How the fuk do i lose these feelingd i'm having for this girl?
She's a very good friend of mine and we talk together regularly. She writes to me almost everyday. i'm madly in love with her. And have been for a long fuking time now. I know she doesn't feel the same about me. I hate feeling like this. I just want to get over her. I think about her when i wake up, and befote i go to sleep. I don't even fukking do it on purpose. Im having all these weird feelings that i can't control, and it's ruining my concentration and ability to get chit done.
Advice for a fellow misc brah? I just want to feel normal again
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10-10-2014, 08:22 AM #1Alcoholic Brah
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How the fuk do i lose these feelingd i'm having for this girl?
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10-10-2014, 08:23 AM #2Registered User
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Ask her out
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10-10-2014, 08:24 AM #3Registered Doucher
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1. Stop being a *******
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Edit: what I mean by this is ask her out and take her off that damn pedestal. I'm 100000% positive she's not that special. If she rejects you, don't talk to her anymore and work on bettering yourself. Don't be the cuckold ******* she talks to about her bullchit problemsLast edited by xevolution; 10-10-2014 at 08:33 AM.
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10-10-2014, 08:24 AM #4Inuendo? In HER end Oh!
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And when she says "no"Originally Posted by Hornyguyluv
go NC.Mark these words in the annals (no homo) of bodybuilding.com.
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10-10-2014, 08:25 AM #5Registered User
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Your dad loves you, brahOriginally Posted by xevolution
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10-10-2014, 08:26 AM #6Registered User
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Tell her how you feel.
If she doesn't want you. Go NC and concentrate on yourself.
The feelings will fade. Stay busy.
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10-10-2014, 08:26 AM #7Alcoholic Brah
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She doesn't want a relationship with meOriginally Posted by Hornyguyluv
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10-10-2014, 08:27 AM #8Registered User
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Honestly only way to lose feels for one girl is to get feels for a new girl. Only way that has worked in all my days.
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10-10-2014, 08:28 AM #9Registered User
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Force her!Originally Posted by Holmbrah
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10-10-2014, 08:29 AM #10Registered User
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nc, slay bishes, work on improving yourself
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10-10-2014, 08:29 AM #11Alcoholic Brah
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I'd just feel like a dikhead going NC since she's a good friend of mine. On the other hand, everytime i've been with her the feelings seems to grow stronger. Is NC really the only possibility?Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786
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10-10-2014, 08:29 AM #12Registered User
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Going NC works but it takes time. Do what I said and it will be faster.Originally Posted by Holmbrah
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10-10-2014, 08:30 AM #13
I know these feels all too well...and the answer is simple but difficult... you have 2 options... come clean about your feelings and hope that she feels the same way after all, but if not...you're going to have to slowly distance yourself from her.
I'm not gonna sugarcoat this... it's gonna be extremely difficult to do this, but it honestly is your ONLY solution...and things do eventually get better...and you WILL get over the feels...but that might take a long time.. a few months...and that might feel like forever...
this is why you don't have "girl friends" .. one or both will eventually develop feels..... learn from this OP, and if it turns out she doesn't like you the same way, make sure the next girl you regularly contact is wifey material, and make it clear early on that you want more than just a friendship...Good luck, I'm here for you if you need anythin or just wanna vent...PM me bro. Peace.
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10-10-2014, 08:30 AM #14Registered User
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/this. NC will be hard at first but itll get easier. srsOriginally Posted by Born2Roam
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10-10-2014, 08:31 AM #15Saved
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That's the worst kind of friend zone. Sorry man, but there is no easy answer. No matter what you do, it's going to be difficult.
Good luck.
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10-10-2014, 08:31 AM #16Registered User
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Despite what guys are going to tell you here, there's only one thing you can do: tell her your feelings for her, and how you don't want to be around her if she's not yours. You have nothing to lose, who cares if you white knight her or you NC her, either of those won't help you get her. Follow your heart, and do it, you're human after all.
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10-10-2014, 08:32 AM #18
She doesn't love you, move on with your life.
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10-10-2014, 08:32 AM #19Brazzers account holder
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This obviously ,don't get over it ,go after herOriginally Posted by Hornyguyluv
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10-10-2014, 08:32 AM #20Alcoholic Brah
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Is there NO way for her to get possible feelings for me in any way? Or would she already have gotten them if that was an option?Originally Posted by markehx
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10-10-2014, 08:33 AM #21Mutant Bunny Owner
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Then ask her anyways, and if/when she rejects you maybe she will go NC and fix the problem all together.Originally Posted by Holmbrah
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10-10-2014, 08:34 AM #22Registered User
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If you're positive she doesn't have feelings for you, then spend more time with other friends and go meet girls. But if you think there's a chance, ask her out straight up and act VERY confident. Women love that
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10-10-2014, 08:34 AM #23Registered User
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The most likely way she ends up getting feelings for you is you stop WKing her and start getting with other chicks. If you can stomach it stay friends with her but make it obvious/talk to her about other chicks you are smashing.Originally Posted by Holmbrah
If she doesn't currently want your dink, telling her your feelings will only push her away.
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10-10-2014, 08:35 AM #24Registered User
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10-10-2014, 08:38 AM #25Registered User
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keep away from guns and sharp objects for a while till you get over her.Originally Posted by Holmbrah
maybe just ignore her for a while and see if she starts stalking you, if not then fap it off bro.Dick Proenneke = alpha
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10-10-2014, 08:38 AM #26Alcoholic Brah
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Thanks for your detailed reply. Appreciate every single one of you in this thread. I've noticed that every time i haven't been around her for a while the feelings starts to subside, but as soon as i see her again they come back instantly. Distancing myself from her might be the only thing that'll work.. I really didn't want this to be an option. Since she's the most amazing girl i've ever met. But then again, seeing her regularly won't help me one bitOriginally Posted by kmabd2
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10-10-2014, 08:39 AM #27Registered User
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feelings go away as soon as you bang a girl you deem to be better
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10-10-2014, 08:41 AM #28Alcoholic Brah
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The thing is that i NEVER initiate contact. She's always the one to do soOriginally Posted by mjnmj
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10-10-2014, 08:43 AM #29Registered User
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I've noticed this is a trend with girls that just want to be friends. I never initiate contact but they have no qualms about initiating texting and such every single day. Too comfortable and not worried about coming off clingy or anything, bad sign.Originally Posted by Holmbrah
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10-10-2014, 08:45 AM #30Registered Doucher
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That's cuz you're her outlet. You're the one who listens to all of her problems and is sincere with the replies.Originally Posted by Holmbrah
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