Tinder Thread Part VIII: The Revival.

[Luc1fer]

Man I hate flaky girls. Was sending dirty texts with one girl on Saturday, we set the date for tonight and now she won't even answer my "Hey how's it going?"

If she doesn't answer by the end of the night I'm just gonna call her out on it and ask her how she goes from being 100% dirty texting to ignoring me.

2 + 2 = 4. I stand by my theory that sending/exchanging dirty messages/pics is a sure way to increase probability of a flake. Basic psychology - if you're going to be sexual, do it covertly.

[brbacquiring]

don't "unmatch her" for gods sake. jesus. just let it be and if she messages you back, cool/ if not, who cares.

unmatching shows how butthurt you are. l

It stops him worrying about it and thinking about talking to her, keeps his list clean. Deffo recommended or else he's going to crack and start sending her "please respond" chit. It seems unlikely she'll ever notice he's gone from her list, if she even remembers talking to him. He'll be buried under 100 new matches by now. So he won't seem like a **** for it, not that that would matter since their paths will never cross and he'll be a distant memory in about 5 mins.

[bmk6]

What do you guys usually reopen the conversation with?

Yeah I know, I probably won't do that.

Some kind of inside joke your have going with her or something original. "Hey I'm at the grocery store and just saw your twin sister"

[stormyaus]

My current city is only like 300k people, was out of new swipes in a day even without an autoswiper.

[HelpfulBrah]

Think I got some girl to come over tomorrow night. Face timed for a while and as I put down my phone she texts she wants to ****, I tell her to come on wednesday and she said alright. She has a dog sitter lined up and driving 1hr and 30 mins for some dick lol. Hope she doesn't flake but could care less.

[Fawky]

It stops him worrying about it and thinking about talking to her, keeps his list clean. Deffo recommended or else he's going to crack and start sending her "please respond" chit. It seems unlikely she'll ever notice he's gone from her list, if she even remembers talking to him. He'll be buried under 100 new matches by now. So he won't seem like a **** for it, not that that would matter since their paths will never cross and he'll be a distant memory in about 5 mins.

I've got her number, maybe I got lucky tho, just found her on ******** and she's made quite exessive use of MySpace angles which don't represent her at all.

[matw]

Any of you guys good at picking myspaced angled whales lol? Have this one that is cute with big teddies but no full body shot (can see torso but still..).

[Mr.ILL]

So this the thread we posting in?


Which one of you cheeky ****s is pete? Saw this in a girls moments lol.

[Ravishing_Rick]

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...post1302126461
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[matw]

I can't fuking believe it, texted this girl and she never responded (after she gave me her number), just realized I put in the wrong number (put 8 before the 5).

Oh well, lets see if the wrong number replies anyway..

[JamesW129]

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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Ravishing_Rick again.

[stormyaus]

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...post1302126461
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thank me later for helping you become less beta

Got no negative points, epic. Been on 3 tinder dates this week, each time the girl paid for all drinks hahah.

[Alphabolone]

How long do you guys talk before you ask for their number? After my 4-5 message the convo kind of dies down, most the girls are really passive.

[hotPretzel]

this.. the girl probably has 5000 matches if shes above a 7, just because she doesnt suggest alternative dates doesnt mean shes not into you.. you just havent warmed up her enough yet or some other dudes are spitting way better game then you and not being a bitch. i got a date set up next week with a chick who has 4000 matches and im the second person shes actually called(not texted) and decided to meet up. gotta get on dat primetime game my man

So should I give the meet up one more try? And should I do it via text or tinder? (yes strong autism)

[matw]

How long do you guys talk before you ask for their number? After my 4-5 message the convo kind of dies down, most the girls are really passive.

I duno, I kind of have a plan from the outset. Its kinda like a template (if you want a good example look at the little spoon application, that's more of a script though).

-Witty opener
-If she responds positively (which will be 90% of the time), follow the opener up with something (gotta improvise here depending on what she says)
-She responds positively again
-Close for number (assuming the timing is right)

So should I give the meet up one more try? And should I do it via text or tinder? (yes strong autism)

Do it over text, give her a day that you are free and see if she is down (don't offer a day that is ridiculously short notice). If she blows you off again then I'd just say onto the next one.

[pr0digy11]

How long do you guys talk before you ask for their number? After my 4-5 message the convo kind of dies down, most the girls are really passive.

i have a system, if i am actually interested i can get # in under 10 messages easy

basically dont bullshiit around

[hotPretzel]

Do it over text, give her a day that you are free and see if she is down (don't offer a day that is ridiculously short notice). If she blows you off again then I'd just say onto the next one.

