Okay, so heres the thing... me and my ex broke up the day after valentines day, I gave her a diamond necklace and we broke up 18hrs later. At first I was heartbroken and made a dear diary thread on the misc... then I found out what a lying piece of trash she is. She lied to me about almost everything in our relationship.
-she was smoking pot behind my back (the first week we got together, I almost broke up with her because she smoked pot, she freaked out and said she was over it and wouldn't do it anymore) <--- that is the biggest one for me
-had a kid that she told me she gave up for adoption at birth, found out last night that he lives with her mom
-lied to me about wanting to be in the relationship, basically, stayed with me through valentines day and bailed
so, heres my question, can I sue her to get my necklace and the few things that I have at her house back? My whole argument is that I would of NEVER given her that necklace if I knew how much she was lying to me, we would of NEVER been in the relationship to begin with. I have the receipt and credit card statements and proof from a friend of mines texts with her about her smoking pot. Its purely for principle at this point but I dont want to qaste $114 to file for nothing
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Ex lied our entire relationship
Gave her a diamond necklace
Broke up the next day
Can I sue to get it back?
Can i sue for the 4-5 items at her house?
Edit- I found out about the kid a month after we broke up from a friend of hers at a bar. Idgaf about the kid, the kid never existed to me thats why I dont care. This isnt a thread about me being mad, bc im not. I just was wondering if I had legal grounds to sue her. The end.
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03-21-2014, 10:02 AM #1
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03-21-2014, 10:04 AM #2Hiding in Honduras
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you'd pay more in fees than the chit is probably worth
+ it could back fire
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03-21-2014, 10:05 AM #3Dat summer cut...
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Nope. It was a gift. You're screwed. Also lolmao for almost breaking up with her because she smoked some weed. You sure you weren't the gf in this relationship?
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03-21-2014, 10:05 AM #4π·πΊπ§πΎπ΅πΈ
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you sound like a massive pussy, so you should consider this a valuable lesson
lots of dudes lose many tens of thousands of dollars later on because they marry whores like that. you got off easy, provided you actually learn your lesson (which you won't)Make Europe Germany Again
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03-21-2014, 10:05 AM #5"Uncle Bill" Lewis
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it's 2014...Is smoking weed still a big deal?
Just take the NY L and gtfo opie. My advice.VOL is life.
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03-21-2014, 10:06 AM #6Irrelevant to YOUR succes
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all of this.Originally Posted by denny2008
especially the legal stuff. it was a gift, you're SOL"It won't get better, just different."
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03-21-2014, 10:06 AM #7Registered User
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$114 bucks?? Consider it a cheap learning experience and move on...
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03-21-2014, 10:07 AM #8Registered User
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No it's legally hers once you give it to her.
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03-21-2014, 10:08 AM #9down to 2 bellies
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Value of necklace pls.
$10K? Yeh, I'd go and steal it back.
$100? no.
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03-21-2014, 10:08 AM #10Originally Posted by EdmundGTP
$114 to file a suit against her... the necklace was much more
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03-21-2014, 10:10 AM #11Gettin' Big Now...
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it was given as a gift, which means you transferred ownership to her upon giving it to her.Originally Posted by ks12
Any property you have in her house you can theoretically sue to get back, however unless you have some VERY expensive stuff, you will spend 50x more on lawyer fees than the value of your stuff.I got no strings to hold me down
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03-21-2014, 10:11 AM #12misc sneakerhead
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strong thread lol
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03-21-2014, 10:11 AM #13Registered User
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Lol @ you getting mad she smokes pot
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03-21-2014, 10:12 AM #14Registered User
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she lied to you about giving up her kid for adoption but weed was your biggest concern?
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03-21-2014, 10:12 AM #15Registered User
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You care more that she smoked weed than that she had a phucking child she never told you about? That ring was your moron tax, because you sir, are a complete and utter moron.
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03-21-2014, 10:12 AM #16Starting Weight 7lbs 11oz
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Sweet baby jesus. Man up and learn. Sue her for $113...
