GF thinks it's ok to grind with other guys

[Vake7000]

Wtf is with the influx of *******s lately?

a fat neckbeard calling others *******s

lol

[Tak37]

I never grew up in the club culture living up in the north but I would get rid of that chick and go straight to no contact. Nobody needs that kind of bull****

[Manne1]

just dancing get over it

[lced]

People who are into clubbing are going to view this as acceptable... those who don't won't. It's a values/boundaries thing. Yours are vastly different. Trying to change her is just going to result in her pushing your buttons once the novelty of the relationship wears off and she starts to resent you. She is already calling you insecure/jelly/controlling.

As evidenced by this thread, there are plenty of guys who would be thrilled to have a fun party girl who dresses the part and dances with everyone... let her go find one of those guys to date. And you can find a chick whose boundaries align more closely with your own. Tons of chicks don't do th clubbing thing, or if they do, dance with just their female friends/boyfriend. Why force a relationship with someone you don't even like and with whom you have pretty big incompatabilities? Having major issues in the first couple months = relationship doomed. You aren't even getting the fun, lighthearted, feelgood honeymoon period. Why fkn bother?

Exactly this.

A girl who clubs regularly is already a red flag for me, one who thinks she can grind on someone else and then instead of apologize and vow never to do it again blames it on your insecurities lol. These kind of girls are gross, I enjoy cumming on their face and then telling them to get out, they wanna act like sluts i'll treat them like sluts. Though I will respect a girl who respects herself.

Comes down to your personal preference in woman, obviously you two are not emotionally aligned enough for a relationship.

cliffs
- downgrade her to FWB and then go find a new toy when you get bored of this one

[BrawnySwoleman]

Enjoy your cuckhold goals. *******.

As soon as I read the OP, I thought, I wonder how long it'll take for someone to equate cuckoldry with dancing.

[702Rider]

If it bothers you that much and she does not think it's a big deal, you should consider leaving her. Because this could be the tip of the iceberg on some differences that could get in the way in the future. Not saying what she did is right or wrong, just saying this could be more of a problem later.

Comes down to your personal preference in woman, obviously you two are not emotionally aligned enough for a relationship.

cliffs
- downgrade her to FWB and then go find a new toy when you get bored of this one

Essentially, this.

[wearshoodies]

this a fuking roll bread? whose gf dances with another guy while hes at the fuking club, regardless of whether you were outside or taking a chit.

you better dump her op

[AJ7123]

this a fuking roll bread? whose gf dances with another guy while hes at the fuking club, regardless of whether you were outside or taking a chit.

you better dump her op

If he was outside then it's wrong...

If he was taking a shiit at a club then all bets are off

[toil]

lol u srs. id be mad as fhk

[liftjunkie224]

It is a red flag but all you need to do is talk it out with her and if she likes/respects you enough she will change to suit you and your relationship. I know a lot of girls who only go clubbing because the guys they're seeing go clubbing and they just want to see them but they do not essentially grind on other guys and think it's okay.
The first couple of months are suppose to be fun but I know a lot of people who in these times constantly came to diagreements on things but if you like each other enough it tends to work out but I say by the fourth/fifth month it tends to come down to compromising and bending to each others needs a bit to make it work. Communication is key brah. If she really likes you she'll do whatever she can to make it work and she shouldn't insult you for something like that

[esp]

LOl ifi it was a guy you knew like a friend etc fine.

But grinding on random cawk at the club?

Disrespectful. How would she feel if you were grinding with some chick?

You need to be a man and set boundaries in this relationship so you are both clear on expectations. If she gets pissed and values being a club sloot more than you, let here go; shes not worth being in a relationship with.

To retain power in a relationship you must be willing to walk away.

[Tbillionaire]

What's the point of grinding? A: To build all that sexual tension up... Your gf just let another guy pretty much spoon/dry hump her. I think you are justified in being upset OP, don't listen to these ppl saying you are insecure.. If she wants to do that with other ppl, she needs to be single imo.

[wearshoodies]

If he was outside then it's wrong...

If he was taking a shiit at a club then all bets are off

what??! they're in a committed relationship. would you dance with another dude if your boyfriend was in the bathroom?

[Studi0sity]

Wrong no.1 - Rubbing her arse against another guy's dick while you are present there. Tells how much respect she has for you.
Wrong no.2 - She thinks there's nothing wrong in it.

The moment she says there's nothing wrong in it, I am done with her. I will never be in a relationship with someone that I need to give mental therapy everyday and tell her what is right and what is wrong.

OP, my advice, go NC. Find someone else; there's plenty of fish.

