If your GF of 4 months refused to add you on ********, what would you think/do ?

[Poor Excuse]

sorry for bringing up such a lame topic, but this hasnt sat well with me lately. she says " i never use it" yet ive noticed her friend count rise from 50 -> 53 in the past few days , as well as shes changed her picture and posted a few times in the college confessions page.

im sorry, but what would yall do? i feel so lame for being insecure, but its 2014 and this is the social media age so its actually kinda commonplace to feel this way? ugh lol

[FitnessBlue]

Shouldn't have even gf'd her without seeing her ******** first. Also should ******** checkout, you should be added the moment you two decide to turn it into a relationship. All I see is flags in your situation.

[GONZO613]

Would run hard and fast. Shes scared youre gonna see some chit she doesnt want you to see.

[L_Coops]

That's weird.

Usually girls want to show off their new relationships and have the whole ******** official thing going n.

[6doublefive321]

lol at her saying she's not using it, hahahahhaa. Brah move on immediately keep her as a smash piece thats all.

[Poor Excuse]

would i appear BETA AS FUKK if i said "add me on ******** or im breaking up with you" ???

[Protege385]

would i appear BETA AS FUKK if i said "add me on ******** or im breaking up with you" ???

yes u would seem pretty beta. Just dump her

[FitnessBlue]

would i appear BETA AS FUKK if i said "add me on ******** or im breaking up with you" ???

You already are for relationshiping her before checking her ********...so at this point, it doesn't matter. Forget her when she calls you insecure for asking as it's a sloot defense mechanism. Just another flag.

[Zombreezy]

Punch that b*tch in the throat

[Poor Excuse]

damn

[MrBungle11]

So have you actually tried to add her or did you ask if you could? Either way it sounds sketchy.

[Poor Excuse]

So have you actually tried to add her or did you ask if you could? Either way it sounds sketchy.

she doesnt have the option for add.. only message lol.. and ive brought it up saying stuff like playfully like "youre just hiding me arent you" and shell say "i never use it" but yea ...

[Manne1]

the fact she only has 53 ******** friends says something already but to answer your question she in a way lied to you saying shes doesn't use it when you say she clearly does

[MrBungle11]

she doesnt have the option for add.. only message lol.. and ive brought it up saying stuff like playfully like "youre just hiding me arent you" and shell say "i never use it" but yea ...

Then that's an even bigger red flag, she's messaging other people and friending them and not you??

[beowulf10]

Everyone uses ********. It's one of the primary means of online social interaction at this moment in time. Her not adding you is a probably an indication she's not as serious about the relationship as you are, especially given the fact she's adding other people and not you.

Her actions are similar to not showing you off to her friends in real or not arranging for you to meet her parents, etc. It may not be as significant as meeting her friends and parents but it's still something.

[HeroesFall]

Everyone uses ********. It's one of the primary means of online social interaction at this moment in time. Her not adding you is a probably an indication she's not as serious about the relationship as you are, especially given the fact she's adding other people and not you.

Her actions are similar to not showing you off to her friends in real or not arranging for you to meet her parents, etc. It may not be as significant as meeting her friends and parents but it's still something.

Do not use ********. Stopped using it in college when it became the next MySpace. Goodbye to college fun.


Also, good luck when your potential employer checks your photos and sees some of the not-so-appropriate things you've done and you don't get the job. Social media works both ways. Setting your profile to private doesn't solve everything.

[Poor Excuse]

Do not use ********. Stopped using it in college when it became the next MySpace. Goodbye to college fun.


Also, good luck when your potential employer checks your photos and sees some of the not-so-appropriate things you've done and you don't get the job. Social media works both ways. Setting your profile to private doesn't solve everything.

Since you don't use fb, any input on my situation?

[funnymaskxx]

EX did this except it was on instagram...
exactly the same BS..
broke up with her cause of this trash and she ended up with a new guy 2 weeks later..
go figure dude.

[BigTimePlayer]

If she refuses to add you to her ******** & she goes on it than that's a huge red flag. There must be **** on there that she doesn't want you to see. And usually girls love putting "In Relationship" on their profile. Something doesn't seem right there.

