going through a break up is FUKED

**TajTebwee** · 02-08-2014, 10:34 PM

Originally Posted by mysterylifter

say that to my face not online see what happens

Truth hurts man

**listenlisten** · 02-08-2014, 10:36 PM

broke up with gf of almost 6 years last week… i dont even know whats real life anymore

**niiick** · 02-08-2014, 10:36 PM

Originally Posted by mysterylifter

you have clearly never experience the kind of love that i had with her

not to mention i was with her everyday for over 6 years you *******

He's right..

Quit being a sad beta ***got.

I broke up with my LTR of 5 years and guess what? You are responsible for the ***got beta you became while worshipping her .... snap out of it and learn to get your validation and self worth from within.

she wasn't a 10/10, she wasn't the perfect wife and mother... your brain is just ****ed up suffering from dopamine withdraws it's associated with the stimuli she provided fore you emotionally.

Recognise that feeling how you feel now is human nature, stop putting her on a pedastal and talking down to everyone who is telling you what you're about to realise once you get over all this ****...

**isawthesign** · 02-08-2014, 10:37 PM

lol i know that feel (only a year and i was so broken haha)... just know that it was for the best and that if u she really valued your relationship, she would STILL BE with you today.

**rburn90** · 02-08-2014, 10:37 PM

Gets better with time brah. I went through this a year ago after 2 yrs with my first love spending every day together and sleeping together every night. Fukin sucks but I was able to get over it quickly since I was the one who broke it off. It made me stronger though and now you can just focus on improving yourself and growing as a person.

**atlas24** · 02-08-2014, 10:37 PM

Cliffs on why u guys broke up? Any chance of working it oit?

Who broke up with who?

**J2BDifferent** · 02-08-2014, 10:38 PM

Originally Posted by mysterylifter

you have clearly never experience the kind of love that i had with her

not to mention i was with her everyday for over 6 years you *******

Calling me a ******* but you spent everyday with a female for six years believing in the **** you see in movies.

Be a ****ing man and have some self worth.

You think that girl was special but now she's just another girl at the club looking for dick

Harsh reality but it's true

**KloWnZ** · 02-08-2014, 10:38 PM

http://www.babynames.com

**GerbilFarmer** · 02-08-2014, 10:39 PM

You feel bad now but realize you'll only feel better from here. Everyday you will feel a bit better. All of you people in here talking about how just breaking up need to accept it's over. Once you accept it's over things will start getting better

PM me if you need to talk (srs) (any miscer)

**Idontlikeit** · 02-08-2014, 10:42 PM

know that feels

broke up with ex of 2yrs recently and I been thinking about her nonstop. realizing how pathetic i am though and am trying to snap out of it. whats worse is im unemployeed fuuuuu

**WookinPaNub** · 02-08-2014, 10:50 PM

I present to you a feel:

http://www.soundcloud.com/strigata/s...t-original-mix

**Cincyredseale** · 02-08-2014, 10:53 PM

Sorry brahh. Me and my girl of 3.5 yrs broke up yesterday. Still lost atm

anonymous · 02-08-2014, 10:55 PM

Originally Posted by Cincyredseale

Sorry brahh. Me and my girl of 3.5 yrs broke up yesterday. Still lost atm

wish you luck man

**atlas24** · 02-08-2014, 10:57 PM

Originally Posted by mysterylifter

wish you luck man

Da **** brah cant make this thread without some details

What happened?

**Cincyredseale** · 02-08-2014, 10:57 PM

Thanks brah. You too. Hop on the Feels bus

**W8t** · 02-08-2014, 10:59 PM

Any advice op on avoiding what happened to you? What do you wish you had known 6 months ago for example.

**zSolo** · 02-08-2014, 11:03 PM

stay safe op

**Kanestar** · 02-08-2014, 11:03 PM

damn right before valentines day =\

**Lowrom** · 02-08-2014, 11:03 PM

Why did you break up?

Edit: never mind, good luck though, cant imagine how that must feel.

**KenKanifff** · 02-08-2014, 11:04 PM

get up, dust yourself off, and stop talking like a lost dog the owner left in the park.

**Farang** · 02-08-2014, 11:04 PM

Originally Posted by mysterylifter

honestly bro id rather not go over it over the internet. just a set of unfortunate circumstances that seemed to all get out of control until it was too late

know that feel

Rather not go over it on the internet yet you make this thread?

Don't care if you neg me...spill the beans OP. It'll make you feel better (probably not, but do it anyway)

anonymous · 02-08-2014, 11:05 PM

Originally Posted by W8t

Any advice op on avoiding what happened to you? What do you wish you had known 6 months ago for example.

yea dont get struck down with medical **** that makes you depressed and put a **** load of emotional pressure on the only person that cares about you. hope it helps

**Vinbrah** · 02-08-2014, 11:05 PM

Originally Posted by W8t

Any advice op on avoiding what happened to you? What do you wish you had known 6 months ago for example.

This may seem beta but (srs) if you care for the girl you are with don't be afraid to talk about issues in your relationship. It's better to talk them through than have them build up and explode all at once.

**Kellonnn** · 02-08-2014, 11:07 PM

chit like this makes me never want to even be in a long term relationship

gl op, you gonna make it

**Brandon0212** · 02-08-2014, 11:07 PM

I know these feels OP. I dated a girl for almost 3 years and have thought about her almost every single day.

I want to say it gets easier but honestly it doesn't. You just have to move on if you think it's over for good.

**xJuggHeadx** · 02-08-2014, 11:07 PM

i dont get it.

if you really LOVE this broad like you claim, and having such a hard time without her then why dont you call her, swallow your pride, and get back together?

you probably tried some bullshyte where you didnt want to compromise on something, had a minor disagreement that blew up into a huge argument and instead of you backing down to your girl, you carried on, and now on the misc crying like a bytch.

I know what its like to break up with your girl but after spending so much time with, her i would have absolutely no problem calling her up and saying "hey lets talk this out"...you worried about talking to this chick or some random motherphuckers on a internet forum is thinking?

get ur priorities straight.

**Lpenny** · 02-08-2014, 11:08 PM

Mystery u lost it

**Bobbyishungry** · 02-08-2014, 11:09 PM

Feels ITT. pretty scared that this kinda **** is gonna happen to me and the gf, which is why i broke up with her a couple days ago since we're in a LDR and would be apart for 5 years because of school.. but we just got back together too after having a big talk so idk man. If it doesnt work out after waiting 5 years for this then i dont even...

but for you though, just stay strong. it seemed like your circumstance really couldn't have been helped either, so take solace in the fact that it wasnt either of your's fault. just lift heavy and try to forget. We're all gonna make it brah

anonymous · 02-08-2014, 11:09 PM

Originally Posted by Lpenny

Mystery u lost it

i dont disagree

**wickedman** · 02-08-2014, 11:11 PM

Hey, in the same spot down to the number of years, really does suck OP. I'm still not over it or even close to over it (still think every text I get might be from her - never is).

Best piece of advice I can give you, and I swear this is the most important thing, is block her on all social media and NEVER give into the urge to check on it. The only times I was legit wanting to blow my brains out over this whole thing (outside of the first few weeks) was when I would stalk her FB/Twitter. She'll seem like she is completely fine and any male presence on it will make you think she already has someone else (whether it is true or not, I still don't know). Stay. The. ****. Off. Them. if you do not want to have that crushing suicidal feeling.

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