Girl I live with says "The guy should always pay on first date"... thought? (no pics)

[LashGordon]

She's trying to tell me it's a nice gesture and the man should always pay.

I suggested it was a nice gesture when you actually wait to see if you like the girl before you start paying for her chit, otherwise it's just a meaningless gesture done for everyone.

Give me your honest opinions (not what the misc wants to hear)

[LashGordon]

Misc is faster than speed of light

[BurnBabyyyBurn]

He should on the first date for sure. It kind of sets a bad tone right away if he doesn't. It's a gentleman thing to do.

[Legion25]

Bishes just lookin for a free meal. Lemme see if I can pull up that youtube video of the sloot who did it and made an excel of free meals she had.

[LashGordon]

He should on the first date for sure. It kind of sets a bad tone right away if he doesn't. It's a gentleman thing to do.

So its gentlemanly to treat all women the exact same regardless of whether or not they deserve the treatment?

[JKLOL]

Hard to say. I usually do, especially if I specifically ask the girl out. My rule is if by the 3rd date she doesn't offer to pay, she's gone. HOWEVER, I will say that a dinner date as a first date is pretty dumb. If it's coffee, froyo, stupid cheap sh!t like that, then yes you should probably pay (or at least offer).

[Radioactive Man]

Most girls are serial daters. That means they'll really only go on a date with most guys once. So that "first date" is usually an "only date". It's a subtle way for them to get free meals.

[im12andwhat]

drop that bish asap (SRS)

should split 50/50, ****ing white knights always giving them free meals lmao. cannot be real life.

[bonerise]

fuk dat

split or gtfo. i don't owe you nothing.

[AceMuscle22]

I think if you invite the girl on a first date then you should pay

[NaturalFTW]

and she should suck his dink on the first date.

[patriots1977]

nothing wrong with that

but serial daters are bad news bear

[BurnBabyyyBurn]

So its gentlemanly to treat all women the exact same regardless of whether or not they deserve the treatment?

Yeah, you ask her out you pay. It's just the first date. It doesn't have to be expensive. Frozen yogurt, coffee, etc.

[Mque]

First date I ever went on I didn't pay for anything of hers. She insta ignored me right after.

[dustwyrm]

in b4 broke miscers claiming its beta to pay

[Dave P]

I think whoever asked the other person out should pay



Asking someone to dinner then expecting them to pay is kinda bs

[Legion25]

Bish says she saved 1200 a month on food.

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/woma...match-15112192

[LashGordon]

Hard to say. I usually do, especially if I specifically ask the girl out. My rule is if by the 3rd date she doesn't offer to pay, she's gone. HOWEVER, I will say that a dinner date as a first date is pretty dumb. If it's coffee, froyo, stupid cheap sh!t like that, then yes you should probably pay (or at least offer).

Only times I've gone on what I'd consider a "date" are with girls I've hung out with a few times before, so at the time I had no concerns paying for things here and there, especially if I had asked them out.

But she is under the impression that regardless of situations, who asked who out, who makes what salary etc, the man should always pay.

I said, "Ok so you want Chivalry not equality then... you can't have both" and she said "thats only you who thinks like that"

[patriots1977]

Bishes just lookin for a free meal. Lemme see if I can pull up that youtube video of the sloot who did it and made an excel of free meals she had.

"youtube video of the sloot who did it and made an excel of free meals she had"

Bish says she saved 1200 a month on food.

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/woma...match-15112192

"Bish says she saved 1200 a month on food"




yeaaaah planet earth









transcript from webpage

Woman Dates for Free Dinner on Match.com
Abbie Boudreau meets a woman who has saved $1,200 a month from going on dates.

Transcript for Woman Dates for Free Dinner on Match.com

You are about to meet a woman who found a way to use match dot com to meet her monthly budget now. Like that but her first date free dinner approach did put more money -- your bank account and -- and finally got a little -- out of these guys. -- You can -- what god but because the controversy ABC -- Boudreau joins Los Angeles -- this tale of romance and clients say happy.

Hey good morning George can you imagine having two years and spreadsheets. To keep track of all of your online dating. I think it's really -- complicated.

Well for one girl she says that's what she did it and it paid off. So yes. 45 year old -- forty launched an online search for love but instead of -- she wound up with something much different.

Free dinner truth and lots of them. You were able to save something like 12100 dollars a month -- that true I'm sure you could really calculate that it was approximately how much money but. I never went into smacks dot com providing she chose men with good jobs.

