Misc 30+ Geezer Crew: Geritol Is Our Preworkout, Ben Gay Is Our Lube.

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 02:13 PM

Originally Posted by Fawnl

And to add to it... Based on the things you have said today and in the past... You guys have severe communication issues. If you could actually talk openly and trust each other, you would be in a different situation I think. She sounds like she loves you. She makes you lunch even when she is mad because she wants you to be taken care of and that is an act of love... Did you thank her for that lunch? Or did you just take it and not acknowledge that kind act?

I would think probably, the relationship is too far gone unless you are willing to put serious effort into it. Like go to counselling and want to make it work. The fact that you jump to move out seems like a mind game to me.

Hmmm, and no I didn't thank her as I am out the door at 530am and she is sleeping downstairs. In the past, even when we are good, thnking her has little acknowledgment from her. She would just say something stupid like "no other girl would take care of you like that".
Not sure I am comfortable with the notion of counselling at only 1.5 years in, I would be quicker to assume it was not meant to be.

No idea what I am going to do. All I know is that this cycle repeats itself and it surely will again if I stick through it. Was it too soon? 3 years ago I seperated and still to this day have problems dealing with not being there for my kids 24/7 as you guys know.

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 02:15 PM

Originally Posted by jmonty

Feelings are for gheys and girls.

HTH

I will cut you!

**Fawnl** · 08-31-2014, 02:22 PM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

Hmmm, and no I didn't thank her as I am out the door at 530am and she is sleeping downstairs. In the past, even when we are good, thnking her has little acknowledgment from her. She would just say something stupid like "no other girl would take care of you like that".
Not sure I am comfortable with the notion of counselling at only 1.5 years in, I would be quicker to assume it was not meant to be.

No idea what I am going to do. All I know is that this cycle repeats itself and it surely will again if I stick through it. Was it too soon? 3 years ago I seperated and still to this day have problems dealing with not being there for my kids 24/7 as you guys know.

Welp... "No other girl would take care of you like that"... I don't like it. Sounds like your relationship is pretty damn toxic fb...

That can't be fixed. I would abort, personally.

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 02:28 PM

Originally Posted by Fawnl

Welp... "No other girl would take care of you like that"... I don't like it. Sounds like your relationship is pretty damn toxic fb...

That can't be fixed. I would abort, personally.

I know right...toxic yes.

**hindes204** · 08-31-2014, 02:31 PM

I've been with my crazy Asian for 10+ years FB, so I know them feels

The question you have to ask yourself, if she was gone tomorrow, would you be happier with your life?

**biggoron** · 08-31-2014, 02:32 PM

Toomany feels itt

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 02:34 PM

Originally Posted by hindes204

I've been with my crazy Asian for 10+ years FB, so I know them feels

The question you have to ask yourself, if she was gone tomorrow, would you be happier with your life?

Have ran that scenario through my head lots lately and the conclusion is foggy. Happier not having someone elses kids around all day everyday? yes, happier not having someone around that loves me and takes care of me? no, maybe, don't know.

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 02:35 PM

Originally Posted by biggoron

Toomany feels itt

Then chime in you kunt!

Where is the brass brotherhood? xoxo

**hindes204** · 08-31-2014, 02:45 PM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

Have ran that scenario through my head lots lately and the conclusion is foggy. Happier not having someone elses kids around all day everyday? yes, happier not having someone around that loves me and takes care of me? no, maybe, don't know.

You can't separate the two, they are one in the same. My wife had kids already. I you want her, you have to want the kids too.....not fair to either if you try and separate the two

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 02:59 PM

Originally Posted by hindes204

You can't separate the two, they are one in the same. My wife had kids already. I you want her, you have to want the kids too.....not fair to either if you try and separate the two

They have never been an issue, the issue is mine. I am experiencing difficulty with the disruption in my regular regiment. For example cleanliness, my own place had no clutter and was always clean while this place is a mess and even if it gets clean, it's VERY temporary. Meh...that's not even important here I guess.

I think I need to try and seperate whether I am in it because it's "convenient" (ie meals made for me, financially better, reg sexxors, etc). Or whether I do in fact love this girl. When I ask myself, I really have no idea, but that might be just as bad as a sound NO...

At first I was all like "hhhnnnggg! I need an asian, I am sick of white girls"...now I find myself on the fence because of the crazy factor and communication barrier to say the least.

Outside of the drama, we are both very similar in many ways that positively effect compatibility in a relationship. I know this ain't spring fever either so I have no idea wtf is going on with me.

