How do you deal with GF who is pregnant and you don't want the Baby??

[tanajerner]

u wot m8? why the fuk not? some miscer whos 22 or something had one a few months back

He's a lucky guy I'm from the UK maybe its different here

[Manc33]

inb4 years pass and OP's daughter posts here linking to this thread for the lulz

[dash_riprock]

some women with pride won't even pursue you for child support. You can get abortions pretty late into the pregnancy though, but i'm sure she won't want one at this stage.

best option is to make it work with the chick and be there for the kid man. might be more rewarding than you think. If it doesn't work, bail out, see the kid on weekends and write her a cheque every month. This crap happens to guys all the time.

[skinnybig2]

And nope I don't make good money at all

Wing a kid with a stranger while broke, well at least you are doing it right.

[sococo1]

You should of wrapped up if you were that concerned. To be honest you are responsible for this kid and how he/she turns out as they grow up. Too many kids are fuked up from having chitty single parent families, even though plenty turn out fine, the kid will always wonder why their dad didn't want them.

There's no point in saying you don't want a kid cause you're in it now and you have no idea how you'll feel once you see the baby for the first time, it could change your life completely, in a positive way.

If you really don't want anything and decide to bounce then the kid was better off without you IMO. If a guy is adamant he doesn't want kids he should make sure to wear a condom or get his gf on some kind of implant or iUD that she can't 'skip'. No hate just my opinion.


Inb4 u end up on jeremy kyle

[WintryRaven]

You are an idiot. If a guy "says" he doesn't want a child he should follow those words with the appropriate "action" and use a condom, period. Words without action are empty.

they already used protection, jesus christ. that chit just ain't 100%.

[IRockNikes]

The one the doesn't want the child should be the one taking on the responsibility in preventing it!! And then when a child does come along just kick it to the curb and that child will live his life wondering why he had a father who hated him.

What is wrong with you? You're saying its completely the guy's fault here when the girl clearly played him out? How is it right for the woman to use a fuking child to trap a man? That is sick and disgusting. If I found out my mom did that to my dad I'd legit never talk to her again srs. Would rather be adopted than have that kind of a birth.

[Sandman33]

Well this sucks since you don't want kids but you're 32. You man up and take responsibility. She ****ed up the pill, that was her responsibly . You didn't wear a condom, that is your responsibly. Both had sex and got pregnant, now it is both your responsibilities. By the way you are acting towards her she will most likely not want you in the picture (or maybe she will, who knows) Bare minimum you are paying child support for 18 years. The max you actually step up and become a father to this kid.

But how involved you are now will have consequences later on in life when you kid is older. What kind of father you will be will be reflected in the choices you make now.

32? Dude is 32?

You man up and take care of your child op. Once you see your own offspring you'll never be the same. Something inside you deep is connected to it. Unless you're a no conscience scumbag.

[vsukicker]

make her get an abortion. srs

[tanajerner]

Well this sucks since you don't want kids but you're 32. You man up and take responsibility. She ****ed up the pill, that was her responsibly . You didn't wear a condom, that is your responsibly. Both had sex and got pregnant, now it is both your responsibilities. By the way you are acting towards her she will most likely not want you in the picture (or maybe she will, who knows) Bare minimum you are paying child support for 18 years. The max you actually step up and become a father to this kid.

But how involved you are now will have consequences later on in life when you kid is older. What kind of father you will be will be reflected in the choices you make now.

Although I do agree with you I do wonder if you would (as an example) stay with a girl you didn't love for 18 years would that be fair on her? Having someone that doesn't want or love her surely that could potentially do more harm than good

That's what my main issue is

[EricEst1978]

they already used protection, jesus christ. that chit just ain't 100%.

he didn't use a condom. he already admitted that.

[syth1230]

What is wrong with you? You're saying its completely the guy's fault here when the girl clearly played him out? How is it right for the woman to use a fuking child to trap a man? That is sick and disgusting. If I found out my mom did that to my dad I'd legit never talk to her again srs. Would rather be adopted than have that kind of a birth.

same here

deception shouldnt be rewarded

[Malfurion]

1.) Break up with girlfriend
2.) Pay child support

That's it.


