last tuesday my gf (10 months) and i got in a big fight because she says i act differently when we're with groups of people. she said she loves how i am when we're alone and it seems like i actually want to listen to what she has to say and stuff. then when we're in groups it's like i couldn't care less about what she has to say and blah blah blah.
two days later it is her best friends birthday and they have a party but i couldn't go to it because i had to be up at 7 am the next day.
today she sends me a text saying the guilt of something has been eating her alive and she has to tell me and she tells me she made out with this one kid at that party.
she said it was only 30 seconds then she went and started bawling and it was meant nothing and she regrets it, typical sloot chit.
so i get the dudes number from someone and text him, and we've met before and i just tell him what's going on and just trying to find out details.
he said it "just happened" and probably lasted like 30 seconds. i asked him how she reacted after and he said she got up and walked away and started crying and stuff and he said it was no big deal and didn't mean anything to either of them.
so i really don't know if i should stay with her or not. i love her to death so breaking up will be so fukking hard for me.
give me some input brahs
edit: she said she'll never go out anywhere without me for a looooong time til i regain her trust
UPDATE: BROKE UP. #289
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06-30-2014, 08:22 AM #1Registered User
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misc, is a 30 second make out worthy of breaking up with gf? (story time) (no pics)
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06-30-2014, 08:23 AM #2Sweet Prince of Peace
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dump her
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06-30-2014, 08:24 AM #3'The Implication'
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Don't worry brah in a years' time she'll take Jamal's dink but only for 30 seconds though then she'll bawl
CUT IT OFF *******, SHE CHEATED.WOLVESBRAH
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06-30-2014, 08:24 AM #4Banned
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Smack her in the face hard until she bleeds; go find that dude and beat his ass; show pics of both parties beaten and abused; receive reps.
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06-30-2014, 08:25 AM #5Banned
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1. It was way longer than 30 seconds
2. Yes she is a sloot
3. She's not sorry
4. She will do it again
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06-30-2014, 08:25 AM #6Registered User
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lol @ even considering staying with her
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06-30-2014, 08:25 AM #7Registered User
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Sorry bro, cheating is cheating...
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06-30-2014, 08:26 AM #8Banned
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She will do it again. Next time it'll be sooner.
Dump her and move on now. There's no point in letting her do it again and wasting your time
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06-30-2014, 08:26 AM #9Registered User
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She's not worth your time
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06-30-2014, 08:27 AM #10Registered User
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I'm surprised no one has said that she told you about the kiss to cover up what she really did.
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06-30-2014, 08:27 AM #11Bleedin' Green
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bro, its not even a question. If you have any self respect whatsoever, youll next her. It doesn't matter how many feels you have for her, find another bish. She probably did more than that. Get rid of her. She doesn't deserve anymore of your love.
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06-30-2014, 08:27 AM #12pork chop sandwiches
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thisOriginally Posted by BigAndJuicy
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06-30-2014, 08:27 AM #13Registered Seducer
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betas gonna bet..
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06-30-2014, 08:28 AM #14One Of Our Top Posters!
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If I ever meet you I'll slap the chit out of you for asking such a dumb question...
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06-30-2014, 08:28 AM #15Registered User
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i know i shouldn't but i think it's cause she's my first long relationship (at least long for me)Originally Posted by CCAurora
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06-30-2014, 08:28 AM #16dreamer bulkin
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"Made out for 30 seconds" = sucked his dink for 30 minutes
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06-30-2014, 08:28 AM #17Banned
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Of course it's worth breaking up over. It shows her lack of loyalty. Whether it was a kiss or full blown sex she betrayed your trust just because you had an argument. That isn't GF material. NC her completely and have stern words with the guy.
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06-30-2014, 08:29 AM #18Cocaine Biceps
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abort her like a fetus.
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06-30-2014, 08:30 AM #19Registered User
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OP, I kinda feel that this is all your fault because...
she likes you the way you are
When you're drivin' in your car
And you're talking to her one on one
But you've become...
Somebody else 'round everyone else
You're watching your back like you can't relax
You're tryin' to be cool
You look like a fool to me
Tell me
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06-30-2014, 08:31 AM #20Registered User
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they had sex and both told eachother to lie to you.
drop her like a bag of potatoes
unless youre a potato
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06-30-2014, 08:32 AM #21College Gym Rat
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I know dem feels of really loving the girl, BUT NO! NO NO NO NOOOOOOOO! Sorry you will regret it in the long run. Yes it was 30seconds now, then next time its "I was drunk and it was only a minute" if she would do it once then she would do it again and youll get the same sob story
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06-30-2014, 08:32 AM #22Registered User
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Look, she cheated. She had no self control and she will probably do it again if out into a similar situation. No need to be rude and call her a whore or anything, just explain that she cheated and you won't be with someone who can't respect their own relationship.
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Break up with her, she is a cheater.
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06-30-2014, 08:32 AM #23Registered User
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I wouldn't be able to stay with here after that, if it's not eating away at your mind already it will be.
I'd give him a slap as well, it's good to show everyone your not soft by giving someone the odd clout here and there, would also be a story that helps with future girlfriends. "don't go near her, her blokes a bit of a psycho"
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30 seconds is a pretty solid length enjoyable make out sesh
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06-30-2014, 08:33 AM #25I don't even like it here
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So your girl starts chit over the fact you don't give her enough attention, and when it doesn't work she sticks her tongue down some kids throat? Sorry Opie, your girl a manipulative bish deperate enough to do anything for your attention. I'd get right the fuk out of there, best of luck
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06-30-2014, 08:34 AM #26
Sorry mate but she needs to go.
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If you have to ask, you're a *******.
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This. It is a red flag for sure. Dump her ASAP. You will be better off for sure.Originally Posted by BigAndJuicy
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06-30-2014, 08:35 AM #30Juice Blend Guru No bike
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If you don't dump her there is a downward spiral that follows men when this happens. Slowly that thing that is called being a man will drift from you further than it already has - hence asking the MISC for gf advice. You will start to allow more and more things like this to happen in your life and not only with gf related things. This girl is afraid of losing you and that is a good thing as it keeps you with some pride but if you take her back you will lose that upper hand and maybe she will cheat on you again and who cares "he is beta" you will doubt yourself in general more than you do now, so better just to cut it out and "no contact"
cliffs: She is sorry, but who cares. Dump her
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