**Mcfreako** · 08-31-2014, 03:07 PM

Well, that's that

I just saw nudes of just about every celebrity u would want to see nudes of

Ariana grande
Victoria justice
Jennifer Lawrence

Etc etc etc

Also mckayla maroney

And Jennifer Lawrence facial video is coming too

Haha oh lawd(srs )

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 03:09 PM

Originally Posted by Mcfreako

Well, that's that

I just saw nudes of just about every celebrity u would want to see nudes of

Ariana grande
Victoria justice
Jennifer Lawrence

Etc etc etc

Also mckayla maroney

And Jennifer Lawrence facial video is coming too

Haha oh lawd(srs )

inb4 I get horny and go fuk the misses while everything returns to normal until the next blowup...

**Mcfreako** · 08-31-2014, 03:10 PM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

inb4 I get horny and go fuk the misses while everything returns to normal until the next blowup...

Lol u aware?

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 03:13 PM

Originally Posted by Mcfreako

Lol u aware?

yes, but so is my work pc unfortunately lol

**Mcfreako** · 08-31-2014, 03:20 PM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

yes, but so is my work pc unfortunately lol

Lol

Oh lawd

Itsfappening.gif lol

**jmonty** · 08-31-2014, 04:02 PM

Originally Posted by Mcfreako

Well, that's that

I just saw nudes of just about every celebrity u would want to see nudes of

Ariana grande
Victoria justice
Jennifer Lawrence

Etc etc etc

Also mckayla maroney

And Jennifer Lawrence facial video is coming too

Haha oh lawd(srs )

thank you baby jesus

**Fawnl** · 08-31-2014, 04:05 PM

Originally Posted by jmonty

thank you baby jesus

Link.NAo.

**jmonty** · 08-31-2014, 04:09 PM

Originally Posted by Fawnl

Link.NAo.

google

i don't want to break rules.

**hindes204** · 08-31-2014, 04:09 PM

Originally Posted by Fawnl

Link.NAo.

This

**Harrock** · 08-31-2014, 04:28 PM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

Hmmm, and no I didn't thank her as I am out the door at 530am and she is sleeping downstairs. In the past, even when we are good, thnking her has little acknowledgment from her. She would just say something stupid like "no other girl would take care of you like that".
Not sure I am comfortable with the notion of counselling at only 1.5 years in, I would be quicker to assume it was not meant to be.

No idea what I am going to do. All I know is that this cycle repeats itself and it surely will again if I stick through it. Was it too soon? 3 years ago I seperated and still to this day have problems dealing with not being there for my kids 24/7 as you guys know.

Life is hard. Take care of your kids and find a better woman. I know that the easy road is just that. the fact you have these questions should let you know. You aren't dumb.

**FitnessBlue** · 08-31-2014, 05:13 PM

Originally Posted by Harrock

Life is hard. Take care of your kids and find a better woman. I know that the easy road is just that. the fact you have these questions should let you know. You aren't dumb.

True dat, thx brah.
Luckily our lease is expired. But the actual formal breakup while living together is a whole bag of drama, especially when it comes time for my kids to visit. Will tread carefully.

**hindes204** · 08-31-2014, 05:44 PM

Originally Posted by Mcfreako

Well, that's that

I just saw nudes of just about every celebrity u would want to see nudes of

Ariana grande
Victoria justice
Jennifer Lawrence

Etc etc etc

Also mckayla maroney

And Jennifer Lawrence facial video is coming too

Haha oh lawd(srs )

Now aware

They are calling it fapocolypse

**jmonty** · 08-31-2014, 05:47 PM

Apparently there is a reddit subforum called the fappening

lol

**biggoron** · 09-01-2014, 05:25 AM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

Then chime in you kunt!

Where is the brass brotherhood? xoxo

Its a bad situation all around. If you wanna make it work, then try. Otherwise, go for the badge bunnies aplenty lol.

**5x10** · 09-01-2014, 07:48 AM

Not sure about you guys, but I was underwhelmed by the nudes
Guess porn has jaded me

**daisybee81** · 09-01-2014, 07:51 AM

Originally Posted by 5x10

Not sure about you guys, but I was underwhelmed by the nudes
Guess porn has jaded me

Well if you will watch ghey porn

**RICHSTRONG** · 09-01-2014, 07:53 AM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

I backed out to stay at home and play Counterstrike before hitting the sack for my early shift. I don't proclaim my whoredom outside the misc (she knows my past). I have integrity and she knows it. But yes she has serious insecurity issues even though I have never cheated on anyone (her ex husband cheated on her), so there is why the insecurity is an issue.

I mean it's not like I am talking to half..neked...females...on the inter...aw fuk bye

Pics of crazy asian lady...or u kno what bby

I'm taking y down 2.5 whole points

**5x10** · 09-01-2014, 07:55 AM

Originally Posted by daisybee81

Well if you will watch ghey porn

oh no u dit'int

**Staberella** · 09-01-2014, 10:28 AM

I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack. Holy schit I need a vacation from vacation. Happy labor days old farts. I have a few funny stories but I'll tell them later.

I got a nice tan though. Darasfukk/10

**daisybee81** · 09-01-2014, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by 5x10

oh no u dit'int

Uh oh ...

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