Will post results

[HelpfulBrah]

Also I found out that actually talking to a bitch about random shet and not push the date card too early makes them more comfortable in meeting... I ****ed up so many times just rushing a meet up this time I pretend to care and this bitch wants the dick.

[matw]

Also I found out that actually talking to a bitch about random shet and not push the date card too early makes them more comfortable in meeting... I ****ed up so many times just rushing a meet up this time I pretend to care and this bitch wants the dick.

I might try this, I often try and push for a meetup after she responds on text. I fuking hate small talk, asking 'how was your day' kind of stuff though.

[Ravishing_Rick]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Ravishing_Rick again.

Got no negative points, epic. Been on 3 tinder dates this week, each time the girl paid for all drinks hahah.

good job mane

[YesWayNoWeigh]

You guys trust girls from other countries lol. Idk why but I think my American blood makes me hesitate on foreigners that live here now

[HelpfulBrah]

I might try this, I often try and push for a meetup after she responds on text. I fuking hate small talk, asking 'how was your day' kind of stuff though.

dont ask them questions another guy would ask. biggest tip ever i have read. like for goodmorings i would say, dont you hate waking up with a boner all the time? goodmoring or random times " i just saw this item and thought of you" just make it fun and shet. i rarely ask them how their days were they ask me and i say you know fighting dragons and man eating ponies. they normally laugh even tho i havent done **** all day lol just keep it a mystery. this bitch tells me she hates how im so mysterious because i never talk about myself. im ****ing her tomorrow night.

[A0wner21]

Any1 got an old ******** account they don't use? Pm me

[matw]

dont ask them questions another guy would ask. biggest tip ever i have read. like for goodmorings i would say, dont you hate waking up with a boner all the time? goodmoring or random times " i just saw this item and thought of you" just make it fun and shet. i rarely ask them how their days were they ask me and i say you know fighting dragons and man eating ponies. they normally laugh even tho i havent done **** all day lol just keep it a mystery. this bitch tells me she hates how im so mysterious because i never talk about myself. im ****ing her tomorrow night.

I'll try that out, cheers brah.

Speaking of which got a number, texted her only for her never to reply. bish why give me your number if you don't plan on replying..
Think I should have a break from tinder, sht like that gets extremely frustrating.

[BrahnyMan]

So maybe I dun goofed...

Cliffs:

Have a hotel for the week to myself
Chat with a sloot
She is interested
She comes over that night
We talk...cuddle...makeout
As we lay down I hold her hand and move it towards my cawk
She says no


So I tell her the door is right there and she leaves

I mean srs brahs...why are sloots not dtf?

[imasadknicksfan]

tinder reminded me the benefits of having a girlfriend.

texting 5 girls at a time is so ****ing annoying.

[hotPretzel]

Will post results

Girl plays soccer in my league, asked if she wanted to play some pickup soccer on saturday (always a big group of kids playing at 5:30), says she has plans she'll let me know if shes back in time. Not looking good boys.

Edit- we have movement, all is not yet lost.

Edit 2- girl is still being reallt talkative and responsive like before, which I take as a positive sign.
-girl says she hopes it doesnt rain, shes a klutz and doesnt wanna slip playing soccer and look dumb.
-i reply "ill try not to laugh, I promise! if it does I'm sure we could figure out something else to do...". not a huge escalation but something to get it moving in that direction
-girl completely ignores escalation and writes a long paragraph about how if it does rain she thinks her roomates have a backup plan if it rains.

not sure if shes a potato or im overthinking it.

[NordicTiger]

I'm in a college town of ~15k students and about 60k total population. Is Tinder even worth getting with such a low population? I'm a student and do fine getting bitches, just looking into Tinder to potentially add a few sloots without much work. Thoughts?

[imasadknicksfan]

So maybe I dun goofed...

Cliffs:

Have a hotel for the week to myself
Chat with a sloot
She is interested
She comes over that night
We talk...cuddle...makeout
As we lay down I hold her hand and move it towards my cawk
She says no


So I tell her the door is right there and she leaves

I mean srs brahs...why are sloots not dtf?

retarded as **** bro..she would have ****ed eventually smh

[weightsloveme]

I'm in a college town of ~15k students and about 60k total population. Is Tinder even worth getting with such a low population? I'm a student and do fine getting bitches, just looking into Tinder to potentially add a few sloots without much work. Thoughts?

Definitely worth it with 15K students.

When I went back home to visit (town of 100K) I quickly matched with a lot of women (due to being 'new' to that Tinder pond) and it was easy to pick and choose (what sucked was not having a place to take them - sold my condo before buying my house out here).

Point is, definitely worth it. Especially since you'll match with a good amount of women right off the bat.