Why do people think virgins over 21 are pathetic?

[b3rtstare]

25 year old virgin checking in. I've had a proper religious upbringing and it would be a sin to fornicate outside marriage. Pre-marital sex is wrong and I avoid situations that would put me in a compromising situation that could enable me to sin. So, that's why i never went to a single party in high school or college. ( no troll)(serious)

[BusterBluth]

25 year old virgin checking in. I've had a proper religious upbringing and it would be a sin to fornicate outside marriage. Pre-marital sex is wrong and I avoid situations that would put me in a compromising situation that could enable me to sin. So, that's why i never went to a single party in high school or college. ( no troll)(serious)

What's your religious identity?

[7Friez]

25 year old virgin checking in. I've had a proper religious upbringing and it would be a sin to fornicate outside marriage. Pre-marital sex is wrong and I avoid situations that would put me in a compromising situation that could enable me to sin. So, that's why i never went to a single party in high school or college. ( no troll)(serious)

wow what did you do to pass the time?

[PrimoVictoria]

idk my test must be too high, i go through the gym and see these hot fcking asses in yoga pants, just wanna rip a hole through the pant and submerge my face into their asses. fuarkkkk brahs.

dunno how you guys can avoid pussy

Oh my test is right up there with yours but it just looks like a lot of wasted time to me. It's just too much effort for me to chase it (also living in a strong religious city doesn't help, gotta get on dat dere relationship time to get poon or get none so I chose the latter).

[iiradman]

Feels brahs. Feels. Time for a bro-hug.

[Matlab]

OP you definitely need to change your view point. I was like you. I was pretty much asexual throughout high school and college. I cared nothing about getting laid or woman honestly. I just cared about school and advancing my career.....

Come 25 I was still a virgin but I didn't care, I would just find the right girl and marry her. I was dead wrong!!! I realized my competition at 25had been dating for 10 years and I had never been on a date. I didn't understand woman. It was like I was 15....

You need to start early so you learn the skills needed to attract the right girl. This sh*t is not as easy as people make it out to be..... Especially if you are looking for that good looking high class successful girl.... Without experience she will eat you alive.

[Charuto222]

Being a virgin over 21 isn't necessarily pathetic in and of itself.

Being a virgin over 21 and allowing it to turn you into a pissed off beta who tries to trick the internet into thinking that he's alpha by screaming about how much he hates "sloots" and "bishes", on the other hand, is indeed pathetic and it shouldn't need an explanation as to why.

[Gaedj]

OP you definitely need to change your view point. I was like you. I was pretty much asexual throughout high school and college. I cared nothing about getting laid or woman honestly. I just cared about school and advancing my career.....

Come 25 I was still a virgin but I didn't care, I would just find the right girl and marry her. I was dead wrong!!! I realized my competition at 25had been dating for 10 years and I had never been on a date. I didn't understand woman. It was like I was 15....

You need to start early so you learn the skills needed to attract the right girl. This sh*t is not as easy as people make it out to be..... Especially if you are looking for that good looking high class successful girl.... Without experience she will eat you alive.

So did you make it brah?

[Matlab]

So did you make it brah?

27 right now still in my prime, still looking for the right woman. Took me about a year of constant date and PUA before I was able to hold a relationship. Was able to hold a hhb for about 2 months. Still looking for miss right.

[Maestro]

Because if you can't get laid by 21 you have to either really, REALLY want to stay a virgin, or you're really, REALLY pathetic

Lets get serious here, The vast majority of men that "lose their virginity" now days just hire an escort so they can say they've lost it. Its not like they were in some long lasting relationship with a girl they loved where they took each others virginity.

[Gaedj]

27 right now still in my prime, still looking for the right woman. Took me about a year of constant date and PUA before I was able to hold a relationship. Was able to hold a hhb for about 2 months. Still looking for miss right.

Fuuuuk. How did you start dating someone at 25? Gj man.

[StillSearching]

Lets get serious here, The vast majority of men that "lose their virginity" now days just hire an escort so they can say they've lost it. Its not like they were in some long lasting relationship with a girl they loved where they took each others virginity.

I recognize most attractive, quality women will have experience by this age. With that said, however, I still want to lose it to someone I care deeply about.

