Found out my gf's been raped�.

[betteroffted]

Found out last night that around the time me and my gf started dating 6 months ago, a guy pinned her down and forced her to give him head. He was trying to pull her clothes off and she managed to run away. She never told anyone until she now told me. Turns out I know who the phucker is too�he's in one of the other fraternities on campus. Wasn't a drunken thing or anything cause they were sober, middle of the day at his frat house. first thing that comes to my head is that I'm gonna confront him on it and probably beat his ass the next time I see him, which i see him a lot around campus. Wut do? Is it worth beating his ass?

[Cynic09]

Go beat his ass and go to jail without proof for some girl. lol. Go ahead.
Seems every girl has a rape story.

[Highwind7]

Was she raped or was she ''raped''? Any more witnesses?

[Manc33]

Holy fuking chit you dunno what I would do srs.

inb4 stats when I would just pay someone lol

[Peet36]

Just rape the guy

[2am]

She's a sloot who regrets her slooting.

[Milamber]

Go beat his ass and go to jail without proof for some girl. lol. Go ahead.
Seems every girl has a rape story.

Sadly this.

Most of the girls I have met in my life have their own rape story.

The real problem with this is, if they ever are actually raped I wont believe them.

Tell your girl, if she was actually raped then why didnt she go to the police, or if she has proof now, why isnt she going to the police?

[Alphatraz24]

Lol if you believe that.. if she was forced to choke on some dudes dong she would have reported it..

Chances are when you ask the guy about it he'll tell you yeah she blew me and did some other stuff then regretted it.


Every single woman on earth has been "raped"

[betteroffted]

I definitely believes 'sloots gon sloot'. But I honestly believe that this happened to her without her telling anyone. She has literally no backbone at all and won't even tell me the stupid lil chit she thinks i'm doing wrong when I just call her out on her chit all the time. so I wouldn't have expected her to go to the police.

I just don't know how I'm supposed to see this guy around campus all the time and not do anything at all about it

[WeedWizard420]

Why didn't she bite the **** out of his exposed dick and balls and run wtf?

[OgreBrah]

Forces to give head does not equal rape.

If you stick your penis inside a girls mouth who genuinely doesn't want to suck it... She'll bite your dick hard enough to break it forever.

She wasn't raped. She sucked some guys dick and he was being rough, which she liked because everyone likes that. She told you because NOW she values the relationship and doesn't want secrets. She told you, but lied while doing so to make her the victim. Nobody gonna be mad with the victim...


My girlfriend of 2 years also has a rape story. She told me it before we started going out. Some guy raped her at a party when she was drunk.

Found out over a year later that she wasn't raped. After I had drilled the whole equal rights, equal fights/anti feminist thing into her she eventually brought it up again and apologized for lying about it. The trouble is, she ACTUALLY BELIEVED she was raped even though she knows logically that she wasn't.

Women are dangerous. Don't get caught up in avenging girls who claim to have been raped in the past. Only if it happens presently should you be sure enough to do something about it.

[CCAurora]

What was she doing alone with a guy right before you and her started dating?

One of my ex's told me she was raped twice, but recognized that she led both guys on and shouldn't have put herself in that position... doesn't make it right, but it doesn't mean you can't learn something from it.

[Boffothe]

Comfort her, be there for her, but don't do anything stupid.

Too many men have been severely hurt or locked up because some chick regretted a sex act and decided she must have been raped. Not saying that's necessarily what happened, but I sure wouldn't bet my entire future on it if I were you.

[ingoodtime]

Who's gf hasn't been raped op? Almost all girls who I've talked to on a personal level has been the victim of "rape" or sexual assault.

[betteroffted]

Thanks brahs…really putting things into perspective. I wasn't thinking about how frequent stories like this are cause I've never had to deal with them with any of my past girlfriends.

Next time we talk I'm gonna ask her on the whole "why didn't you bite his d" crap and see what she says. I still don't know what I'm gonna do when I see him though.

Going to the gym now to get some frustration out.

[CCAurora]

Next time we talk I'm gonna ask her on the whole "why didn't you bite his d" crap and see what she says.

lol the misc ruins another relationship... filter through the virgins and FA's, don't turn it around on your gf because its easier than being a man and confronting the guy about it.

[KhanBro]

Just let it go. If she wanted something done about it she would have gone to the police or dealt with this in another way when it happened, no need for you to go crusading.

I had no idea that you could force a girl to give you head short of severely beating her or something.

Don't let this ruin your relationship by overreacting in any direction.