[magx]

i refused to date her until she agreed to stop dressing like a sloot

Major insecurity alert.

[Kevin007]

Lmao, when i grind, my hands are usually on their waist, sometimes, I hold their hand to get closer and to be in better rythm, if everything goes right, i escalate to her thighs..then slowly to her inner thighs...this is when I start to get a throbbing boner and pretty much dry hump the **** out of her for the next 2-3 songs...if she still doesn't push me away, the next stop is the bathroom.


Lmfao if that chick has a boyfriend.

[BuildKing]

Am I dreaming or am I reading posts in this thread right, there are actually guys who think its ok for their gf to rub their ass on another guy's cawk? Is this real life?

[NoMilkForYou]

Am I dreaming or am I reading posts in this thread right, there are actually guys who think its ok for their gf to rub their ass on another guy's cawk? Is this real life?

Of course brah. You're just a insecure *******! (not srs). In 20 years the norm will be sucking someone off on the dancefloor, and we will have replies like "Naw man, it's all good. At the end of the day you are the one taking her home all the time"

[shador1]

Never had a gf who would do something like this and if she ever did Id leave and never talk to her. Seriously. Maybe Im weird that way but I find this extremely disrespectful.

[iScuZz]

The issue isn't whether that kind of dancing is ok or not. The issue is how you react to feeling disrespected by your girl.

This. I personally find it disrespectful, and if you do, you take care of it in the right way, you go up and start dancing with her instead.

It's all about the person you're dating, not sure you fully know her, and she doesn't know you.

[shador1]

This. I personally find it disrespectful, and if you do, you take care of it in the right way, you go up and start dancing with her instead.

It's all about the person you're dating, not sure you fully know her, and she doesn't know you.

I dunno but it doesnt sound so good. So you see your gf grinding a dude, walk up to her and start dancing with her in his stead? Basically she picked someone else other than you to dance with and you swoop in like a ***got? Its her choice and she seems to like toching other guys cawks, pretty weird IMO but everybody's different I suppose. There's things you should tolerate in a LTR but this aint one of them.

[Divall213]

Holy chit at the unrealistic, horrible Beta responses itt

If your gf is fkin grinding (a strong type of sexual, physical, flirtation) another man then dump her asap. (And also the fact she thinks she did nothing wrong and you were there lmao)


She should be able to have fun dancing without the need for a dik rubbing against her.

[tboyjnr]

Extremely Disrespectful. But you shouldn't have walked out.

[IBench5Pounds]

Man society is retarded nowadays. Your gf does some chit you don't like which they clearly know is wrong but instead throw all the blame on you saying you're insecure? It's just a manipulation tactic to make it look like it's all in your head, fking lol at any of you *******s that buy into it. Brb hanging out with guys all the time "theyre just friends stop being insecure". Brb spending the night at guy's house "nothing happened, he spent the night on the floor stop being so insecure". Guys need to grow a backbone and stand up for your morals over being scurred of what other people think.

[SymphonyXXX]

And this, ladies and gentlemen, is why males are the herbie-hancocks they are. Calling other guys 'insecure', using it as a shaming technique. ****ing miserable, judgmental herbie-hancocks.

Only gays judge other men.

[JUSA]

I wouldn't leave my gf for this. I personally have grinded with my friends gf's and my gf doesn't care and I don't think it's a big deal but that's as far as I will take it.

Look usually I am the first person to side with the guy but she honestly didn't do anything wrong.

Disagree.

I would not tolerate this and the second I witnessed it happening I would have put a stop to it then and there and let her know that it was unacceptable. Surprised you just sat there while it went on.

You're not insecure. You're single. Enjoy it and find a new girl who isn't a ****ing whore.

[Jsf721]

I am married now so that would never happen or be tolerated, but when I was single, I would not deal with this for a friggin second. Would I leave over the first offense-No. She knows the deal and she can comply or GTFO. If it bothers you, she needs to take your feelings into account or she is no good anyway.

Your choice, just my opinion.

[Beararms]

Usually Im pretty mellow about situations but this one would honestly bother me a bit. I bet if you grabbed some random chick in the club she prob would flip her ****. Women are real quick to throw the jealous/insecure card when their bf or whatever doesnt like something they do, boundaries need to be set. I garuntee you this wont be the last time she does it, she will go with her buddies to the club and do it again and again. I would never date a woman who went to the club on a consant basis.

[LiftnAllDay]

Fuk that sloot bro, dump her ass. That amount of disrespect cannot be tolerated

[jpmpdt]

why date a club sloot OP?
Logic not even once