JUST WANTED TO CLARIFY I DIDN'T STICK MY HAND OUT AND BLOW A KISS LIKE SOME ***GOT. ALL I DID WAS TAKE A PICTURE OF MYSELF WITH MY EYES CLOSED AND LIPS PUCKERED LIKE I WAS GOING TO KISS HER
Prior to 4 weeks ago I was a hugless, kissless, dateless, virgin. Then some 21 year old starting going to the gym at night which is when I go. She mired the **** out of me every time, I always caught her staring in the mirrors. I didn't know how to approach her but eventually she asked my friend for my phone number and we went out. After a few dates I slept over her apartment and she took my vcard. Then two nights after that we smashed again in the gym locker room shower. Each time we lasted well over an hour; she said it was the best sex of her life and that she's never been more turned on by a man. I still think she was telling the truth there.
Shortly after that she got some birth control device shoved in her uterus so we couldn't have sex for a week, although we came pretty close cause she was so horny. But the last two weeks have been different. I've had to initiate all the texting conversation. We haven't hung out very much and we haven't been having intense make out sessions like we did before. The last time we had sex was in the gym, like 3 weeks ago.
A few days ago she apologized for not having much time to hang out. I said that I was a little upset but I understood her life was busy. But her life aint busy, she hardly works and she posts snapchat stories all day of her playing with her dog and hanging out with family/friends.
I seriously don't have any real idea why her feelings might have changed so quickly. She was absolutely in love with me two weeks ago; to her I was the perfect man. I really caught the feels for this girl. She's not 100% perfect but I love spending time with her so much. I don't want that to all go away and have my life revert to the state it was in.
She's so much more outgoing than me and she just has a lot more life experience. I can be pretty passive sometimes and maybe she doesn't like that. And I'm the first guy she's ever dated who was younger than her. When she asked me out in the gym she assumed I was in my mid 20s. I just turned 20 a few days ago.
Four nights ago I sent her a picture of myself blowing her a goodnight kiss and I haven't heard from her since. I could gather some evidence by reading her snapchat stories but I don't want her to know that I looked at it.
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05-22-2014, 09:18 AM #1Message Board King
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Girl that I'm seeing and also took my virginity hasn't texted me in 4 days; wat do
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05-22-2014, 09:20 AM #2Duke Nukin Your Ass
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05-22-2014, 09:20 AM #3you mad Im stylin on you?
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man up and text her, and just be like look, Idc if this is over, but at least have the decency to let me know.
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05-22-2014, 09:21 AM #4Bad Company
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05-22-2014, 09:21 AM #5Registered User
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05-22-2014, 09:21 AM #6Registered Ectomorph
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Fist yourself.
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05-22-2014, 09:22 AM #7Red Death
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Youre getting too clingy. Back off snd try to pick up more girls. She'll come back
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05-22-2014, 09:23 AM #8Registered User
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thisOriginally Posted by DoWorkSon515
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05-22-2014, 09:23 AM #9Registered User
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some girls are fuked up like this man, just move on. I had this happen to me a few weeks ago, were i had did nothing and she stopped talking to me for no reason i can think of. although i have experience with this and can easily continue on with life without a second thought. some girls are like guys, they just life for the moment and monkey branch. dont have any regard for other feelings than her own.
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05-22-2014, 09:23 AM #10Tiptoe Through the Tulips
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You can see anyone who is on your friend's list that looks at your stories. Anyways I would call her, not text, and ask her straight up why she has not replied in 4 days. Then say if you don't want to continue what we had going on let me know and don't just leave me hanging.
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05-22-2014, 09:24 AM #11Registered User
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you know what to do OP....
