my wife is leaving me, fuark haven't eaten in like 3 days. srs please help!(UPDATED)

[clangsta]

sorry to hear that brah.

You really shouldn't be begging her to stay with you though. You have to now accept that the relationship is over and it is time to move on. Go your separate ways and don't go back, ever.

One day you'll hopefully look back and realise it was all for the best. You may not see that now, but in time you will.

Time is the greatest of all healers. GL.

[primetime32]

Get attorney

Get house, son and alimony.


Try to eat even if you don't feel like it

Listen to everyone telling you to lawyer up. If she is the bread winner, she should be paying you child support for the 1 kid you have together. You may not want to get a job until those issues are resolved.

First things first, get your sh!t together and find a good matrimonial lawyer in your area.

[deltbrah]

sad but true brah, exactly how women's minds work, come to a logical conclusion financially to better yourself as a couple, she agrees with the logic but the women In her reverts to default. She will regret it when she sees you in a few months/years, and you're happy with a more attractive women, you will make it.

IMO it was a bad decision economically and career wise to leave his job, if he had said, "NO i'm going to continue working, and just as you recieved a promotion i am working hard to get a promotion aswell" i bet panties would have gotten wet. OP could have even looked for other jobs, that pay more, while working.

Sad thing about married brahs and brahs in long term relationships, is that you get too comfortable, and fall into that perception that you dont have to live up to expectations of attraction for opposite sex, and start focusing on long term plans like getting money together to get that dream house etc, and stop going to gym and next thing you know she is banging hector coz he has a six pack.

[Ready4War]

Its a typical story in this day and age OP, sad to say

Regardless if you were a good husband, a nice guy, whatever, the moment she became the money earner and you were the stay at home dad is when this relationship went down hill.

Its a sad fact that women are very shallow and do not build the same emotional attachments to relationships as men, women will always be the ones to change in a long term steady relationship, the only time its the women who get fukced over is when the relationship isn't established yet and the guy is just fukcin her for the sake of it, any long term committed relationship it is always the woman who "needs some time" or some fukcing sorry excuse.

best advice is to accept it head on, dont beg or plea or cry. You do not need her. She is a woman who is not sticking by you. Why would you beg for a woman like that. Take the opportunity to focus on you and go full fukcin beast mode. time to step up to the plate for the sake of your son.

[anonymous]

You're going to make it OP

[VamonosPest]

Divorce and take half her money man. Seems like the only reason she wants to stay the next 17yrs is so you cant. You're the stay at home Dad. Time for payback on these hoes, take 50% her money!!

[bh4tmann]

At least you can keep your son man, positive.

This.

[AimHighWillis]

Fuark man, strong feels. I am divorced (about a year and a half ago). It was tough but I learned a lot and have tons of self-confidence and respect now. You don't need a woman brah. Just keep things good for your kids and that's it.

Age: 26

You dun goof'd

[kenonator]

reverse the rolls OP milk all the child support and alimony you can. don't get a new job.

[erryboy99]

Oh fawk..just when im over dat anttimarriage phase, op show s up..
t...op, ull always have the misc but now u have to talk to ur close bros. Lawyer upp and dont show weakness to that bitch. Smh....this is what happens when women and men reverse their roles, and yet feminists say its all social condiitioning . Feminism is what is disturbing the natural equilibrium of sexuality annd ****ing up marriages around tthe world.

[leafs43]

OP, what you're experiencing is normal.

Your body is actually going through withdrawals like what a drug user and abuser goes through. (srs)


Best thing to do is have some dignity, take half her money and start shopping for a newer younger model.

[deltbrah]

reverse the rolls OP milk all the child support and alimony you can. don't get a new job.

lol actually if you dont plan on getting into a long term relatioship for a while, Do this, just for all the guys out there that are getting screwed on child support.

[ArryRedknapp]

Get a divorce attorney now!!!