Lots of guys have already pointed this out, but it wasn't an accident bro. Your GF's clock was ticking and she intentionally became pregnant.

[Sandman33]

Although I do agree with you I do wonder if you would (as an example) stay with a girl you didn't love for 18 years would that be fair on her? Having someone that doesn't want or love her surely that could potentially do more harm than good

That's what my main issue is

You stay with her unless things between you are impossible. But if so you still support your kid.

[Deenur]

Man up and be a man after you were doin what you thot was the manly deed.

Anything else and you're a giant asshat

[tanajerner]

32? Dude is 32?

You man up and take care of your child op. Once you see your own offspring you'll never be the same. Something inside you deep is connected to it. Unless you're a no conscience scumbag.

I don't think it makes you a scumbag if you don't want a child even if its your own some people are wired differently. To not offer to do the right thing is though

[kkBRB]

NEWS FLASH: The birth control pills DO work. It's usually the one who misses their days and times that make it "not work." She also wants to keep the baby is that not an indication that she might have been planning this? Wake up dude!

das it mane

pepper your angus OP

[WintryRaven]

he didn't use a condom. he already admitted that.

and most sane people don't when they're already using birth control. you can't be a virgin at 35..

[george233]

Why didn't you pull out OP?

[WintryRaven]

same here

deception shouldnt be rewarded

yeah. guys in here going on about "man up" are being a bunch of tools.

If his gf brings a child into the world knowing it'll have one less supporter and no father, then that's on HER. She has all the power now. That's the reality of modern birth control. That's the reality of modern technology, and of gender equality. brb, females have no personal accountability. fukking pathetic.

[LashGordon]

In the exact same scenario right now.


Just gone 10 weeks.


Except she isn't my gf.


Only thing to do now is pick an alpha name...

[tanajerner]

You stay with her unless things between you are impossible. But if so you still support your kid.

I disagree

My dad after 20 years of marriage to my mum left her and said he never loved her. He only got married because of children. My mum could have had a lot happier life and I and my brother wouldn't have had to listen to all this screaming arguments that happened daily

[muximus]

NEWS FLASH: The birth control pills DO work. It's usually the one who misses their days and times that make it "not work." She also wants to keep the baby is that not an indication that she might have been planning this? Wake up dude!

So much this. That girl wanted to get preggos. The pill works. If she intentionally "forgot" to take a couple of days, took them irregularly of course it wont work. It was her fault, she wants it. IDK how child support chit works in great britain but good luck brah.

[iRambo]

http://www.returnofkings.com/16089/h...et-an-abortion

relevant

[my.self]

some alpha miscer u are

[Archangel_Lost]

yeah that bish wasn't on the pill cuz

[twiceasnice]

She's not overjoyed or happy about it. She just doesn't want an abortion

So is putting it up for adoption an option?

[randomguy20]

lol @ pull out. my bro just got his gf pregnant that way too. as did the last couple I knew. that **** doesn't work that good. like it works. but eventually it will fail, much much easier than a condom or pill.


ive never IN REAL LIFE known a legit, non lying couple/person that said they used a condom or birth control and got pregnant. only the retard pull outs or people that just didn't even pull out, etc, that ive known got pregnant

but yeah my bro is a 22 year old retarded pot head. so it makes sense he would do that. at 32, that's just hilarious.

also, at your age you should've got a vasectomy or something. knowing you'll never really want kids.


also im guessing the chic is not 18. so she probably is a little older too and wanted the kid. plus it doesn't seem like she was pressing the condom issue.

anyways sounds like a great way to start a relationship, with disagreeing as much as possible on the most important decision you can make as couple. good luck dude. you'll need it.

[tanajerner]

So is putting it up for adoption an option?

I haven't even asked I just assumed no

[BarbsJr]

dude adoption would be the next best thing to abortion.

Its just not worth bringing a child into this phucked up world with chances of diseases and being disfigured and being a socially awkward white knight lil beta kid.

A child needs 2 loving parents to develop properly.