my gf lied to me, should i kick her out?

[wapacmane]

-came up behind my gf and saw her texting some random guy, she immediately turned off the phone when she realized i was behind her. I asked who he was

-she says its a guy from school and they were discussing business related topics

-I called her ****ing ass out, told her to stop lying, demanded to read the text.

- she then apologizes and says she met him on the internet/social app

-in the text, the guy is in her field of study, so they talked about school, and jobs, then he asked her out to dinner and asked for her phone number. although she never flirted with him nor complied to his requests, she still responded to him and asked him more about his job and school situations.

-she said she joined the social net work get more connections in order to find a job, to get better social skills, her reason for lying to me was because she knew i would get mad at her for doing this.

She seems genuinely apologetic and remorseful, and even gave me permission to check her smart phone activity any time i want and gave me her password to the phone. But the very fact that she lied to me about this, compromised my trust for her. Should i break up with her?

[LiLRyan]

What app

[wapacmane]

What app

idk exactly, but i dont think it was a dating app

[Kellonnn]

idk exactly, but i dont think it was a dating app

then no.

[LiLRyan]

You read the messages but don't remember the app?

[Vake7000]

Uh. She wouldn't of reacted like that.

Those are stereotypical lies and your love for her makes you blind.


But she's offering up the middle of the thighs right? Just don't believe there will be an extension to your arrangement.

[wapacmane]

You read the messages but don't remember the app?

thats right man, i dont remember the fvking app, but i do remember it displayed the the physical distance of the members in relation to one another, perhaps more convenient to sort through the ones that you'd want to meet with.

[arv91]

In b4 op finds out it's tinder


I'd kick her out. Why would she hide it from you...? Derp duhhhhhh god dam use some common sense amigo

[UltraRain]

Yes get rid of the sloot dont spend any more time wasting it on her shes not worth it get a new and better gf

[Vake7000]

Just keep ****ing her. She's going to leave you soon, so just mitigate the damage in the . meantime. Don't let her get to use her advantages of being a sloot over you

[SwaggerMcdaniel]

can i tell you somethin..

a year ago i would have let stuff like this slide. not that my ex was cheating on me or whatever but i tended to give people (especially my partner) the benefit of the doubt

now in any event this happens i can just walk away and tell the person to f off. after one bad experience it just opens your eyes to the rest. she was doing something behind your back regardless so you better prepare to walk away cuz its coming. you dont want to think so but it is.

you dont want to stay with a liar trust me

[AwareAF]

Kum n go

[yage]

If it was purely business related she wouldn't have panicked initially. Fact.

[riu2466]

This is sparta her out brah.
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[wapacmane]

If it was purely business related she wouldn't have panicked initially. Fact.

her reason for doing it behind my back is that i would get mad if she told me...lol, im pretty much done with her.

[Mugsysiegel]

Take it from a older brah,get out now!! She got nervous because she WAS doing something wrong and got caught. She will go from chatting with him to banging srs.

[RyanLeee]

, but i do remember it displayed the the physical distance of the members in relation to one another, perhaps more convenient to sort through the ones that you'd want to meet with.

tinder?? only one that comes to mind

She may have been "just talking" but lets state the obvious...she gave a random dude who she has never met (I assume) her phone number...this dude also asked her out...so she knows he is INTERESTED and she still GAVE HER NUMBER and continues to talk. Business or not those are lines that have already been crosses, she is not respecting your relationship lines. I am sure she can find other people besides the guy who asked her out for her job...

than she lied...maybe because for all we know you go bat **** crazy and are jealous as fuk ? or because she KNEW that she was pushing those boundaries but probably thought "well im not interested so it doesnt matter" but it does

That and the fact that now you have lost trust in her...have to check her phone and have her password? **** that ****. thats a waste of time and not a real relationship. There's no way in hell I would let/give my gf my password to my phone to "check" up on me...but she also wouldnt have to worry abiut me ****ing around like this chick

Be wary of any future behavior OP, I am sure they will arise

[wapacmane]

tinder?? only one that comes to mind

She may have been "just talking" but lets state the obvious...she gave a random dude who she has never met (I assume) her phone number...this dude also asked her out...so she knows he is INTERESTED and she still GAVE HER NUMBER and continues to talk. Business or not those are lines that have already been crosses, she is not respecting your relationship lines. I am sure she can find other people besides the guy who asked her out for her job...

than she lied...maybe because for all we know you go bat **** crazy and are jealous as fuk ? or because she KNEW that she was pushing those boundaries but probably thought "well im not interested so it doesnt matter" but it does

That and the fact that now you have lost trust in her...have to check her phone and have her password? **** that ****. thats a waste of time and not a real relationship. There's no way in hell I would let/give my gf my password to my phone to "check" up on me...but she also wouldnt have to worry abiut me ****ing around like this chick

Be wary of any future behavior OP, I am sure they will arise

she didnt give him her number, nor did she go out with him.

and yes there were two times where i acted crazy and jealous, so she used that as an excuse to validate why she lied to me

[RyanLeee]

she didnt give him her number, nor did she go out with him.

