I trusted to let her go on vacation as one of her stupid friends just split with her bf and wanted to get away, she hasn't even bothered to call me all week, just one text a day and didn't text me all day yesterday, got some ****ty text this morning saying she's been out to 5am in bars, then went home early the next night as she going on a day trip today, then I see she has added a barman from the area she is in and has been drinking in as a new friend on ********?? Haven't replied to text all day because of this, Am I right to be feeling suspicious or am I being a insecure *******? Things have been bad between us lately to
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10-23-2014, 10:21 AM #1
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Gf on vacation/holiday with friends....
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10-23-2014, 10:39 AM #24
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when she comes back though she will try to contact him obviously.
OP if she is posting on FB and updating all that **** and can't even send you a text that is fuked up, especially if its a 2 year relationship. just go no contact and when she comes back if she tries to contact her just tell her its over.
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10-23-2014, 10:39 AM #25
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I personally think you're being an insecure *******(your words). She's on vacation dude. Let her vacate. Why does she need to check in and call/text you throughout the day? You two see each other everyday when you're not away from each other, so what's a few days?
Jesus man, get ahold of yourself.
Lol @ "trusted to let her go". Sounds like you have some issues you need to work on OP. She's a grown woman, she doesn't need your trust or permission."ERMUHGAWD Crew"
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10-23-2014, 10:45 AM #29
Agreed. These threads are making me look like a Black Jesus nuthugger - every time I come into the thread read a bunch of BS answers and then see BJ posting something sane and reasonable.
The only thing in OP's post that would make me even a little bit suspicious is her adding the barman on FB. Other than that...get over it. If you've ever had any female friends you'd know they can go out and party hard time after time after time without ever doing anything sexual with anyone. In fact, all the female friends I used to go to bars with in my younger days couldn't stand all the guys there - they just wanted to have fun with their girls.++ Positive crew ++
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10-23-2014, 10:46 AM #30
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Either 10/10 trolling or way too secure.
These hoes want someone to step in and lead. If you've set the frame right, and the chick is worth half a ****, she'll know what her "vacation" with her friends looks like, to all parties. This knowledge plus you being the man = her coming to you and going "my dumb friends want to go on vacation, but I know it's slooty so I'm not going." srs you've lost with this one, move on and learn psychology. Chick I was boning one time had a bachelorette party of one of her good friends, but she knew they were getting strippers. Told her that I don't date chicks that hang out with male strippers. Guess whether she went to the party.
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