This Girl Texts me Everyday But.... (pic)

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:30 AM

I don't like her like that and she doesn't like me like that but she texts me everyday (literally) just about random chit or when shes depressed. Shes going through a divorce and she has 2 daughters and has to pay the bills by herself, barley makes ends meet ,shes definitely in depression. I feel like I have to reply because everyone (man and woman) needs a shoulder to rest there head on sometimes (nobeta) Id feel bad if I ignored her cause shes already so depressed and when she talks to me it makes her feel a little better. One time she even said she questions her existence sometimes ... felt kinda bad after hearing that lol. Any other brahs had this problem ... what do .... idk if I can keep up with texting/phone calls everyday ... it gets annoying hearing the same chit everyday

**7Friez** · 08-31-2014, 02:31 AM

inn

**PrimeraRS** · 08-31-2014, 02:31 AM

this seems legit.

**Highwind7** · 08-31-2014, 02:32 AM

emotional tampon/10

**envisu** · 08-31-2014, 02:32 AM

is she getting help?

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:33 AM

Originally Posted by envisu

is she getting help?

Im not sure but she always asks me how im so happy and optimistic about life. Its scary I feel like she wants to suicide the way she talks sometimes.

**Blakliffy** · 08-31-2014, 02:33 AM

Youngarab brah, just keep being a nice person.

**Rizzo845** · 08-31-2014, 02:34 AM

Similar thing happened to me but this chicks dad died and she was basically guilting me into talking to her. Got kinda irritating and clingy and chit. All I did was go nc and blocked her. Seriously was the only way

anonymous · 08-31-2014, 02:35 AM

In for answers

Some girl I know who has little to no irl friends (met on vacation, so I don't count) texts me quite often. Really feel kinda bad for her because of her situation

**CliveTech** · 08-31-2014, 02:36 AM

You are a good brah. In b4 she asks you for money for the rent. Nah idk man it seems she really likes your company and talks. Just keep it up Arab brah. Inb4 you smash and have a new kid with her. She is hawt.

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:37 AM

Originally Posted by Blakliffy

Youngarab brah, just keep being a nice person.

Amen bro

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:38 AM

Originally Posted by composedpocket

not sure what the point of this thread is

if you dnt wanna talk to her, then stop talking to her

pretty simple.

I was seriously going to the other night than she bought up some chit like she wish she didnt exist and I was like fawkkkkkkkkk dat der moral dilemma

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:38 AM

Originally Posted by Rizzo845

Similar thing happened to me but this chicks dad died and she was basically guilting me into talking to her. Got kinda irritating and clingy and chit. All I did was go nc and blocked her. Seriously was the only way

Damn bro .... anything happened after that

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:40 AM

Originally Posted by CliveTech

You are a good brah. In b4 she asks you for money for the rent. Nah idk man it seems she really likes your company and talks. Just keep it up Arab brah. Inb4 you smash and have a new kid with her. She is hawt.

Hahah oh boy. Yea cant smash a muslim

**H1ch** · 08-31-2014, 02:40 AM

You answered that yourself, everyone needs a shoulder to rest sometimes. It's good to do things without expecting something in return

**GoalBrah** · 08-31-2014, 02:40 AM

How did you come to know her OPie?

**envisu** · 08-31-2014, 02:40 AM

she obviously gets some emotional strength from you. no moral obligation to keep it up but no foul in being a good Samaritan either. maybe steer her in the direction of professional counselling if it's that bad.

**scunny** · 08-31-2014, 02:41 AM

Stick it in her butt and pee.

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:42 AM

Originally Posted by H1ch

You answered that yourself, everyone needs a shoulder to rest sometimes. It's good to do things without expecting something in return

Im not expecting anything in return lol where did I say that

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:43 AM

Originally Posted by GoalBrah

How did you come to know her OPie?

She added me on ******** ... idk how these muslim girls find me lol

**H1ch** · 08-31-2014, 02:45 AM

Originally Posted by youngarab

Im not expecting anything in return lol where did I say that

You didn't, i'm just telling you that it's good to do it lol

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:45 AM

Originally Posted by envisu

she obviously gets some emotional strength from you. no moral obligation to keep it up but no foul in being a good Samaritan either. maybe steer her in the direction of professional counselling if it's that bad.

Yea ... maybe I should ignore for a few days and see what happens?

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:46 AM

Originally Posted by H1ch

You didn't, i'm just telling you that it's good to do it lol

I've been doing it for like 2 months bro trust me in the beginning I felt good that I was doing it but hearing the same bull chit everyday .... im thinking maybe next time she calls me I should just tell her to man up and accept the consequences shes made for herself

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:47 AM

Originally Posted by Rizzo845

She never ask me anything about it. See her at school once in a while and she basically just greets without saying anything else. Kinda has that look of dissapoin tment in her eyes ,feels. But it's the best option, u don't need anyone bringing unnecessary negativity in your life and killing your grind.

Dang ... Yeah I might have to try that for a few days .... if she stops texting than I think ill be good

**H1ch** · 08-31-2014, 02:47 AM

Originally Posted by youngarab

I've been doing it for like 2 months bro trust me in the beginning I felt good that I was doing it but hearing the same bull chit everyday .... im thinking maybe next time she calls me I should just tell her to man up and accept the consequences shes made for herself

Well i don't know the details of your conversations, but yeah sometimes you've got to tell the harsh truth to someone if needed

**Fuarkquaad** · 08-31-2014, 02:48 AM

shu, doesnt she have any family?

**CakeMonster217** · 08-31-2014, 02:49 AM

Get her to hire you as her therapist. You get paid she gets help win-win

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:49 AM

Originally Posted by Fuarkquaad

shu, doesnt she have any family?

She does she visits her parents frequently thats why im wondering why she needs to talk to some random guy shes never met lol.

**TheWorldIsUrs** · 08-31-2014, 02:50 AM

She uses you for emotional support until she finds a man to pound her silly/support her financial.

Cut off contact.

**youngarab** · 08-31-2014, 02:50 AM

Originally Posted by TheWorldIsUrs

She uses you for emotional support until she finds a man to pound her silly/support her financial.

Shes super muslim ... never mentions anything sexual but yea maybe your right

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