[Annihilate]

If you've ever had acne, you'd know what its like to have absolute 0 confidence... anxiety and the rest. it phuking sucks ass. you wouldn't want to be with someone who has acne... so why would women feel any different about you.

[PrimoVictoria]

If you've ever had acne, you'd know what its like to have absolute 0 confidence... anxiety and the rest. it phuking sucks ass. you wouldn't want to be with someone who has acne... so why would women feel any different about you.

I got my first GF when my acne was at my worst. You're going to make it brah.

[Matlab]

Fuuuuk. How did you start dating someone at 25? Gj man.

Thanks brah. Had to start out dating online, but PUA really helped me out and I can meet woman offline now. It's been a journey, but we are all gonna make it brah

[Gaedj]

If you've ever had acne, you'd know what its like to have absolute 0 confidence... anxiety and the rest. it phuking sucks ass. you wouldn't want to be with someone who has acne... so why would women feel any different about you.

Cystic acne(the one that turns into huge red lump and turns black and **** before it disappears) with obesity crew checking in. It definitely destroyed my confidence although I don't have that problem anymore lol. It took me years to be able to maintain eye contact while I talk to people. Feelsbadman.

[Malfurion]

Probably most people on the misc lost it after 17, you're not doomed

Lol, most guys altogether lose it after 17, average age in the UK is probably 18/19 considering that most guys don't have their first sexual relationship with a woman until their early 20s

[iHurricane]

I lost mine in a bathroom at a party when I was 16, LOL. Chick is a legit 9/10 too. Anyway, I've been with many chicks over the years and I've only ever been in 1 relationship that lasted like 4 weeks when I was 16 (I have commitment issues) and I didn't even have sex with her! So no, you don't need to be in a relationship to get laid. Do I think it's pathetic to be a virgin over the age of 21? No. Sex really is not a big deal. However, you're only kidding yourself by saying it's by choice or you've never wanted to.

*never had sex while in a relationship, but have had many lays crew*

[beauwimberly]

Bro I think it's amazing that your a Virgin at 21. Honestly I think that way more marriages would last if people could abstain from sex until marriage. It would be amazing to go on your wedding day knowing you stayed pure for her and she did the same. (No shame if you haven't because I haven't yet I wish I did.) I think the media and the internet and our environments place so much pressure on men to lose their virginity at an early age and if you don't your not a man. That's garbage and evil man. I think sexual impurity destroys a person on the inside as they sell themselves to it. But God is good and able to cleanse us from old works.

[beauwimberly]

25 year old virgin checking in. I've had a proper religious upbringing and it would be a sin to fornicate outside marriage. Pre-marital sex is wrong and I avoid situations that would put me in a compromising situation that could enable me to sin. So, that's why i never went to a single party in high school or college. ( no troll)(serious)

Reps to you bro!!! I totally agree man I chose a bad path in high school I was a drug dealer and a very bad person but God changed everything man

[iamdetermined]

idk my test must be too high, i go through the gym and see these hot fcking asses in yoga pants, just wanna rip a hole through the pant and submerge my face into their asses. fuarkkkk brahs.

dunno how you guys can avoid pussy

Some days I just wanna hit on every girl I see, i've had days where i get insta-boners when i see dat ass ....that's why i love going to clubs, its one of the few places you can get away with hitting on every hot girl you wanna smash.

[DoctorHitch]

Why the **** do people look down to virgins, is this like to be sure that people keep passing on their genes or something like that because of peer pressure srs

[MakersMark101]

OP you definitely need to change your view point. I was like you. I was pretty much asexual throughout high school and college. I cared nothing about getting laid or woman honestly. I just cared about school and advancing my career.....

Come 25 I was still a virgin but I didn't care, I would just find the right girl and marry her. I was dead wrong!!! I realized my competition at 25had been dating for 10 years and I had never been on a date. I didn't understand woman. It was like I was 15....

You need to start early so you learn the skills needed to attract the right girl. This sh*t is not as easy as people make it out to be..... Especially if you are looking for that good looking high class successful girl.... Without experience she will eat you alive.

Thank you for validating what I got negs for earlier in the thread.

No sex, no dating, means no skills whatsoever. You fall outside of social norms and it will be even THAT much more difficult for you when you finally decide to start.