[gisellyelly]

Lol definitely hiding something... whats thw big deal if she is on it or not if she cares about you she would simply add you to show you that there is nothing tI worry about.

Obviously she is lying to you about something. No doubt.

[HeroesFall]

Since you don't use fb, any input on my situation?

Get some attractive friends to add her and see what she does?


******** isn't a huge deal, she has 50 friends, also not a huge deal. She probably doesn't really use it. Probably checks it every once in a while, adds people she knows who added her and that's it. Does she throw any other red flags, like being shady or unattentive to you? I highly doubt she has 50 hook-ups and that's what she uses ******** for.

[BigTimePlayer]

Lol definitely hiding something... whats thw big deal if she is on it or not if she cares about you she would simply add you to show you that there is nothing tI worry about.

Obviously she is lying to you about something. No doubt.

This.

[SriBrah]

she says " i never use it" l

Thats a Poor Excuse


nomsayin brah?

but on a serious note, she's def hiding something. if theres some girl i really like then i dont add her until i get my timeline cleared up which has photos of me drunk, looking retarded, etc. it can give off a bad impression

[arya1974]

Yeah red flag, that's not right and if it walks like a duck..... Block her and move on

[JoKony]

She's treating the relationship casually, so you should too

[GenderOfPeace]

Coming in to say that it doesn't necessarily mean shtt, but in your case it probably does.

I have been seeing a girl since mid-july. (made thread about her before). We've had sex,etc. We were hanging out the other week and she was showing me something on ******** which turned into her asking who my friends are on there and her looking them up. I then said "funny that you haven't even added me as a friend yet". She said "lol okay I'll add you right now". She added me and I said "nope too late, denied" and clicked "not now" right in front of her. Come to think of it, that's probably what she was getting at the whole time.

She must have thought the same thing (that I was hiding something). When I'm seeing a girl I feel like ******** is too easy to creep/get hung up on things... I like privacy. Anyway. She actually re-added me today and I was like "lol okay clearly she thinks I'm hiding something" and added her.

The difference is that I eventually added her because I cared enough to alleviate her worries whereas your girl won't even talk to your about it/alleviate your concerns.

Also, beta as phuck to continue bringing it up in subtle ways because everything you've said reeks of insecurity to me. "are you hiding me"... dude get a grip and move on this girl is not good for you. Her excuse sounds like something I'd to a girl I just wanted to bang and knew liked me but I didn't feel the same.

[sandyr9]

Definitely something shady going on. Either she is hiding something or maybe more likely is that she is still not 100% decided on you, so she wants to be able to avoid becoming too involved with you knowing all her friends and family.

[1Dolla]

Let me tell you a story OP.

When I met my ex-GF for the first few months she didn't accept my friend request. I never brought it up though. After 3-4 months she accepted me however.
When we were finally friends on fb a picture of us in a nightclub was uploaded and she was linked in it.
When she saw it, she went hysterical and asked me to delete the link (it was on the clubs fb page and we were sitting at her computer).
I asked her why and she claimed it was because she looked bad in it.

Anyhow, after a year a dude from Switzerland contacts me on ******** telling me about their long-distance relationship and that he is done with her.
Turns out she was in a long-distance relationship with him and a normal one with me at the same time. Now you know why she didn't want to be linked in a photo with me, the Swiss dude would've seen it.



You got every reason to be suspicious.

[Rhettribution]

the fact she only has 53 ******** friends says something already but to answer your question she in a way lied to you saying shes doesn't use it when you say she clearly does

would rather have 53 ******** friends than 1000 i barely know or give a fuk about

[InfiniteRage]

EX did this except it was on instagram...
exactly the same BS..
broke up with her cause of this trash and she ended up with a new guy 2 weeks later..
go figure dude.

this... ex "didnt use her instagram only for filters" didnt want to make it official on ******** (bitches love doing that)
was all red flags, she got married a year after we broke up... i doubt she wasnt dating someone longer.

you are her **** buddy not bf.