Looks like you can keep the kids, house and a little alimony. You are accustomed to the life she provided you as it was the role you assumed as a stay at home dad. I hate she doesnt feel for you anymore, pull the band-aid off now instead of making everyone involved miserable.

http://cordellcordell.com/

THISSSSSSSS

GET DAT DERE ALIMONY, OP!

If she's going to be a cold kunt, give her a taste of her own medicine!

She'd do the same to you!

[acountryboy1984]

I feel for ya man I went through almost the same exact deal only difference is I made the money. you will make it and it will get easier hell here I am 3 years later and some of her decisions I am glad she is gone. ull make it dude its a long road but gets better

[miamigoon]

Good luck, OP. 28 is way too young to be putting up with all of that nonsense. As long as you got your kid, you're good. You're still young enough to bounce back.

[stevenmurray198]

You people telling him to milk all the money he can make me fukkin sick.

[Gimme1More]

well what i'm gathering from the misc is that i really phucked up when i quit my job....kills me because she asked for months for me to do it and i wouldn't finally just begs me out right to quit because daycare was so much. I finally give in and told her that i still felt uncomfortable for that very reason that she would probably end up after a while losing respect for me.

[AMERICAN_BEAST]

Get a divorce attorney now!!!

Looks like you can keep the kids, house and a little alimony. You are accustomed to the life she provided you as it was the role you assumed as a stay at home dad. I hate she doesnt feel for you anymore, pull the band-aid off now instead of making everyone involved miserable.

http://cordellcordell.com/

in for results

[ProvidenceBrah]

its so disrespectful that that she actually said she would stay with you for 17 years but not kiss or have sex with you. such a slap in the face and flat out wrong. she basically wants you to babysit the kids while she goes out and gets fuked. naw OP you aint on that beta male time **** fuk her.

[niiick]

Stop living in the past and speculating as to what made her want to leave... it's done now... get over it... lawyer up, and move the **** on. you sound pathetic.

[MasterMikko]

well it looks like you guys didn't exactly get along as well as you're making it look. That is, if she actually had to vent her frustration (presumably about you) to her friend. Either something was really wrong or she just has some kind of a borderline personality. lol

[Harrock]

You people telling him to milk all the money he can make me fukkin sick.

Are you of the opinion he shouldn't get a piece ?

[Cranz]

I'm saying this as a bro who wants the best for you.

I thought this was a troll thread after I seen home dad part, I deeply wished it was the case, but judging replies....damn. You aren't a real man anymore. What the fuk were you thinking? You are really pathetic for what you have done.

Divorce her
take your kid
focus on nothing but getting rich and hitting the plates hard


if you don't do this, enjoy living the rest of your life as piece of ****, or even end up being a cuckold. dead srs.

Don't buy into this alimony ****, most people are doing it here for reverse roles, but you will always live as non real man who needs money from his ex-wife to support his kid. Idgaf how much you milk from her.

[Stefan-sN]

Hope everything works out for you man, keep your chin up!!

Mirin Calves btw,

[reyes12]

You people telling him to milk all the money he can make me fukkin sick.

Why does this make you sick? You are aware his scorpion hell spawn of a wife would have done the same to him, right? She deserves every ounce of bad karma for what she did to OP.

[ricdvs]

wtf bishes are heartless man. mix of rage and sadness. sorry op. theres life beyond the girl you were with, thrust me (been there)

if you have calves like that you can conquer the world

[ArryRedknapp]

You people telling him to milk all the money he can make me fukkin sick.

Oh come on.

She has basically spat in his face. This is a woman who entered into "holy matrimony" with OP and then just turned cold on a whim.

On top of that, she requested that he terminate his employment.

[TawabTitan]

I'm not trying to disrespect ur wife or you, but maybe she found somebody else?

[Dreambulker]

u will be a very strong man after all this

[Cranz]

Oh come on.

She has basically spat in his face. This is a woman who entered into "holy matrimony" with OP and then just turned cold on a whim.

On top of that, she requested that he terminate his employment.

Strong logic.

She didn't terminate his employment, he did it himself. He shouldn't blame anyone but HIMSELF if he wants to move forward.