Girls aren't going to view your virginity as some special flower that you can "give" to them.

[JimWasted]

Because 99% of them are not virgins by choice that's why people think they're pathethic. I don't give a chit about what others do as long as it's not related to me so I couldn't care less your situation OP.
Now stop being a beta ******* and go get some puss

[Aesthetic2210]

IF you just want to get laid its easy, i bet that most miscers have more sexappeal than the average joe since they lift etc...
The ones who are virgins lack the balls to make the move. Aka escalate the situation to sex with a woman.
It has been the males "role" to lead the situation to sex since dawn of time, and the +21 yearr old virgins have failed to do that.

Being dominant&leading is a masculine trait, being submissive and being able to say "It just happend" is a very feminine trait.

[Aesthetic2210]

IF you just want to get laid its easy, i bet that most miscers have more sexappeal than the average joe since they lift etc...
The ones who are virgins lack the balls to make the move. Aka escalate the situation to sex with a woman.
It has been the males "role" to lead the situation to sex since dawn of time, and the +21 yearr old virgins have failed to do that.

Being dominant&leading is a masculine trait, being submissive and being able to say "It just happend" is a very feminine trait.

I think that the reason for it today is giving up into all this feminazi bull****, men being emasculated, lack of real masculine role models for men these days.
Women want a man who is mentally "tougher" than her and a man who can "handle" her and not freak out when she gets hysterical etc...

[whitecollarcrim]

To be virgin at above the age of 21 means three things.

You lack any physical attractiveness.
You lack social awareness and social IQ.
You lack attractive qualities to girls.

Sex is literally one of the greatest feelings ever. It's so much fun, second only to adrenaline like almos dying. Plus health benefits.

To go without sex means you just don't understand or you lack qualities that make you a worthwhile human being. Srs.

[Shortstop36]

dont go out every weekend, dont want a gf, dont make enough money to move out + support someone else

Every virgin has a handfull of excuses why they're virgins. its so funny lol

[Shortstop36]

21 and a virgin, closing in on 22. never seriously hit on a girl in my life, so ive never tried to get laid. do not give a fuk about random sex and I genuinely believe anyone that does has an IQ below 80. care much more about gf than sex, would rather have companionship and intimacy than dull, unfufilling pleasure with someone i dont know or care about.

ive never understood why guys want to spend their time, money and patience worshipping trashy club pussy on the weekends. you take her home, both drunk, and bust a half-assed nut on her stomach and feel terrible the next morning. what did you actually achieve? would i do the same thing if i was hammered and had the opportunity? yeah probably, my standards are low as fuk, but why even put yourself in that position in the first place? brb kill gains with alcohol, brb waste time with losers, brb spend $$$$$$$, brb STD/pregnancy.

my goals in life:

1. acquire fuking currency
2. work on my startup companies and build my professional network
3. improve every day
4. car/house/save money for kids to go to college
5. take care of my body
9001. stick my dink in randoms

being a virgin does suck at times, especially valentines day, other holidays, first few weeks of summer, etc. but it doesnt actually affect my life. when it happens, it happens, but im not going to change who i am and my priorities for casual sex. IMO (and i will probably get negged for this), being addicted to picking up randoms on the weekends is much more pathetic than being a virgin (by choice) because you worship these 4/10s that dont give a fuk about you and just want attention and free drinks. find something more interesting to do on your free nights.

I do want a girlfriend, but not for the sex. sex would be the cherry on top.

Then theres dudes like this that act like if you're banging sloots that's it's your first priority. LOL


As if it's impossible to do your 5 most important things and not **** girls LOL

[VladimirVega]

Thank you for validating what I got negs for earlier in the thread.

No sex, no dating, means no skills whatsoever. You fall outside of social norms and it will be even THAT much more difficult for you when you finally decide to start.

Girls aren't going to view your virginity as some special flower that you can "give" to them.

How often did you mention these "social norms" now in this thread? Srs, who the fck cares about the "social norms" nowadays? Right, only sheeps who say 'yes' to everything, stick with the crowd and have no own opinion to every topic. The 'social norms' are so fckd up these days, it's not even funny anymore but just sad. Even more sad are people who think bad about other people just because they haven't had sex yet. It doesn't make you less valuable of a human being.