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Thread: Good looks vs. love
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07-05-2014, 04:51 PM #91
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07-05-2014, 04:55 PM #92
Only an idiotic/disingenuous sloot would post this rubbish
Its funny, u consistently see garbage like this posted by women yet...by far and away...they always seem to be the most vacuous and shallow of the genders. And I dont even say that out of bitterness. I benefit massively from sloots said shallowness. But sit there and pretend u are some kind of deep, spritual species who look for "inner beauty" and "love". Divorce rate is 50%, hypergamy is real, nice guys dont get ass and goodlooking jocks are douchebags...why? Because they can be.
Looks dictate so much as the very behaviours of individuals so there is a good chance those people u think are so "kind" are so purely because u like the way they look.
The only true, loyal love in this world is bound by blood and camaraderie
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07-05-2014, 04:55 PM #93
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07-05-2014, 04:56 PM #94
Love is an illusion, oxytocin + other hormones fukin with yo mind. Good looks are an illusion too, animals trying to sexually select desirable traits like a peacock, same shiet different skin and a small plus-or-minus difference in DNA.
The real route is marrying for money, fuk looks, fuk love. Those are side effects, the only thing that matters in modern times in money and if you want to propagate your surname to immeasurable lengths in the Human genetic code, you need $$$ for your progenitor. Play your cards right and marry into a wealthy family.
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07-05-2014, 04:57 PM #95
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07-05-2014, 05:00 PM #96
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07-05-2014, 05:01 PM #97
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07-05-2014, 05:07 PM #98
This. For the love of christ. Its on the things asians actually have right. Your parents/colleagues/close associates should be setting u up with a potential partner in which a marriage can be mutually beneficial both monetarily and behaviourally. Funnily enough, back in the day when marriage actually was worth the paper it was written on, it was a political/economic move often done to unite powerful families or form allegiences. It HAS NEVER been about love and, in many ways, the concept of monogamous love is pretty much false and entirely the construct of abrahamic religious dogma.
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07-05-2014, 05:11 PM #99
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07-05-2014, 05:20 PM #100
first of attraction is not an "illusion". the word "love" has lost its original definition because of novels, romantic comedies and rediculous magazines. they replaced love with innitial attraction and the honeymoon phase. both are heavily influenced by neurotransmitters and hormones. true intimacy and life-time comraderie takes a lot more effort, sacrafice and self-discipline and is mainly driven on spikes or rushes of the mentioned substances (buying a house, birth, children growing up etc.). a succesfull and balanced life throughout all those stages used to be called "love".
the first 2 parts (initial attraction and honeymoon phase) is possible with multiple people. todays society focusses on the fast shots of those periods. thats why people cheat after years. multiple partner devaluates intimicy and the need for a life-time partner. marying into a wealthy family is not a solution (sure as hell not for men lol) for the average joe.
this still happens. even in non asian families.
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07-05-2014, 05:29 PM #101
Looks do matter OP. It's just varying degrees of preference (ie what I find 7/10 may not be yours). Next would be chemistry, just because you're attracted to someone physically, doesn't mean you're going to feel connected with them or be able to hold a conversation with them. At least, that's the way I felt in previous relationships.
I believe I mentioned it in another thread but, I think people who marry just for L/S/M are the reason the divorce rates are so high.I want to forget mistakes they've helped me make
It's better to be broken than to break
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07-05-2014, 05:42 PM #102
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07-05-2014, 05:45 PM #103
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07-05-2014, 05:47 PM #104
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07-05-2014, 05:51 PM #105
I'm not trying to defend cheaters, I just think that we're all human and make mistakes. Who here can promise that you'd never cheat on the person you love? You might say never, but when you're tempted during a time when your relationship isnt going well.... you might. And I wouldn't sit here and say that you don't love your gf because you cheated on her. I would expect you to change if you truly loved her though.
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07-05-2014, 05:55 PM #106
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07-05-2014, 05:58 PM #107
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07-05-2014, 06:05 PM #108
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07-05-2014, 06:08 PM #109
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07-05-2014, 06:10 PM #110
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07-05-2014, 06:19 PM #111
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07-05-2014, 06:20 PM #112
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This deputy is not sheriff....cause that's some grade A sloot logic you've tossed out there so far.
Not to say that it hasn't ever happened that someone's been cheated on and then had a good relationship afterwards, but your just making no sense.....the whole reason **** is never the same is because all relationships go through really tough stretches and will happen again. If you don't have the conviction to not cheat during those times, it'll prob just happen again given enough time and more trying times.
Not sure if you've ever cheated on someone but you almost certainly haven't ever been cheated on from the sounds of it....
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07-05-2014, 06:22 PM #113
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07-05-2014, 06:29 PM #114
having sex with a random while you're in a commited relationship or marriage is not a mistake. especially when youre going through a hard time. it shows your bad coping strategies and lack of commitment. its like shooting your foot after you hit your pinky toe on a door.
people with those traits do not change. letting them get away with it will actually enforce that behavior.
edit: ^wizards of peace
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07-05-2014, 06:30 PM #115
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07-05-2014, 06:32 PM #116
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07-05-2014, 06:32 PM #117
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07-05-2014, 06:33 PM #118
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07-05-2014, 06:34 PM #119
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07-05-2014, 06:34 PM #120
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