AMA: got engaged at edc

[VANZFINEST]

2 girls

and a bunch of dudes dressed as girls

80% don't even lift

yup, exactly how i pictured the misc irl

cringe worthy, nothing in that picture speaks alpha. and LOL at that asian chick in the background high off molly in the video...so romantic to propose in front of a bunch of drugged out kids.

[brah.sensation]

You are by far the biggest idiot on this entire forum. I wouldn't trust you to know how to boil water much less comment on anything else. I pity you and anyone else who listens to you.

typical denial reply, answer that then

I want you OP to be honest with yourself and tell the misc that you are certain about your gf not being a sloot. Every man has seen red flags in girls, some of which are dead giveaways of slootyness.
Think about it and let go of your thick loverboy helmet for a few seconds, what comes to your mind? what did she do that you thought was disrespectful to you, to her? Txts to another guy, fb chat other guys, posting her pics on forums, webcam, being too friendly with the boys she dont really know. Tells us.

[Arkileon]

What makes you think this relationship/marriage is going to last OP? The cons are all over this thread and miscers are pointing it out, what are the pros you are seeing?

[randombrah1]

strong misc logic ITT...have attractive gf, must not let her dress attractively.


OP's gf is wearing nothing out of the ordinary at this show, and clearly most of you have no idea what it's like to go out with a really attractive girl dressed to the nines. Not saying his gf should parade around like that outside of EDC, but inside that environment it's perfectly acceptable. Would be no different than having her go to a club/night out with you in a skin tight body-con dress. If your girl looks good, why not let her dress like she looks good? You're the only one who gets to touch so what do you care if other people look? Let them be jelly all they want and admire you for pulling her

arent you the guy who got cheated on by5 or 6 ex gf's? (gf at the time)

[SaliorUSN]

I don't understand why people are talking about age as if it makes a huge difference on maturity. Sh!t I know of some immature 50 years old myself, it's not like Op is marrying a 16 year old girl.
My fiance(soon to be husband in 7 days) is 4 years older than me, we have been together since college(4 1/2 years). Yes people can change, especially in young adulthood, but the thing about marriage is growing and changing together for the better...together.
Sad, you foreveraloners will never be able to experience unconditional love to another person(non-relation), so you hate on op for finding someone that compliments him, because you are lonely

[PaiaGrown]

OP was she rolling when you proposed?

[solidsnake88]

I was on the right side of the stage when A&B dropped sun and moon. wish we were closer to the left where you guys were so i coulda seen it!

saw the video when it was posted...congrats man. showed the vid to my gf and she's like why don't you do something like that!!

[GreggyBee]

I don't understand why people are talking about age as if it makes a huge difference on maturity. Sh!t I know of some immature 50 years old myself, it's not like Op is marrying a 16 year old girl.
My fiance(soon to be husband in 7 days) is 4 years older than me, we have been together since college(4 1/2 years). Yes people can change, especially in young adulthood, but the thing about marriage is growing and changing together for the better...together.
Sad, you foreveraloners will never be able to experience unconditional love to another person(non-relation), so you hate on op for finding someone that compliments him, because you are lonely

Woman Logic. "Hating" on OP is like tough love from an older brother. Its mean at first but ultimately he's looking out for your best interest. Back to the female misc you go

[brah.sensation]

We had a video up on YouTube but we ended up making it private as it was kind of tainting our special moment due to negative people posting about us. I really don't care but it kind of hurt her. I think our video is still front page of edmtunes if you want to check it out.

I chose EDC because edm has been a positive factor in our relationship as well as helped us reunite. I also needed to do something massive and have her be the spotlight. We had about 30 friends there and it was better than I ever imagined. Blew her mind, literally the most amazing thing ever to happen to her, it was magical. Plus, we separated right before EDC 2013 and I still went, sent her footage of me singing sun and moon to hurt her, and I met a girl there. So this proposal was so perfect.

your relation with her looks like its based on jealousy and childish games, plus breaking upin the past is never a good sign.
there is no place to express her slootyness except in the bedroom with you, encouraging her into that behavior is IMO beta. No sane man would ever enjoy his gf showing her ass and tits to other unknown men only for the sake of her "expressing herself"

not being a dick, just being real, trying to help a brah out. Youre 30, no time to waste with sloots who will leave you in 1 year because you caught her cheating, you should go about finding a girl with more values and maturity and build a serious relationship with a strong frame, not some edm concert.

