Senior female colleague at work keeps referring to me as her "bitch" (SRS)

[Kadafi25]

Last Friday I was in a meeting at work with three representatives from an external client and everything was going well. At one point, one of them, a guy, asked for a particular piece of work to be done ahead of the next meeting. And my colleague said "don't worry, my bitch will do it" and smirked at me.

Everyone burst out laughing and I'm just left sitting their awkwardly thinking to myself I could military press every fuking kunt in this room. But I couldn't say anything because my colleague is a senior who is two pay grades above me.

I was hoping that it would be forgotten about but today, she called my bitch again in front of two PA sloots making me look pathetic because again I couldn't say anything back.

What do I do? It's weird because she's so nice to me when we are working privately and has helped my development a lot. I don't want to cause any issues.

FYI, she is taller than me. We are both 5'10" but she wears heels and towers over me when we are standing.

Cliffs:

- Womanmore colleague keeps calling me bitch in front of people.
- How do I stop this?

[Roody12]

Imagine if the roles were reversed
BRB sued for 3.5 million.
Fukk her OP, go straight to HR and get her ass fired.

[mexicanmiscer]

Lol she wants you to take her Op. She wants her face to be mushed into a pillow and rammed from behind, she acts powerful, but fantasizes about being dominated.
















Or shes a kunt

[daddyraph]

Approach her like a man and state flat out you can't call me that ever again.

You wont lose your job as she is in the wrong. Don't let co-workers push you around.

[hzx]

Grab her by throat and she will never do it again srs

[5htp]

Military press her while reciting the navy seals copypasta.

[bigdogfarmhand]

I would get a lawyer buddy! Srs

A opportunity like this doesn't happen every day.

Do it

[ipleadthe5th]

I would say that you are her bish since no pics

[Bettabez]

Tempted to neg you for being a pathetic *******.

Like hell you can't speak up, that whore is way out of line.

[sgttom]

Do the same thing to her.

[ensayofr]

Last Friday I was in a meeting at work with three representatives from an external client and everything was going well. At one point, one of them, a guy, asked for a particular piece of work to be done ahead of the next meeting. And my colleague said "don't worry, my bitch will do it" and smirked at me.

Everyone burst out laughing and I'm just left sitting their awkwardly thinking to myself I could military press every fuking kunt in this room. But I couldn't say anything because my colleague is a senior who is two pay grades above me.

I was hoping that it would be forgotten about but today, she called my bitch again in front of two PA sloots making me look pathetic because again I couldn't say anything back.

What do I do? It's weird because she's so nice to me when we are working privately and has helped my development a lot. I don't want to cause any issues.

FYI, she is taller than me. We are both 5'10" but she wears heels and towers over me when we are standing.

Cliffs:

- Womanmore colleague keeps calling me bitch in front of people.
- How do I stop this?

"I am your bitch sure... but you'll have to pay it back to me" while zipping your pants movement... in front of everybody!

Do it... success guaranteed.

Note: you 'll have to have balls of steel to do that. Do you have them?

[Dave P]

Depends on if you're trying to get paid or if you're trying to just get her to stop.



Its pretty much an easy slam-dunk lawsuit if you want to go that route, just talk to a workplace attorney and its a wrap. Otherwise just pull her aside and talk to her.

[Rayaarito]

Approach her like a man and state flat out you can't call me that ever again.

You wont lose your job as she is in the wrong. Don't let co-workers push you around.

This, wtf is wrong with you

[RaibeartBruis]

Approach her like a man and state flat out you can't call me that ever again.

You wont lose your job as she is in the wrong. Don't let co-workers push you around.

inb4 OP is fired

OP you've got to get a couple people who will vouch for you, and then report your boss to HR or an attorney. She's already crossed the line and should be fired. Do this ONLY if you you can find a couple witnesses who are on YOUR side, and make sure your boss and the HR rep aren't buddy-buddy. If they are close, go straight to an attorney.

Das it mane. $$$ headed your way if you play this right. If you voice your complaints to your boss, 90% chance you're fired within the month and you'll have no recourse.

[JoshSP1985]

Since you didn't stand up for yourself I would say she was accurate.

[FabioGaycotti]

Pics of said sloot

EDIT: she probly wants the D OP

[d3lf]

don't be mean or forceful but just stand up for yourself brah

edit: nvm. this:

I would say that you are her bish since no pics

[Kadafi25]

Bear in mind that I am a graduate with the organisation and this woman is a much loved 5+ years employee who brings a lot more to the company than I do. Complaining to HR is not an option. Real tea that would not end well for me.

I could call her out but that could cause tension and she might give me shiit work to do.

[cashinout]

Depends on if you're trying to get paid or if you're trying to just get her to stop.



Its pretty much an easy slam-dunk lawsuit if you want to go that route, just talk to a workplace attorney and its a wrap. Otherwise just pull her aside and talk to her.

this lol
OP if you are serious, you are in for a hell of a payday

try to record her saying it as well, that'll cut down on litigation

[trs5]

You could always just fuk.

[BroolStories]

Recite:

"What the heck did you just bloody say to about me, you little kunt? I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Uganda Seals, and I've been involved in numerous secret raids on your mum. You are nothing to me but just another target to make fun of. I will wipe you out with precision the likes of which has never seen before on this earth. Mark my bloody words! You think you can get away with calling me a bitch in front of your friends? Then think again, you little wanker! As we speak I'm contacting the FBI, and your house address being traced right now. So you better prepare for the storm. If only you could have known what unholy retribution calling me a bitch was about to bring down upon you. Maybe you would have thought twice. But you couldn't. You didn't. And now you're paying the price."

[ensayofr]

Bear in mind that I am a graduate with the organisation and this woman is a much loved 5+ years employee who brings a lot more to the company than I do. Complaining to HR is not an option. Real tea that would not end well for me.

I could call her out but that could cause tension and she might give me shiit work to do.

Since you are less alpha than expected I suggest you to talk to her in private instead of the funny confrontational example I gave above...

[CapnSumTingWong]

How old is the lady OP? Wood you berry for a bonus? Take the sex slave route, get bonus, profit, ???

[Kadafi25]

UK employment law is a lot different to the US. If I was constructively dismissed, any compensation would equate to me salary which is modest. It is possible to get large compensation for harassment but I doubt being called "bitch" is sufficient to bring a case to the table.

[Postmort3m]

I would get a lawyer buddy! Srs

A opportunity like this doesn't happen every day.

Do it

This. You basically hit the lottery.

Lucky bitch.

[velvetmudhole]

Tell her to stop saying it because it's unprofessional. Document your conversation and everytime she's said it.

The next time she calls you a name go to HR with your documentation.

Also, is she your direct boss or just someone with a more direct role?

[ghjk24]

She wants the d. Srs

[cashinout]

UK employment law is a lot different to the US. If I was constructively dismissed, any compensation would equate to me salary which is modest. It is possible to get large compensation for harassment but I doubt being called "bitch" is sufficient to bring a case to the table.

how is being called somebody's bitch in a professional work environment, not harassment?

[SuperHybrid]

nomsayin

[AndYUKnowThis]

Successful troll is successful.