Hi all , I am new and I am very insecure about myself.
I have decent body and facial aesthetics I would give myself 6/10 at best max. But I don't lift.
I m not virgin , but I haven't had sex for 2 years since school , was different back than, I have trouble now finding girl , my confidence is crushed.
I want to get laid asap and should i really bother that much getting ripped and improving looks?
Is personality more important? Can you still be average without six pack abs and phuck 7 or 8/10 girl?
Please give me advice and some motivation , I am desperate , I don't wanna pay hooker and waste money, I want to find girl instead
Any misc that is average looking and still got laid with HBB? Experts please and women how important is looks if you want sex purely?
Pls help brothers
Went full beta , but at least im honest , expecting honest reply thx
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06-05-2014, 05:14 AM #1
Do you really need to be ripped to have sex with hot girl ( females GIH ) ( SRS )
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06-05-2014, 05:22 AM #10
GoodLookingLoser posits that "game" is more or less useless for short-term relationships, and all that matters really is status, money, and looks, with looks reigning by far the most important.
He also posits that it's only really the top 20% of guys that are getting the most sex, with the rest of the 80% getting left behind for the scraps.
I agree with him.
If you're not exceptionally handsome, or tall, or rich, or have a lot of friends, or dress really well, then yeah lifting will make you "better" than the other guys you're competing against.
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06-05-2014, 05:22 AM #11
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06-05-2014, 05:25 AM #14
People say this all time, but I actually rarely see good-looking girls with guys who aren't good-looking - at least on my college campus. Nearly all of the couples are equal in attractive. If the guy wasn't as good looking facially, he'd usually be really well dressed or be really big and jacked.
Perhaps the "chubby decent faced" dudes you see are just friends with the girl?
Or perhaps, since they're out of the socioeconomically-equalized world of college, the guys are rich and are playing the "sugar daddy" role?
Or lastly, I think that those "chubby decent faced" dudes you talk about might also be really tall. Chubby tall guys clean up because size is attractive.
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06-05-2014, 05:25 AM #15
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06-05-2014, 05:28 AM #19
I disagree with this. Your intelligence doesn't mean **** if a girl isn't into you physically - unless you leverage your intelligence into getting into an top-tier job or tremendous wealth. Your charisma might help you, only insofar as it helps you gain status within a group.
Etc.
I've been ugly, and I've been good looking. I was far more charismatic when I was ugly, and yet I have way more success now that I'm good looking. Looks reign supreme for short-term hookups.
For relationships, yeah, that stuff matters.
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06-05-2014, 05:28 AM #20
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06-05-2014, 05:28 AM #21
Someone with a great personality and a decent body can get laid by cute chicks, might take a little bit of effort. Hot guys with a decent personality can get laid by cute chicks.
Aesthetics gets you in the door quicker with thirsty sloots, personality a little better for the relationship type girls.
Personally? I like to use both depending on the vibe a girl gives off. If it's a girl I'm pretty sure I can bang in the next 24 hours I give off my caveman douchey personality and keep the conversation sexual. If it's a girl I have to work on for a week or two before banging, I give off my sweet and charming personality to disarm them.*True Detective Crew*
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06-05-2014, 05:29 AM #22
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No but it certainly helps. Girls can say they don't care about muscles but once they're in bed with you they won't stop touching and feeling every part of your body. The last chick I nailed said that I was too big and borderline gross but then once the shirt came off and she was in my bed she couldn't get over my physique.
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