I have separated from my wife and have re-entered the dating scene for the first time since the 80's.
Is there a condom etiquette? Do's and dont's?
Once you ejaculate can you continue sexual intercourse if you are able to maintain an erection or do you need to remove the condom asap regardless of erection and put on a new one to continue?
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Thread: Never used a condom before (srs)
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07-17-2014, 07:05 AM #104/28/2026
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Never used a condom before (srs)
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07-17-2014, 07:07 AM #2Registered User
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Dont reuse and I recommend practising putting one on.
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07-17-2014, 07:07 AM #3Da1UnV
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Dude I have never used a condom as well, but some things are just pretty much self explanatory.
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07-17-2014, 07:08 AM #4Registered User
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Putting the cart before the horse, aren't we?
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07-17-2014, 07:09 AM #5Registered User
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Trust me you wont be able to maintain a erection XD especially when you have cummed already condom=dick killer
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07-17-2014, 07:09 AM #6The Flanimal project
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07-17-2014, 07:13 AM #7Registered User
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0:37 second mark
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07-17-2014, 07:16 AM #8Built Upon Struggle
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Originally Posted by hammerfelt
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07-17-2014, 07:20 AM #9Cold day in hell
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At least he's not whispering it in your ear softly.Originally Posted by Flounderbout
no real etiquette to it. It's one of those just get it done kinda things. Sometimes the lady will find interesting ways to put it on for you though. It's been a long time since I used one though, I'm more of a Russian roulette kinda guyIt's not your beliefs that make you a better person, it's your behavior.
"If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems and a b1tch ain't 1" JayZ
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07-17-2014, 07:31 AM #10Registered User
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Had a buddy whose lady would only blow him with a condom on. He divorced her long ago, but we still make fun of him for it......Originally Posted by frozensparky
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07-17-2014, 07:33 AM #11Built Upon Struggle
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FWIW...
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07-17-2014, 07:35 AM #12Registered User
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Pro Tip: If you have never gone without one, never stop. Cuz once you go raw, you dont go back...
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07-17-2014, 07:42 AM #13Old as dirt...
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If he's going with folks who he doesn't know the history of that's called risking disease not being macho. Lot's of bad things out there....Originally Posted by JChad12
As a minister I'd suggest you just abstain until you find another woman you'd like to marry. Not that I think you'll listen to me though.
WAIT A MINUTE!!
You're separated not divorced! Stop trying to screw anyone and get you and your wife into counseling. If you were married in a church you made a covenant not only with your spouse but God Almighty. I'd suggest you not treat that contract lightly.
This time I hope you and anyone else that is separated listens too!!
GO SEE A COUNSELOR, even if your wife won't go with you go by yourself. If you attend church go see your Minister!Last edited by Old-Time-Lifter; 07-17-2014 at 07:48 AM.
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07-17-2014, 07:46 AM #14Registered User
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That's where it's good to be Chaz---most sheep, cows, other farm animals, can't get STD's.Originally Posted by Old-Time-Lifter
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07-17-2014, 08:17 AM #15fat fukc
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All you need to know about condoms...Originally Posted by hammerfelt
Well meaning, elderly man with a poor memory...pause
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So your condom expertise is right on par with your Spanish then?......Originally Posted by bodyhard
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07-17-2014, 08:28 AM #17Registered User
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Proper Condom Etiquette:
1. If someone is using the condom either politely ask to work in or just wait until they're done.
2. Always warm up before using the condom.
3. If you need a spot while using the condom, don't be shy just ask.
4. Always observe proper condom form.
5. When you finished using the condom, make sure to wipe it down for the next user.
6. This one is somewhat controversial but never use a condom in the squat rack.
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07-17-2014, 08:28 AM #1804/28/2026
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Already tried counseling. I do appreciate your advice though.Originally Posted by Old-Time-Lifter
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07-17-2014, 08:34 AM #19Registered User
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LololololOriginally Posted by theKurp
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07-17-2014, 08:34 AM #20Registered User
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thecondomreview.com
luckybloke.com
both are very current and are great resources when it comes to condoms and safer sexLets not forget the real life side of things.
I spent too many years hiding in addiction to let that crap ruin my life again.
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07-17-2014, 08:39 AM #21Quarantined Finja
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Really? How and why would you know this?Originally Posted by ajdahlheimer
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07-17-2014, 08:41 AM #22Registered User
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Aren't you late for your next appointment/conjugal visit?Originally Posted by Cass40
Really? How and why would you know this?
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07-17-2014, 08:57 AM #23Old as dirt...
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Some std's originated in other animals such as monkeys.Originally Posted by ajdahlheimer
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07-17-2014, 08:58 AM #24Old as dirt...
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Don't give up on counseling too soon.Originally Posted by hammerfelt
Separated doesn't mean divorced and having flings during the separation will cloud reconciling the marriage.Was friends with Methuselah
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07-17-2014, 08:58 AM #25I'm a Swifty Now
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THIS^ was a 17 yr older's response in our over 35 section......Originally Posted by dale655
Hammer said to take his post seriously, so I will:
Hammer: I used that method of birth control for approximately 40 years or so.....you most certainly can keep "going" if you ejaculate first......Originally Posted by HammerfeltLift as MUCH as you can, for as MANY reps as you can,
while in complete control of the exercise.
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07-17-2014, 10:27 AM #27Registered User
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to bodyhard again.Originally Posted by bodyhard
lols and repped.Originally Posted by theKurp
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07-17-2014, 10:49 AM #2804/28/2026
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I'm not under age 25. This is O35 misc.Originally Posted by sy2502
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07-17-2014, 10:52 AM #29Registered User
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I never use them either OP. I purchased the biggest ones I could find and still couldn't roll it up over my knees.
Totally pointless.
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My point was: if you are over 25 you should already know these things.Originally Posted by hammerfelt
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