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05-22-2014, 09:24 AM #12Certified Baconator
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I'll leave this here. Wizard a few posts aboveOriginally Posted by DoWorkSon515
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05-22-2014, 09:24 AM #13Absolutely Kickening
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Originally Posted by DoWorkSon515
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05-22-2014, 09:24 AM #14Registered User
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Idk, I wouldn't say this. Send her a message though, it sounds like you are sitting back waiting for her to keep coming after you but sooner or later you have to be the man. She wants you to be the man. She isn't better than you and you've already plowed it, so ask her to hang out, tell her your loins are burning. Most bishes wont come to you, you gotta make it happen cause **** don't just happen on its own.Originally Posted by davidhogan34
Edit: Also, quit with the sappy crap. These brahs are right. If she doesn't want to hang out or makes an excuse just say okay and then forget about her. If she wants to hang she will get a hold of you eventually.
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05-22-2014, 09:25 AM #15( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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birthcontrol is the female equivalent of fapping
you know that feel after you fap opie...
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05-22-2014, 09:25 AM #16Registered User
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You're the clingy virgin
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05-22-2014, 09:26 AM #17Registered User
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You had the alpha thing going for a while, phuckin in the gym and all that. But this...this killed it for her.Originally Posted by DoWorkSon515
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05-22-2014, 09:27 AM #18Registered User
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Originally Posted by DoWorkSon515
This is your problem OP. At this stage in life you are a supreme beta. I don't even......
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05-22-2014, 09:27 AM #19Originally Posted by DoWorkSon515
Cringe overload.
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05-22-2014, 09:29 AM #20Registered User
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Best bet is just to move on. You now know how to talk to, kiss and have sex with a woman. Just move on to another one and do it with her instead. You were probably too clingy with this one and its put her off. Don't worry about it, everyone goes through things like this in their shafting career, no one is born cool with all the knowledge and experience, you have to learn it.
She may contact you again, but if you keep chasing her she won't.
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05-22-2014, 09:29 AM #21Registered User
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pining over the person that you lost your V to. I thought only girls were this clingy bout dis chit.
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05-22-2014, 09:29 AM #22Originally Posted by DoWorkSon515
Why do you *******s fraud about how long you last in the sack? You're either a massive liar or you have a medical problem.
No one lasts an hour buddy, real life is not porn.
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05-22-2014, 09:30 AM #23Registered User
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05-22-2014, 09:30 AM #24Biochemistry brah.
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Sounds like you thought you guys were dating....was that ever officially talked about? Maybe she just wanted sex and not the emotional part. If that's the case you goof'd with the gey kiss blowing chit lmao.
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05-22-2014, 09:30 AM #25Registered User
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He's not that bad. At least he's now had sex. There are people on here that not only have never had sex, but have given up on the idea of ever having sex. Some limp ******* the other day on here said he'd lasted twenty something years, he just had another 40 or 50 years to go without having sex then his life would be over. Those sort of fukk ups are the real *******s. Everyone was a virgin once, but at least some people try. Just keep thrusting OP.Originally Posted by ProphetBrah
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05-22-2014, 09:31 AM #26Registered User
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You again?! Just playing, i like u potato. Strong possibilitie the birth control is messing with her hormones, especially if its her first time doing it. Also never,nerver,reven i reapeat never send a picture like that again. Most homo thing you can do
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05-22-2014, 09:31 AM #27Originally Posted by DoWorkSon515
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05-22-2014, 09:31 AM #28Registered User
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I didn't finish the first several times I had sex. When I'm with a new girl that I like, a lot of times I won't finish for the first few times. I could literally have sex until they are too sore to continue, so depending on the girl it could be two hours. It's nerves, kinda like how some guys can't get it up, I get it up but I just can't get the next step. Makes a good first impression as long as me not finishing doesn't crush them.Originally Posted by shadymilkman1
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05-22-2014, 09:32 AM #29Registered User
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giving a chit about petty chit like this is the biggest hindrance to your personal success OPIE just stfu, get fuarking shredded, acquire currency, let the tides of life hit you and don't react. gg not even one rematch
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There's nothing you can do, and there are a million different explanations for why she behaved that way. A lot of us have dealt with women who do a 180 attitude change outta nowhere and stop responding to you, myself included. Usually it involves another guy.
just preoccupy yourself and try to get her off your mind. Maybe she'll contact you and maybe she won't. Do not wait for her or expect her to do anything though, you'll only be disappointed.
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