Why do people assume that staying single= miserable life. And marrying=happy life?

[KnockoutXX]

to give and to experience unconditional love

not even once

women are well and fully capable of loving but their love is 100% conditional.




Fortunately, there are enough women for which you will almost always meet the conditions for their love. But if you don't, be prepared to face her leaving you.

[DonVonDuck]

There's only one right person out there?? Lol strong stats bro.

BRB Spending 20 years to find my one perfect match.

BRB Go down on her and discover that she has a very stinky pussy.

BRB Gagging! Gagging from her foul vaginal odors!

BRB Disappoint.

BRB Dumping her.

[HomerJThompson]

got married 10 months ago, happier than ever.It is amazing feeling to have someone care so much for you. B there for you no matter what.Do anything you want.

Its like rebirth. As a child wehad our parents give us what we desire, now I have my wife.

Hope it is like this in 5 years, they usually call this time the honeymoon phase.

[YasiinBey]

its not external validation, stop trying to sound intelligent. Humans are naturally social creatures so unless you have a loner personality you usually will want some sort of interaction on a regular basis with people you can call friends

and that's it friends i have no aspirations whatsoever to go and meet strangers unless there's something truly unique about them and most people are not. chit even my friends know when to and when not to disturb or bug about social events, and out of all of them i'm probably the only who might go above and beyond to whatever social gathering it is.

inb4 i bet you're boring. every person i have come across has told me i am eccentric


there's really no point in marriage if you don't feel the need or enjoy another person's presence which is what a majority of these people are trying to say. I don't think i'm getting married either can't be bothered with something as trivial as that.

[sword_]

OP you're 19. Try feeling the pressure of marriage, kids, etc at 30. I get that sh*t on a weekly basis almost.

[thesecondrei]

OP you're 19. Try feeling the pressure of marriage, kids, etc at 30. I get that sh*t on a weekly basis almost.

Pressure from yourself or from other peeps?

[SELCOUTH]

OP you're 19. Try feeling the pressure of marriage, kids, etc at 30. I get that sh*t on a weekly basis almost.

From other people or yourself?

[sword_]

Pressure from yourself or from other peeps?

From other people or yourself?

other people

[Bulldognation99]

down low brother?

[raktahn]

That is what you are spoon fed as a child, some people can make marriage work some cant. It is best to ensure you are always put yourself first, regardless of what others say or think as you have a finite amount of years before you succumb to the reality of life - death.

Enjoy every minute as in 50-100 years from now, who will even know you existed?

Live in the moment and live it to the full, and accept the realities of life.

[neosanders]

Your Damned if you don't = Loneliness as you age
Your Damned if you do = What are the chances of finding the one (most cases ends being a compromise of some sort)

I guess the only true pluses are the children. They make a lotta bullchit seem worthwhile.

[PointBreak85]

down low brother?

What?

[mitchFCB]

28 here, not married, single, just going out on a date every now and again. Best friends are all married, 2-3 kids, their wives, my family and everyone else are like, when are you going to settle down and find a girl to get married? To that I say, well, when it happens? To each his own whether you get married at an early age or not, personally I had some very long/stable relationships that just had some things go sour. Sure if both sides worked on it it could have worked out but it didnt, and im not bothered.
Brb do you get lonely? Sure, not so much if you work on yourself and being better every day or week in lots of aspects (work/career, lifestyle, gym, education etc)
Idea of getting married and kids at x-y age is a very annoying idea to me and I see no reason to be stressful thinking of it. I feel bad for poor fellas who cop chit from others about it and it gets them down. IMO just live life brahs, become a better man and dont worry about these sort of things so much /rant