They never expected to split the bill. Like his awkward first date -- in the movie kissing -- So obviously the salad but I think as ever call you a little bit more -- your portion at 42% to. Three and doing -- team.

How many times a week where you're going out. I would say. An average of four to five times a week -- you're hitting it pretty hard I was in less than a month and a half she winner about thirty dates.

And the savings starting at -- New York is really spend said that a lot of these experiences I wouldn't have been able to -- if I hadn't you know been on match dot com and gone through this this is my own sex in the city. She -- all the New York cops but dinner -- may -- And the ever popular -- you know. And not to mention an occasional -- -- Dollar bottle of champagne.

-- sometimes even just a cheese burger and milk shake. And -- asked now did anyone ever ask you to split the bill on the first date no he no nobody ever dead had someone sent it to me. I probably would have said okay you know no problem.

In -- had I would have probably said. All of that now that's not -- traditional line. You know I think that a man should really pay for the first -- There were still many dates that Jessica's since she used to spread -- system to keep track -- really use these spreadsheets with my friends as a way for us to keep people straight.

About one -- she notes. I'm pretty sure I'm not going to be attracted. And going out with the many ways so it wasn't like so and so its name and then you cross over and it's like spaghetti and meet all.

I'm sure a lot of people would have been very interested in seeing number signs next to everybody's so instead took -- took 500 dollar dinner and so and so it took me to such and such place but now. It really wasn't like that it was just simply for me keep -- demonstrate. But when an article popped up about her online accusing her of concocting a way to -- strangers to cover her monthly food budget.

People lashed out of there. Well the men did anyway calling her a gold digger do what she did was obscene this guy right. Some people are just spoiled and entitled people calling you callous.

And spoiled it and I -- for all the wrong reasons. And traditional girl and you know -- me I feel like part of dating is. If a guy wants to take me out.

What's wrong with him taking me out to -- dinner and me expecting for the -- to be paid. But many women tend to agree with Jessica. Saying they leave their split the meal pork he wants to -- that's lovely.

Jessica is now dating a guy she met six months ago and no she didn't -- him online ceases those days are over. But admits her appetite. My boyfriend and I -- like they've got some nice dinners and for the record I do pay a lot does not the first -- now or never the first day in a traditional -- Dating in -- not -- Traditionally. SEE LESS
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[Ratfish]

what's her BMI, opie?

[Originator]

Whoever does the asking out pays for the first time.

After that it's equal unless you actually want to pay.

[usethejitz]

He should on the first date for sure. It kind of sets a bad tone right away if he doesn't. It's a gentleman thing to do.

aaaaaannnnddd this is the kind of woman I wouldnt date. My GF actually suggested we pay for our own stuff initially then we took turns. feels good man

We were friends before though

[SuchWow]

get some real hobbies and stop wasting your time arguing with sloots about who should pay for a date.

beta af brah

srs

[FunkDaddy]

All a girl has to do is offer to split the check, even just as a courtesy and I happily pick up the tab (especially considering it's usually just drinks and pub grub or dinner at a not-so-expensive place). After that, it's usually shared costs on everything unless you're dating a gold digger.

[SeanArcher]

The whole paying thing is a good way to figure what they're after. If they insist you pay before you even go out, they're not after your heart, OP.

Run away and burn that bridge

[headinahole]

Whoever sets up the date pays.

Had a chick in college invite me to dinner, check came and she slid it over (lol wat)?

I left, had $23 to my name.

brb wasting it on a dinner that wouldn't even get me laid... not even once.

[ODuck91]

She's trying to tell me it's a nice gesture and the man should always pay.

I suggested it was a nice gesture when you actually wait to see if you like the girl before you start paying for her chit, otherwise it's just a meaningless gesture done for everyone.

Give me your honest opinions (not what the misc wants to hear)

I would pay for most of it, but leave her something to pay. 80% me 20% her.

Bowling + dinner = i pay for bowling, we split dinner.

[bullsaxe]

You should only pay on the first date if she sucks you off beforehand.

Comment + avi = lol'd

[KillahJon]

Whoever invites the other one out should pay....If a sloot asked a dude to dinner, she should not expect him to pay because she is the one who made the plans.

[Grapist]

I always pay on the first date. Always. Feminism may be ruining my country but it isn't gonna change me. Plus southern sorority girls are used to the old ways of southern chivalry/hospitality