[Boffothe]

What was she doing alone with a guy right before you and her started dating?

this is a good question

Once again, I'm not in the "all girls are liars about rape crew". I think rape is a horrible reality, and common on college campuses. but I do think it's hard to imagine physically forcing a sober girl in the middle of the day to give you head without her screaming in what I'm assuming was a populated frat house. Maybe he's got a sick Muay Thai clinch and could control her head with ease, in which case watch out OP

[mols0n]

**** him right in da pussy

[SymphonyXXX]

This is one of those exquisite examples of girl logic that reasonable men everywhere have tried to make obvious to their significant others, only to realize that they're so backwards in the forward-moving stream of logic that you wonder how any rational man can ever believe a woman.

Dick in her mouth got there by divine intervention of the Holy Ghost.

Never mind the many small and very real and possible aspects of physically getting out of the house, running away from the frat house (ultimate attention whore, skank-in-training red flag freebie here), saying no and meaning it, having to result to violence to get away, his most sensitive area is literally in her hands, knee to the groin, accessible objects to use as weapons, never mind this - the dick just got there and it stayed there.

Do yourself a favor and don't go pulling a captain-save-a-ho. Your girl just, literally, fessed up to being an attention whore expected to deliver on the dick sucking and deliver she did.

There's no reason to fight over a woman, except if that woman is your mother, you know, the only woman who has actually given a real **** about you.

Get off the high horse of a woman's honor. It doesn't exist and it is a good sign that you are a weak bitch.

If you believe that the dick DID, however, get there by some divine suspension of the laws of physics and was curiously incapable of actually choking her, since it would have been a rather uncontrolled act of divinity, then, and only then, should you pack your girlfriend's longest dildo and proceed to go and whack the frat boy with it. Prepare for the impending assault of all the 'bros' since most frat boys are incapable of actual hand-to-dildo combat by themselves.

[happywithit]

Found out last night that around the time me and my gf started dating 6 months ago, a guy pinned her down and forced her to give him head. He was trying to pull her clothes off and she managed to run away. She never told anyone until she now told me. Turns out I know who the phucker is too�he's in one of the other fraternities on campus. Wasn't a drunken thing or anything cause they were sober, middle of the day at his frat house. first thing that comes to my head is that I'm gonna confront him on it and probably beat his ass the next time I see him, which i see him a lot around campus. Wut do? Is it worth beating his ass?

I think she will take great comfort in the fact that you believe and don't judge her or feel disgusted by her. She likely hasn't told anyone because she is feeling ashamed, embarrassed and disgusted in herself (even though really she shouldn't but there is always that 'what if I had reacted better by kicking him in the nuts' thoughts that possibly leave a girl thinking it is her fault it went as far as it did, unfortunately typical gut reaction is to lie still) especially since she has kept it to herself. Sadly a lot of women do keep these things to themselves because it's humiliating to discuss such a thing, and as posters on this thread have displayed, so many refuse to believe any thing like this actually happens. I guess this kind of thing, left unsaid can eat a person up inside.

I would imagine it would take a lot of courage to bring a rape up to someone, I doubt I could tell a soul. I think she must trust you very much to tell you.

Don't do anything to the guy, it would just raise to much shame and embarrassment for her, and dig up buried, unwanted memories, it would only make you feel better, but not her. I'm sure just listening to her, and giving her a strong cuddle if she cries is what she needs, and a listening ear if she needs to talk again.

I wouldn't bring up the subject again. If she needs to talk, I'm sure she will now that she's mentioned it finally.

GL op.

[CCAurora]

This is one of those exquisite examples of girl logic that reasonable men everywhere have tried to make obvious to their significant others, only to realize that they're so backwards in the forward-moving stream of logic that you wonder how any rational man can ever believe a woman.

Dick in her mouth got there by divine intervention of the Holy Ghost.

Never mind the many small and very real and possible aspects of physically getting out of the house, running away from the frat house (ultimate attention whore, skank-in-training red flag freebie here), saying no and meaning it, having to result to violence to get away, his most sensitive area is literally in her hands, knee to the groin, accessible objects to use as weapons, never mind this - the dick just got there and it stayed there.

Do yourself a favor and don't go pulling a captain-save-a-ho. Your girl just, literally, fessed up to being an attention whore expected to deliver on the dick sucking and deliver she did.

There's no reason to fight over a woman, except if that woman is your mother, you know, the only woman who has actually given a real **** about you.

Get off the high horse of a woman's honor. It doesn't exist and it is a good sign that you are a weak bitch.

