You need to build some interest. Back handed compliments always do the trick for me. Also stop replying to her right away, she obviously likes that you're giving her tons of attention and asking her questions. I'm assuming she messages you and you message her back instantly. Give her a half day or day off, you're a busy guy and have other girls to talk to.
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12-18-2014, 03:12 AM #7891
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12-18-2014, 03:19 AM #7892
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12-18-2014, 03:26 AM #7893
Your phone would be erupting non stop with matches/messages. As for the weekend... Your thumbs would be phucked from all the typing. You would be getting matches faster than you could message them.
When I spoofed Washington DC:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...post1321655131
I was running only a 6 mile radius and in a little over 24 hours had 140 matches. If I were running a bigger radius it would have just been stupid. Most of them obviously flood in at the peak swipe time, I have vids of me trying to keep up with messaging all the matches, it was insane.
The huge advantage of it is it cuts out the 'luck' factor, because you KNOW any active swipers will see your profile.
Also with that many matches you just start burning through them hunting for the DTF chicks, I had a chick all dressed up and waiting in the lobby of 'The Jefferson' for me on a Saturday night (still feel bad about that to be honest), but obviously I blasted that same message out to heaps of chicks to find the few that agreed.
I could travel the world with this bot, hopping from major city to major city and a phuck a different girl every night (without having to leave my hotel room I should add). Most nights I'd have my pick of several. It is literally THAT GOOD.
It's basically the 'picking up chicks' equivalent of spam mail.Last edited by BRBMakingMoney; 12-18-2014 at 03:32 AM.
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12-18-2014, 03:34 AM #7894
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12-18-2014, 03:35 AM #7895
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12-18-2014, 03:54 AM #7896
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12-18-2014, 04:01 AM #7897[52 books in 52 weeks Crew]
"Let your life lightly dance on the edges of Time like dew on the tip of a leaf." - Rabindranath Tagore
“We enjoy and even thrill to godlike possibilities we see in ourselves in such peak moments. And yet we simultaneously shiver with weakness, awe, and fear before these very same possibilities.”
― Abraham Maslow
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12-18-2014, 04:02 AM #7898
It works because it's a competitive advantage. A competitve advantage that would be lost if I just told everyone how it works. An exploit that would be closed by Tinder if too many people started doing it. A method that took me weeks of time, effort, hard work and research to discover.
Time that could have been spent building my business. My consulting rate is AU $200 an hour FYI, and my knowledge, algorithms, software and skills are sought by some of Australia's largest companies.
So show me your money, then we can talk algorithms. If not I have provided mountains of information on the algorithm and how to get laid off tinder ITT all FOR FREE. Go through my posts, I've given away plenty of information in individual posts.
If you total up my time spent posting ITT using my hourly rate it's probably over $10k worth of value.
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12-18-2014, 04:24 AM #7899
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12-18-2014, 04:26 AM #7900
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12-18-2014, 04:29 AM #7901
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12-18-2014, 04:49 AM #7902
Yeah, I read the same thing.
You can also like girls though, and they can like you back, but it doesn't guarantee they'll see you, a 'charm' does. This is why I think Tinder will soon implement a paid 'bump bot', where you pay to get pushed to the top of the queue.
I'll prob check out happn at some point. I could program a bot that just fly's around a city collecting 'encounters' ie. crossing paths with women so I show up on their radar.
I also have no problem dropping $ to get laid with hotties, fact of life in the current market, and it's always been how online dating has worked for the most part. It's all about minimizing money and time spent though.
Dropping $100 (or even more) on credits to acquire an unpaid FWB for a few months is a good deal vs paying an escort $750 an hour for example. By the same token spending hours of your time a week with a GF you hate simply to get laid for 'free' is also a bad deal, because time is money.
So even if your blowing a grand a year on credits to have a stream of hot young FWB's that you don't have to spend much time with outside the bedroom, then it's probably worth it.
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12-18-2014, 05:02 AM #7903
Training weekend. Come up with a couple of disciplines: obedience, orgasm denial (this in itself is very powerful), disciplining etc.
Tell her you will be judging her and she will be rewarded or punished accordingly.
Basically you make a weekend where she's forced to please you any way you want and you get to reward or punish her as you feel like.
Did this with a fwb i had six months ago (the 22 yo i just wrote about) She absolutely loved it, actually booty called me mentioning that weekend just last week.
The key is the build up, talking about it and making her excited to perform well (or misbehave).
Or my all time favorite: tie her hands and feets, blindfold her and put some earphones with sexy music in her ears. Proceed to do as you please. That way she is totally vulnerable and robbed of every sense but sensations. Go down on her, make her suck you off, fuk her a bit, leave her so she's unsure what will happen next, slap her etc. Very intense.
For me dominance is a mental thing. Anyone can be physically dominating but it takes some skills to fuk with someones mind.
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12-18-2014, 05:08 AM #7904
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12-18-2014, 05:30 AM #7905
To above post:
Will experiment. I've dine orgasm denial. Telling her she can cum when I say she can. Just pausing when inside her, etc. Letting it build up. She loved that.