[one-two]

I wish you both live happily ever after however, stats say otherwise, 67% divorce rate is it, within the first 5 years of marriage. Contemplate everything, and then make up your mind.

Have a listen to this: Opie and Anthony clip on "never get married" - listen and you'll find out why.

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Still do it though, I'm sure she's the only and you're on the 30% who do last.

you seriously expect people to listen to a 100min show of those two ****s talking about reasons not to get married?
looking at the freezeframe they're probably saying not to marry because they can't find women themselves. 1 looks like a **** the other looks like a ****ing bum
****ing lol

[ScratchandSniff]

Good luck OPM



Brotip. Don't ever let her go to Spain, or especially Magaluf. Pce I'm out.

[Josh1211]

if your sure she's the one and your marriage will work, why not wait? If she really is the one, she still will be 5 years from now.

But if she isn't the one and it doesn't work�. good night sweet everything.


makes no sense to get married so quick.. at least have a long engagement you dumb fuk.

[brah.sensation]

if your sure she's the one and your marriage will work, why not wait? If she really is the one, she still will be 5 years from now.

But if she isn't the one and it doesn't work…. good night sweet everything.


makes no sense to get married so quick.. at least have a long engagement you dumb fuk.

I always thought that people who get married quick do it more for insecurity reasons than anything else, they feel if they dont do it they might lose her/him or other men might try more.

[PectoralBrah]

2 girls

and a bunch of dudes dressed as girls

80% don't even lift

yup, exactly how i pictured the misc irl

lol @ all the manlets

lol @ all the *******s doing that homo zyzz pose

lol @ all the manlets that don't lift

lol @ the hideous facial aesthetics

[adamsz]

I hate to be negative, but....

You've gonna dated for 2 years and known her for 3? I don't think that's nearly enough time to truly get to know someone and see if you want to spend the rest of your life with them.

Longest relationship I've been in is 2 years. New personality traits of my gf came out even at the end of the relationship (particularly negative ones) that hadn't manifested themselves prior... Point is it takes a long time to really truly get to know someone, and marriage is a HUGE commitment.

[SquallFF8]

I don't understand why people are talking about age as if it makes a huge difference on maturity. Sh!t I know of some immature 50 years old myself, it's not like Op is marrying a 16 year old girl.
My fiance(soon to be husband in 7 days) is 4 years older than me, we have been together since college(4 1/2 years). Yes people can change, especially in young adulthood, but the thing about marriage is growing and changing together for the better...together.
Sad, you foreveraloners will never be able to experience unconditional love to another person(non-relation), so you hate on op for finding someone that compliments him, because you are lonely

Let me take a quick moment to piss on your pitiful reply that probably took you 45 minutes to type out because you don't seem very bright:

OP's fiance:

Goes out in public and parties in her underwear with groups consisting mostly of guys. Mature?

She is still in college at the age of 24 because she had no idea how to set her life up. Mature?

She currently doesn't even work and has OP on her leash working and going to school again at the age of 30 because he was a bum throughout his 20s. Mature?

They broke up (and OP won't even get specific about this because she probably initiated it and wanted to sloot it up) and she fuked one other guy (or so he thinks) in between that year they were "apart." Mature?

Why do I (or other miscers) care? Because our taxpayer dollars will likely be supporting her ass when shes on welfare here within a year after getting divorced and she needs help paying for the kid that OP gave her "out of the love of their happy marriage," but now is growing up in a broken home.

Also, nobody cares about your life story. So you found an older guy to marry you at the ripe age of 24. How great. I guarantee i've been in more stable long term relationships than you have. This is probably your first real relationship outside of slooting it up. Congrats. Better get your beta fianc� to settle down now with you so someone can support you while you make unorganized, illiterate posts on the internet all day spewing nonsense in an area that you have no clue about.

[RunningTall]

Congrats man that was great! For anyone else looking, here's the video:

http://www.edmtunes.com/2014/06/man-...-sun-moon-edc/

[GreggyBee]

Let me take a quick moment to piss on your pitiful reply that probably took you 45 minutes to type out because you don't seem very bright:

OP's fiance:

Goes out in public and parties in her underwear with groups consisting mostly of guys. Mature?

She is still in college at the age of 24 because she had no idea how to set her life up. Mature?

She currently doesn't even work and has OP on her leash working and going to school again at the age of 30 because he was a bum throughout his 20s. Mature?