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03-21-2014, 10:13 AM #17Registered User
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stopped reading after you said you told her not to smoke pot.
brb about 10 times better for you than drinking, which im sure you do on the reg. keep being a slave to the government op and you'll turn into a nice 9 to 5 cubicle robot just like they want*spends all workout looking at self in the mirror crew
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03-21-2014, 10:13 AM #18RAPBAK THANKS FOR READING
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im thinking the best course of action here is to get major swole and to win the mr olmpia. that would show the ho. after that burn her house down.
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03-21-2014, 10:13 AM #19
I'm assuming you hadn't been dating this girl long? Why did you buy her a diamond necklace then? Also brah life moves so fast nowadays you need to slow it down and really read and PAY ATTENTION to the way people act. If you would have paid attention you probably would have noticed that this girl was not worth your time. But I guess the poosy clouded your vision. Next time you will learn young padawan.
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03-21-2014, 10:13 AM #20Banned
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You could argue it was a gratuitous gift. All you have to prove is that giving gifts on Valentines day is a social trend and that if you can prove that she asked for one, you're good to go!
- Argue Gratuitous gift
- Show she wanted diamonds or jewelry before V-day
- Explain that giving gifts on V-day is a social trend
- Show because of last point, you really received no benefit
Then
- show that nothing substantial happened in those 18 hours to cause the breakup, so she could have said it right when you gave gift
- as a result, she did this on purpose
- ask for stuff back, look at misc expenses also (dinner, all the stuff you got her)
If you broke up then you are an idiot sir, then:
- ask for it back
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03-21-2014, 10:14 AM #21Royal Stare Force
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OP I know you don't smoke weed, I know this; but I'm gonna get you high today, 'cause it's Friday; you ain't got no job... and you ain't got shit to do.
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03-21-2014, 10:14 AM #22Proud Canadian
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So you bought a very expensive necklace to a girl you just met ?
You deserve your misery, some flowers would have been perfect , it's 20$ and you wouldn't feel like a dumbass right now.
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03-21-2014, 10:14 AM #23Registered User
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How much was the necklace *******?
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03-21-2014, 10:14 AM #24Registered User
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Two words:
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and post the vid so we can see!
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03-21-2014, 10:16 AM #25LIBTARD from KS
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dude just walk away and chalk this one off as a lesson learned...
How you gonna rip it like that son? I don't play that, cause its action, I go... pat, pat, pat 'cause i'm black son! That's right, i'm the black sheep, the real black sheep. I'm the black sheep, the real black sheep. I'm the black sheep, the real black sheep.
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03-21-2014, 10:16 AM #26Proud Canadian
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Ehh I don't think so, inhaling smoke is quite retarded no matter what the substance is.Originally Posted by wearshoodies
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03-21-2014, 10:16 AM #27Registered User
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cant sue for gifts G
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03-21-2014, 10:17 AM #28LIBTARD from KS
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Originally Posted by jimbone21
Maybe D hit him...How you gonna rip it like that son? I don't play that, cause its action, I go... pat, pat, pat 'cause i'm black son! That's right, i'm the black sheep, the real black sheep. I'm the black sheep, the real black sheep. I'm the black sheep, the real black sheep.
Doodle-it, doodle-it, doodle-it-doo!
Doodle-it, doodle-it, doodle-it-doo!
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03-21-2014, 10:17 AM #29misc scientist
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Just ask her for it back? I know it sounds bad but after my gf cheated I was so pissed I asked her to give back all of the necklaces and jewelry I ever gave her, she cried like a baby and gave em up. Then I through them in the lake beside of her house while she was watching..wish I just beat her to death instead
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03-21-2014, 10:17 AM #30Registered User
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Here is what you do.
1. Go see said Ex-gf
2. Ask politely for necklace back and other things
2a. Might want to take your peen out
3. If she says no, then ask for breakup sex
4. If she still says no then a gift is a gift
4a. If yes then wait till night and get a pair of some Navy Seal night vision goggles and while banging search for the items.
4a1. Once finished say you need pee and grab all items.
5.Profit
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