Sensory limitstions seem cool.
Mental > physical.[52 books in 52 weeks Crew]
"Let your life lightly dance on the edges of Time like dew on the tip of a leaf." - Rabindranath Tagore
“We enjoy and even thrill to godlike possibilities we see in ourselves in such peak moments. And yet we simultaneously shiver with weakness, awe, and fear before these very same possibilities.”
― Abraham Maslow
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12-18-2014, 05:56 AM #7906
Thanks to everyone giving out advice ITT, upped my Tinder game a lot (though that's not saying much).
Also, opener 'So what did you get me for Christmas?' is money for me right now. Trial run with 7 girls two hours ago and I have one number, one girl talking about me coming to her house and one just replied 'Me'
Too easy.
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12-18-2014, 06:30 AM #7907[52 books in 52 weeks Crew]
"Let your life lightly dance on the edges of Time like dew on the tip of a leaf." - Rabindranath Tagore
“We enjoy and even thrill to godlike possibilities we see in ourselves in such peak moments. And yet we simultaneously shiver with weakness, awe, and fear before these very same possibilities.”
― Abraham Maslow
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12-18-2014, 07:00 AM #7908
I'm giving off the wrong vibe. Girls seemingly DTF over text and then wanting to make me wait on the first date. Is my game ****e or do they want to bf me. I get them into bed fine then all the BS starts, getting sick of it tbh.
What do you say when faced with 'I'm not going to sleep with you on the first night' and 'I'm not that type of girl'.
I'm bad at dealing with LMR. Current strat is just to say ok 'ljbf' or 'i don't even want to sleep with you, you must think you're irresistible'.
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12-18-2014, 07:17 AM #7909
- Join Date: Oct 2008
- Location: United States
- Age: 38
- Posts: 680
- Rep Power: 346
I know this feel from when my account was new. Following basic scripts for all convos was necessary. I was copy/pasting too quickly on my phone and sometimes forgetting what I had on the clipboard. A few times I actually sent girls the phone numbers of OTHER GIRLS. Immediately had to awfukbye unmatch those.
Now I only average about 10/day but it's still more than I can realistically date or even talk to without it becoming a second job. I haven't participated in the threads yet but I want to thank you, Bronte, and all the other brahs ITT. You're helping out way more than you even know.425/295/580 @ 189
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12-18-2014, 07:22 AM #7910
The fact that she mention it means she's thinking about it.
I exagerate "who even mentioned sex? All i want to do is just look in your eyes and fall in love all night"
Said in a sarcastic way.
Or tease her by turning it around "wow there, already thinking about sleeping with me. I'm not that kind of guy"
Or reverse psychology "who said i was gonna let you "
Or just plain "i know, me neither" said with a grin while proceeding to escalate physically.
Basically you ignore her words and listen to her actions. Unless she plainly says no of course, then you dun goofed and stop immediately.
Most girls will try to convince you she won't sleep with you until she's on top of you moaning with joy. That way they can later say "it just sort of happened, i didn't plan for it" and keep their social value.
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12-18-2014, 07:39 AM #7911
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12-18-2014, 07:42 AM #7912
Yea the reverse psychology method is what I usually try but I think I need to back it up with my actions and stop (at least for ten minutes) trying to escalate. And see if that will get her to try and seduce me if she thinks i'm actually being serious about not even wanting to sleep with her.
Saying 'I don't even want to' then proceeding to try escalate doesn't really make her wonder. May try threatening to leave and actually leaving cos sleeping in a girls bed but not ****ing is pretty beta, though she did at least blow me so not too bad.
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12-18-2014, 07:59 AM #7913
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12-18-2014, 09:39 AM #7914
- Join Date: Jul 2012
- Location: Texas, United States
- Age: 31
- Posts: 1,946
- Rep Power: 1422
Strange app this is. I changed my search radius to something like 3 miles, and I swiped for a bit, and after a while the app said there were no more people in my radius. So from there I expanded my radius to 10 miles and swiped some more. After a little bit of swiping there, I went back down to 3 miles, and another batch of profiles came in. Wash, rinse, repeat, and numerous profiles come up after it previously said there's nobody in your search radius. Is it buggy, or is that a part of the algorithm?
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12-18-2014, 09:47 AM #7915
Anyone use botinder (now flamer / flamite) it looks like the matches button broke?
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12-18-2014, 09:49 AM #7916
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12-18-2014, 09:56 AM #7917
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12-18-2014, 10:16 AM #7918
i'm not sure, but I think I may have a chance with this tinder sloot
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12-18-2014, 10:32 AM #7919
- Join Date: Oct 2013
- Location: London, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Age: 31
- Posts: 2,229
- Rep Power: 0
can some tinder expert explain why when i go back to my home city i get like 30 matches in 12 hours but back where i go to uni (london) i struggle to get 2 or 3 a day sometimes?
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12-18-2014, 10:39 AM #7920
Do you guys use an autoliker or just swipe all of them or selective swiping? what works best help a ***** out
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