They broke up (and OP won't even get specific about this because she probably initiated it and wanted to sloot it up) and she fuked one other guy (or so he thinks) in between that year they were "apart." Mature?

Also, nobody cares about your life story. So you found an older guy to marry you at the ripe age of 24. How great. I guarantee i've been in more stable long term relationships than you have. This is probably your first real relationship outside of slooting it up. Congrats. Better get your beta fianc� to settle down now with you now so someone can support you while you make unorganized, illiterate posts on the internet all day spewing nonsense in an area that you have no clue about.

look at her username, most people get married in the Military for the extra money.

[everglide123]

I always thought that people who get married quick do it more for insecurity reasons than anything else, they feel if they dont do it they might lose her/him or other men might try more.

ofc, it's for insecure men to lock-in their girl, gives them the mental security that their girl won't cheat, but unfortunately from what I read on OP's case, it doesn't look good. Never a good sign when a relationship doesn't work out once.





lool, did she really go out dressed like that? I guess she likes the attention...

EDIT:

Are you wearing fuking yoga pants to a festival? You scared of dem mosquito bites?

[LordBroski]

ofc, it's for insecure men to lock-in their girl, gives them the mental security that their girl won't cheat, but unfortunately from what I read on OP's case, it doesn't look good. Never a good sign when a relationship doesn't work out once.



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lool, did she really go out dressed like that? I guess she likes the attention...

I wonder how many people there thought "MISC" was some underground gangbang/bukkake club.

[chrsschb]

ofc, it's for insecure men to lock-in their girl, gives them the mental security that their girl won't cheat, but unfortunately from what I read on OP's case, it doesn't look good. Never a good sign when a relationship doesn't work out once.

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lool, did she really go out dressed like that? I guess she likes the attention...

It's basically a bathing suit. Who the fuk cares? Ever been out of the house. You know, in public? I encourage my wife to wear sexy clothing around me. We've been to several parties, yachts/beaches included, where the dress is minimal. Unless you're some insecure man why are you worried? I said it before as long as she does it WITH you and not WITHOUT you it shouldn't be an issue.


I agree on the rushing into marriage thing. We were together 3 years before proposal and another 3 before marriage.

[ButWhoWasOpie]

hope u have a good marraige bro! mirin aesthethics as well

[Mikelawton]

congratulations, but i was wondering if you could expand on the outfit thing

EDC is a whole different animal, and people who don't understand the music and culture will never understand why what she was wearing isn't a big deal. In fact she's more covered up than a lot of girls there lol. AND what's the difference between that and a swimsuit?

can you elaborate on the "people who don't understand the music and culture will never understand why what she was wearing isn't a big deal". to me, clothing and what people wear can be a way of expressing individuality, social groups and more. if your fiancee is half-naked at a concert, what is she expressing or saying about herself wearing that outfit?

[RunningTall]

Confirmed it is you...just wants sure at first. Congrats and wish you the best. I know there are a lot of people talking chit but I'm certain it was expected. Take care, dude.

Will you be catering quest bars at the wedding?

[hzx]

Why do a bunch or your 'crew' wear misc singlets but not lift?

Why do you attend events with a bunch or awkward *******s?

Are you going to show your future kids this video and hope they don't notice that you're munted as fuk?

[Benny__Blanco]

OP you're a good guy with good intentions, and i don't think you have made a bad decision, but if you two continue to go to raves for the next 5-10 years, the amount of new people you will be meeting will make you reconsider the decision. IMO a marriage i will only work when the 2 people are done with their party stage of life

[Parkerscott]

Taken from the article. "Though the lyrics don’t exactly scream ‘together forever,’ " Sounds like a sign from the cosmos op

[KILLdante]

please don't get a dj


have yung lean perform


guaranteed to be a beautiful wedding. everyone will be balling their eyes out

[DragonFireBrah]

Sad, you foreveraloners will never be able to experience unconditional love to another person(non-relation), so you hate on op for finding someone that compliments him, because you are lonely

lmao, I'm married to a foreign woman and in no way would I ever marry one of the sloots I flucked with when I was younger� no way. There's a reason why divorces are 60% in the US and 75% initiated by women� please don't try to rationalize it.

[TotalNatty]

So let me get this straight... you two were together for 2 years, broke up for an entire year, just got back together and already proposed to her while rolling balls at some festival where she is dressed in lingerie.... Well good luck OP