethnicity. It's got advantagesOriginally Posted by ambart
Most of my cousins were engaged around 26. I'm just shocked I've got 5 years left and das it mane
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10-30-2014, 05:59 AM #20Registered User
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Hindu checking in.
My dad doesn't give a chit who I marry.. but then again I'm half-caste lol (Indian [dad]/Australian).
So my bloodline is ruined lel.
tfw patriarch of family tree.God bless you Mami.
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10-30-2014, 05:59 AM #21lazy was taken
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U vat m8
see location
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10-30-2014, 06:01 AM #22Banned
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sikhs and hindus inter-marry a lot?Originally Posted by rhinger
lebanese girls are hnnnngggg. dat dere mix of european and arab hbb genes.
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10-30-2014, 06:01 AM #23Registered User
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I'm not 'forced' to choose, I can pick who I want from my community, tell my parents, and they'll communicate with her parents. Or, your parents suggest a girl to you, and you decide whether or not you'll marry her so you can turn it down if she's unattractive/has a reputation. That's generally how Indian arranged marriage works these daysOriginally Posted by MufasaBrah
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10-30-2014, 06:04 AM #24Registered User
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- no way my parents will accept gf of 4 years on/off because she is lebanese christian, i need to be married to a hindu/sikhOriginally Posted by rhinger
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10-30-2014, 06:05 AM #25Registered User
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Impure blood m8. You have shamed the family nameOriginally Posted by Awephuckbye
Yeah Sikh/Hindu is probably the most common inter-religious marriageOriginally Posted by gharamlifter
Normally Hindu parents wouldn't accept brides/grooms from Abrahamic religions
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10-30-2014, 06:05 AM #26Registered User
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And you sir are clearly not aware of cultural differences..Originally Posted by ambart
"They will be upset and they will argue with you for a long time but in the end they want you to be happy" just lol... Wouldn't be unheard of if they ever speak to him again.
His family will look like a joke to other families due to the fact that he's not with an indian girl.
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10-30-2014, 06:07 AM #27MFC REPORTED BRAH
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You could man up and tell your parents to go F themselves? I'm 31...white, blue eyes, and light hair. I pretty much only date south american/hispanic girls. Brazilian, Colombian, Argentinian, etc. My parents don't like it but a single fuk is not given. Plan to be moved out by 26 and do whatever the hell you like.
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10-30-2014, 06:07 AM #28Registered User
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hahahahahahahOriginally Posted by lazi
also OP,
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u fuking wot m8
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10-30-2014, 06:07 AM #29Registered User
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lol @ breaking up with your chick so you can be with the person that your parents pick. I'm sorry but that culture sucks, no way could I go for that.
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10-30-2014, 06:07 AM #30Registered User
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Lool I've always known that my wife has to be from my ethnicity. Indian children grow with that in mind. I'd even prefer to marry someone from my own ethnicity (no racist) because i want my children to speak my language fluently and practice our traditionsOriginally Posted by MufasaBrah
- no way my parents will accept gf of 4 years on/off because she is lebanese christian, i need to be married to a hindu/sikh
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