El Oh El.... Apparently I am "The worst guy I have ever been with" STORY TIME

[TheSandHusky]

Going no contact as your first resort is literally the least alpha thing you could do. Avoiding rather than confronting=beta behavior/10. Telling them what you are thinking straight up and not tip toeing around it like drama queen=alpha behavior/10. It may seem mean as fuark to tell someone out of the blue something like "I am done with this relationship and no longer interested in sexors with you," but it's a lot less harsh on them then going no contact out of the blue and leaving them into depression mode. I hope for your sake OP that you only did this because you thought it was cool and alpha, and not because it is the type of person you are at heart, because that'd mean you are just a dik.

[quickups]

You told her straight up what you wanted. She pushed for something more romantic by creating your "gift"

Did NC and she went cray cray when you see at her party

You did nothing wrong OP. She fuked up by hooking up with you and catching feelings. It's her mistake to sloot it up with you in that pool and further pursue you by giving you her number.

It seems like a douche move but whenever you break it off with someone, 1 gets hurt. In this case, its the girl. Being young does have it's disadvantages - for both you and the girl. You not being considerate and her for slooting it up.

LESSON: this slooot should be more picky with who she opens her legs for.

[jasonjb]

She looks like the kind of woman I usually pay for!

lol

[DrBroscientist]

Wasn't bad until the birthday thing...

Imagine if you made some girl you really liked a present and spent 5 hours on it only for her to stop texting you. Then a week later she tells you to fck off.

No WK. Just could've handled it a lot better.

[WontStopLifting]

El Oh El

you know how I know you're a ******* OP?

[Vofka]

She had sex with you on the first night that you met; that makes her a whore.

Whores are cum dumpsters and should never become romantic partners.

Would have been alpha if you actually told her why, though.

Overall GJ, OP.






























But you're still a ****git.

[Rayaarito]

Read story, sounded like younger me, expected you to be young too, saw age, leaving satisfied. Only four years younger than me but that's exactly what i did. Can't live with being like that anymore, so i just tell them straight forward now-a-days and if they don't like it fine. didn't care that much

[blckndyllw]

she's a slut, you're a *******

[burlyman619]

Seriously a dick move bro. She made you a birthday present , and you ignored her, why? She wasnt "catching feelings" , she was being sweet to you and you treated her like garbage. Ignoring her was a weak move. You could have just told her how you felt, like a man.

[DuckvonDyke]

How to fuk am I supposed to handle it then?

I told her from the start we were FWB and then I go no contact then I tell her to stop texting me

Friends with benefits don't go no contact... Note the 'friends' part. Would you treat your bro that way? srs.

You're basically describing an occasional root rather than a fwb.

OP lacks moral depth.

[TheCore84]

thread backfire.

wouldn't be surprised if you just created a feminist / lesbian out of what seemed like a decent woman. *******.

Decent women don't bangout in the hot tub within hours of meeting someone but she didn't deserve what op gave her.

[fatbeergrass]

gjdm, spread seed, stack papers. we don't love these hoes.



knees, way too pointy/10

[PowerPal]

this thread is so fkn weird srs

misc on that bipolar time

[burlyman619]

She had sex with you on the first night that you met; that makes her a whore.

Enlighten me with this logic. What's that make OP? Becuase they both banged right? Got what they both wanted?

[frozenbarb]

Come on guys.. The girl was stupid. She gave it up way to easily. How could the sloot think she was relationship worthy?..

[CCAurora]

I remember when this was a bodybuilding forum

[Perfectbrah213]

Wow you're such a Lothario OP.

You sound like a fukin ******* srs

It's *******s like you that help turn girls into worse b!tches by leaving them off worse than you found them.

Thanks to you we now have another damaged bish out in the streets. Good luck to whoever finds her next.

Have my poverty negs *******

[GrokTheCube]

Sounds like you forgot the F part of FWB.

The F part means you don't act like a passive aggressive teenage girl.

[ib6ub90210]

Wtf she spent 5 hrs making you a bday gift n you blow her off thinking you're "alpha"?

She seems like a sweet girl and you're a dick

[headinahole]

Wtf she spent 5 hrs making you a bday gift n you blow her off thinking you're "alpha"?

She seems like a sweet girl and you're a dick

This

[LordBroski]

Sounds like you forgot the F part of FWB.

The F part means you don't act like a passive aggressive teenage girl.

This.

To OP's credit though, he's a young guy.

OP I had my first FWB when I was around your age and went NC after she texted me about how a relative of hers or whatever committed suicide and she wanted me to come over. Which is much, much worse than whatever you did imo.

Then I realized I dun guf'd bad and apologized for being a dick. We started smashing again and I was the first dude to stick it up her ass.

Don't burn bridges. Even with whores.

[Cinderblock]

So you fukked up a perfectly good situation. You aren't very clever.

[yobagago]

I remember when this was a bodybuilding forum

you should make a thread about it

[iamdetermined]

If you don't understand how to properly handle such situations then you're socially demented. She made you something for your birthday, should've gone to check it out, and told her it's a nice gesture but be clear that, as mentioned before, you're just friends, so she doesn't start expecting more from you, because you wouldn't want to mislead anyone or hurt their feelings. Then it's all on her.

Could've continued banging. Maybe moved on to bang her friends, or her sister, who knows. Guaranteed she's spread the word to all her friends that you're a clown, now you've cock blocked yourself from other women too who might have been interested in you (for reasons beyond me). Mentioning that you're "fuking someone else" is the icing on the cake and was pointless to bring up. A classy gentleman you are not.

You both seem like total retards, because she reacted like a little bitch too. Maybe she's your soul mate.

This, couldn't have been that hard to go check out the gift...or at least have the decency to have a face to face talk with her instead of just going NC on someone who cares for you. Imagine if that was u in her position...

[ralphlaurenbrah]

Can't wait until she ruins your reputation on campus and you don't get laid for the next 2 years.

Just lol at you bragging about this. You're sooo cool brah. Fuking loling hard right now at this tool.

[ebrah]

LOL

"Hey, I treated this girl like sh*t! Am I alpha yet, Misc??"

[GrokTheCube]

This.

To OP's credit though, he's a young guy.

OP I had my first FWB when I was around your age and went NC after she texted me about how a relative of hers or whatever committed suicide and she wanted me to come over. Which is much, much worse than whatever you did imo.

Then I realized I dun guf'd bad and apologized for being a dick. We started smashing again and I was the first dude to stick it up her ass.

Don't burn bridges. Even with whores.

I was definitely a huge ass more than one time when I was around OP's age

That said, OP, it would really behoove you to apologize to her for acting like such a cocksucker, even if for purely selfish reasons.

[bannedelsewhere]

OP you need to re-evaluate your entire life

[bitchesbrew]

OP you've done nothing wrong. You were straightforward and honest. Ignore these ****s

[IDontPlay247]

Come on guys.. The girl was stupid. She gave it up way to easily. How could the sloot think she was relationship worthy?..

In the 'sloots' defense, we live in a society these days where hooking up the first night of meeting someone is acceptable behavior. Its hard to call a chick not relationship material just because she slept with you the first night. Maybe your game was just on point and she is really attracted to you.


I cant believe i just said that...but relationship material goes further than when you hook up imo. the fact that she spent 5 hours making a bday present for OP shows that she probably wasnt a bad girl at all.

granted I wouldnt gf her but calling her a sloot or not dating worthy is hypocritical being that men hook up with chicks they just met all the time. Its just the norm these days. Sadly.



EDIT: goddamn this sounds borderline feminist. i dont even know who i am anymore....