Okay, then she took his number and still continues to talk to him after she knows he is interested in taking her on a date when she is in a relationship

Personally as the rest have stated i would be very aware



"asked for her phone number" so they are just talked on the app thingy?

[Mcfreako]

Eh...hard to say. Probably yes

[wapacmane]

Okay, then she took his number and still continues to talk to him after she knows he is interested in taking her on a date when she is in a relationship

Personally as the rest have stated i would be very aware



"asked for her phone number" so they are just talked on the app thingy?

yea only on the app, as she confessed

[ajctennis]

Wrong op. it is a dating app. I remember my friend told me there's some app that matches you in your area and shows distance. It's not tinder. I forget the freaking name but I can find out. Detach yourself, keep fing her and start meeting new girls

[risingphoenix73]

at any point in the conversation did she mention to him that she had a bf? if not, i'd dump her ass.

[noDaddyno]

Had a similar situation happen to me a few years back. She isn't being honest with you. She is doing damage control. I'm sure her story will change a bit again and new things will come up.

Do what I did and dump her immediately. There is no room for any lying, shady behavior in a relationship.

Don't tolerate that behavior. She will only continue to lie and manipulate anything in her favor.

[happywithit]

-came up behind my gf and saw her texting some random guy, she immediately turned off the phone when she realized i was behind her because she knows how insecure I am and how I over react and blow up with my insecurity. I asked who he was

-she says its a guy from school and they were discussing business related topics because she fears my blowing up in her face because she has come across my insecurity before

-I called her ****ing ass out, told her to stop lying, demanded to read the text.

- she then apologizes and says she met him on the internet/social app

-in the text, the guy is in her field of study, so they talked about school, and jobs, then he asked her out to dinner and asked for her phone number. although she never flirted with him nor complied to his requests, she still responded to him and asked him more about his job and school situations.

-she said she joined the social net work get more connections in order to find a job, to get better social skills, her reason for lying to me was because she knew i would get mad at her for doing this because I always do since I'm insecure n paranoid.

She seems genuinely apologetic and remorseful, and even gave me permission to check her smart phone activity any time i want and gave me her password to the phone, because she has no choice if she wants me to stop being insecure and paranoid. But the very fact that she lied to me about this, compromised my trust for her because I'm extremely insecure and paranoid. Should i break up with her because I'm insecure n paranoid?

I edited for you.

[CeBKa]

don't kick her out yet, but be aware the she talks to other guys and doesn't want you to know about. it certainly means nothing good. don't judge her by her words but by her actions,
see if her behaviour changes towards you. there is no need to check her phones/emails etc

[noDaddyno]

I edited for you.

Let's not pretend. She gave him every reason to be paranoid.

[Fawkeverything]

Op dump her man shes only sorry because she got caught. Nobody hides a phone over an innocent conversation.Also how is texting going to help social interaction? There are so many unsocial people who spend hours on the internet talking and cant talk to anybody face to face.You should of asked to see the phone right after now shes just going to delete texts and make it look like nothing while still texting the guy about who knows what and acting apologetic to you.Its for your own good save yourself from the future.

Ps she has three strikes so kick her out:
1.Hid the phone even though she said it was innocent
2.She lied and took a man number of a guy who flirted with her
3.Had a secret account and made up another bs story about getting more social by using it

[happywithit]

Let's not pretend. She gave him every reason to be paranoid.

OK, a girl is chatting to someone in her field of work, about her field of work, and his reaction is 'to kick her out'.

Paranoid, insecure, control freak much? What's the betting this guy flips out on the regular.

Actually OP be kind dump her. She will get further in life without you.

[risingphoenix73]

OK, a girl is chatting to someone in her field of work, about her field of work, and his reaction is 'to kick her out'.

Paranoid, insecure, control freak much? What's the betting this guy flips out on the regular.

Actually OP be kind dump her. She will get further in life without you.

Flip the situation and have the bf chatting with a girl that he met online and she asks him out and the girlfriend finds out. Idc how things progress the gf will be on an estrogen fueled rampage for at least 2 weeks and cry herself to sleep every night.

gtfo of here with that chit.

Boys rule!