Facial aesthetics and physique are only important when you're basically a pussy on the inside, and even then, they won't help much.
This girl is basically saying you're being too needy because she views having you as a responsibility. Trust me, most guys are too needy although they themselves could swear on their dearest relative's grave they aren't, it's hard to be objective about these things.
Whenever a girl says she doesn't deserve you, it's a red flag.
I'll translate what she's saying to you to man language : I am no longer feeling this relationship, I am an emotional creature and I feel guilty for having dragged you along with me for such a long time, I still care about you due to our past, and I don't want to hurt you, but you're not the kind of guy I see myself with. I want to go find a true man that can fill my ovaries with potent cum and impregnate me with quality babies. I hope we can still be friends so I can emotionally adapt to being single and use you for personal validation if I don't find the aforementioned man in a short time span. No hard feelings right ?
Edit : My advice is, kill it. Girl is past. Good, bad, doesn't matter. Don't care, move on. Don't wonder about it, or concern yourself with the "what if"s and "why"s. This relationship was a dump, a painful one to be sure, but now is the time to flush it down the toilet.
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