If you believe that the dick DID, however, get there by some divine suspension of the laws of physics and was curiously incapable of actually choking her, since it would have been a rather uncontrolled act of divinity, then, and only then, should you pack your girlfriend's longest dildo and proceed to go and whack the frat boy with it. Prepare for the impending assault of all the 'bros' since most frat boys are incapable of actual hand-to-dildo combat by themselves.

I'm as anti-feminist as any guy you'll meet, but according to your logic, no girl has ever been forced to blow any guy ever because they could have just fought their way out of it... guys like this are just as bad as irrational feminists IMO

[jimbong]

It amazed me that people who read this forum regularly actually think it is a good idea to bring potentially serious issues to this board for advice.

[rollerball]

Maybe he's got a sick Muay Thai clinch and could control her head with ease, in which case watch out OP

lol.

[Inthenos]

Miscers be such WKs lol.

Cliffs
- sloots gonna sloot
- looking for attention? tell you a "rape" story
- OP wants to go to jail over sloot drama
- 0.001% may have actually been raped

[strongphallus]

If it was me, and I was 100% what she said was true, I'd pummel the guy. But I do it smart, find him at night & alone, wear a mask and break his legs with a baseball bat (srs), dont tell him why. Be smart about it & almost no way you could get caught.

[JustMoved24]

i've learned to go into relationships, or new FWB's with females as...they have all been raped by their dad, brother, best friend, and held in some dungeon as a sex slave for a few years, or w.e else

the ones that do actually go through that is honestly really sad

but it seems like every single fcking female i get with has a story like that

[Boffothe]

If it was me, and I was 100% what she said was true, I'd pummel the guy. But I do it smart, find him at night & alone, wear a mask and break his legs with a baseball bat (srs), dont tell him why. Be smart about it & almost no way you could get caught.

No you wouldn't

[JUSA]

Is it worth beating his ass?

I don't know you, I don't know your girl but her story doesn't sound like it holds much water.

- Most rapes in college are going to be of the sly "date rape" variety. Frat ahole gets girl wasted and too drunk to say No or stop it, he goes in.
- Who is going to pin down a girl and force them to suck his penis? Why wouldn't she bite down on it or somehow defend herself?
- While a girl might be hesitant to report a rape in some circumstances (ones where she got herself too drunk or did something she feels embarrassed about), being raped as she described is something anyone would report to the cops. She didn't?

I'd ask around about your girl. As much as it might make me sound like a dick, I'd say the odds of her being a lying psycho are at least as good as the odds of her story being legit. Find out for sure who your girl is. You've only known her 6 months, there might be more to her (in a bad way) than you know.

I'm as anti-feminist as any guy you'll meet, but according to your logic, no girl has ever been forced to blow any guy ever because they could have just fought their way out of it... guys like this are just as bad as irrational feminists IMO

Really, the only way I can figure a blow job got forced would be if there was some kind of social force/stigma being in play. Like a boss and his secretary or if maybe this frat guy was King **** on campus or something. Physical force though? I don't see how you could force a blow job like that without a gun to her head or something ("if you bite, you die"). I guess it's possible, but it just doesn't sound right. I don't know about you guys, but my dick is sensitive. It's been bitten lightly a couple times and it hurt and freaked me out. No blood or anything even. I can't imagine the pain if a girl trying to defend herself from rape bit down on it and took a chunk out or something. Ow-ee. No thanks.

[KaartraaK]

I think she will take great comfort in the fact that you believe and don't judge her or feel disgusted by her. She likely hasn't told anyone because she is feeling ashamed, embarrassed and disgusted in herself (even though really she shouldn't but there is always that 'what if I had reacted better by kicking him in the nuts' thoughts that possibly leave a girl thinking it is her fault it went as far as it did, unfortunately typical gut reaction is to lie still) especially since she has kept it to herself. Sadly a lot of women do keep these things to themselves because it's humiliating to discuss such a thing, and as posters on this thread have displayed, so many refuse to believe any thing like this actually happens. I guess this kind of thing, left unsaid can eat a person up inside.

I would imagine it would take a lot of courage to bring a rape up to someone, I doubt I could tell a soul. I think she must trust you very much to tell you.

Don't do anything to the guy, it would just raise to much shame and embarrassment for her, and dig up buried, unwanted memories, it would only make you feel better, but not her. I'm sure just listening to her, and giving her a strong cuddle if she cries is what she needs, and a listening ear if she needs to talk again.

I wouldn't bring up the subject again. If she needs to talk, I'm sure she will now that she's mentioned it finally.

GL op.

This is exactly what needed to be said. Reps for you.

You can't know if anything did or did not happen without proof. It's best to keep what she said in mind, and avoid doing anything irrational. There's no sense being charged by this guy and ruining your future over hearsay.