Found out today that she used to fuk her boss at her old job every single day in his office after work. Looked up who he was and he literally looked like a a chubby balding hobbit from lord of the rings.
Asked her Wtf and she just started bawling her eyes out saying she isn't sure why she did that. I then asked how many dudes she has slept with (told me 4 when we first started dating) and she said 7. I called bs and said I know it's over 10. She then told me 12. (At this point I figured she's probably lying and doesn't even know since she's probably lost count.)
I just don't know what to do brahs. She is a bit of a compulsive liar too, to make things worse. (Lies about a lot of small stuff) She's really ashamed of her past which is why she claimed she lied about it. But other than that I really like her and she's a great girlfriend. She is faithful and always in a good mood, it's just now I'm completely turned off sexually. Everytime I think about her, an image of a chubby hobbit pounding her on a desk pops into my head. As of now I'm 100% sure I'll never be able to have sex with her again. It fukking sucks because she had so much potential.
Need some advice brahs
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Thread: Can't get over gf's slooty past
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08-29-2014, 07:45 PM #1
Can't get over gf's slooty past
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Almost everything--all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure--these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
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Here's the thing with broken girls: you CAN fix them. Do not listen to people who consider seedy, compulsive lying hypocrite girls as "bargain bin pussy" or that those actions are red flags and you should run for the Hills. What these are are opportunities. Chances for you to fix this broken girl and make her better. Don't listen to anyone who says anything stupid here about this, the only thing you should listen to is the advice to stick around and save this ho. Also, the thing of it is this: If she's lying about little things that don't matter, that automatically means she will always tell the truth about important things. By that point she will be "lied out" and unable to lie, exhausted from already lying constantly to you about other things.
Look, you're my best friend, so don't take this the wrong way but, in 20 years if you're still here postin' in hhhnnnggg threads, beggin' for mod reps, and braggin' about whales you harpooned from POF, I'll f'in kill ya. That's not a threat, that's a fact, I'll f'in kill ya. You got somethin' none of us have, and you don't owe it to yourself man, you owe it to me. Cuz tomorrow I'm gonna wake up and I'll be red, and I'll still be a socially awkward/FA. And that's all right.
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I think her response to the question is the reason to leave. Instead of laughing at you and asking you why you care about who she used to fuk she breaks down and cries? I've never met a stable woman that cries when she finds herself in an uncomfortable situation. I don't know your gf so I could be wrong about her, but I'd run away as fast as you can.
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That is the most ridiculous logic I have ever heard.
Of course it doesn't change her past. In fact, I'd argue that a person's history can often be an indicator to future behavior. However, the fact is that a lot of girls go through slooty phases in their early 20s, and they can change - you don't think people can change?
The problem is that revealing that slooty phase as an absolute fact is difficult to mentally get past. I'm kinda on the fence on this whole thing tbh.
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