Found out gf was texting someobody. She said "hes gay"..found out hes an exbf(GTFIH)

[derp01]

ignored her calls for most part of the day, but just got done talking to her.

Called her out and everything she said made sense, actually she didnt tried to blame it on me and agred that it looked wrong. Well... she acted like a lady but im still doubting.

Long story short, were not back together since I actually broke it off but im contemplating having her as fwb.

Don't keep her as a fwb unless you're sure that you're 100% emotionally detached. It's a recent breakup so there is a chance that old feelings might come back. Good luck OP, all the best

[Violator009]

ignored her calls for most part of the day, but just got done talking to her.

Called her out and everything she said made sense, actually she didnt tried to blame it on me and agred that it looked wrong. Well... she acted like a lady but im still doubting.

Long story short, were not back together since I actually broke it off but im contemplating having her as fwb.

sounds like she didnt give a shiit about the relationship anyway...

[aintevenmad]

i did unfortunately, tend to do so more often than not, don't know how to over come dat chit.



i clearly don't understand this, just doesn't compute inside my brain.

#1 i never talk to my exes after dating them (lol)
#2 they are ex for reason, why visit with them again (unless its not over)
#3 ???? wtf ?????

brb im crazy if this is normal to do

I dont eithee but I have learned not to apply my standards to the rest of humanity.

[KenKanifff]

ignored her calls for most part of the day, but just got done talking to her.

Called her out and everything she said made sense, actually she didnt tried to blame it on me and agred that it looked wrong. Well... she acted like a lady but im still doubting.

Long story short, were not back together since I actually broke it off but im contemplating having her as fwb.



not a troll tread m8

FWB yeeaaaahhhhhh suuuuurreee op,

what happened to all those sloots hitting you up.

[6doublefive321]

yeah brah you need to drop that bish. You say she said "I have to many gay friends loloololololollol," days before the initial confrontation. She premeditatedly sought to make sure that whenever you saw him (Ex Bf) that you would automatically associate him with *******ry and thus harmless. This would allow here to string you along while trying to work on getting here ex back. Dude she plucking absolutely used you as a back up plan. GTFO with velocity. your gonna make it.

[JUSA]

OP, you said everything she said "made sense", but didn't tell us what she said. I'm doubtful how she could make sense out of lying to your face about being in contact with an ex. Since you said you're not back together, clearly she didn't make that much sense. I'm also interpreting you casual attitude towards "keeping her around as a FWB" as weakness, and that you are going to get back together with her.

Get some self respect, man

[canconfirm]

lol what a dumb bitch.


lol at "contemplating" for her to be fwb

strong beta if u are actually wanting to be in contact with a cheater.

[corpsedub]

ignored her calls for most part of the day, but just got done talking to her.

Called her out and everything she said made sense, actually she didnt tried to blame it on me and agred that it looked wrong. Well... she acted like a lady but im still doubting.

Long story short, were not back together since I actually broke it off but im contemplating having her as fwb.

waaaaaaaaaaat?!?!?

got dambbbbit

[Mn8]

Same $hit different day, FWB wow. This is why giving people solid advice is a waste of time on these forums.

[JustPissening]

Only read OP..


Next this bish, she just straight up lied to your face brah just end it.

/thread

[JUSA]

Only read OP..


Next this bish, she just straight up lied to your face brah just end it.

/thread

He's already confronted her about her lying. He said her response made perfect sense and he's already thinking about getting back together with her.

/thread

[Vake7000]

He's already confronted her about her lying. He said her response made perfect sense and he's already thinking about getting back together with her.

/thread

Also

P.s. OP is a weak bitch


/thread

[goodcupcakes]

Maybe he meant everything she said made sense like "Opie you're kind of a doormat so I keep my ex around in case I want to drop you for him at a whim."


Strong compounding your problem by pretending you can FWB this and not have it blow up in your face.

[randombrah1]

FWB yeeaaaahhhhhh suuuuurreee op,

what happened to all those sloots hitting you up.

they still there

OP, you said everything she said "made sense", but didn't tell us what she said. I'm doubtful how she could make sense out of lying to your face about being in contact with an ex. Since you said you're not back together, clearly she didn't make that much sense. I'm also interpreting you casual attitude towards "keeping her around as a FWB" as weakness, and that you are going to get back together with her.

Get some self respect, man

lol thanks for the neg
we talked on the phone, im not happy with the result and im going to see her tonight for her face to face explanation

lol what a dumb bitch.


lol at "contemplating" for her to be fwb

strong beta if u are actually wanting to be in contact with a cheater.

I dont think that something has happened. Currently evaluating the situation.

Maybe he meant everything she said made sense like "Opie you're kind of a doormat so I keep my ex around in case I want to drop you for him at a whim."


Strong compounding your problem by pretending you can FWB this and not have it blow up in your face.

lol

[Mr Beer]

we talked on the phone, im not happy with the result and im going to see her tonight for her face to face explanation

"I am going to go round there and demand she lies some more until I decide to 'forgive' her, thus leaving her more in control than ever before"

Way to man up dude.

[noDaddyno]

What was her story? How did it make sense? Did she admit to lying? Is he actually her ex?

You couldn't be more vague

[corpsedub]

What was her story? How did it make sense? Did she admit to lying? Is he actually her ex?

You couldn't be more vague

what happens in vagueness, stays in vagueness

[sickserratus]

ignored her calls for most part of the day, but just got done talking to her.

Called her out and everything she said made sense, actually she didnt tried to blame it on me and agred that it looked wrong. Well... she acted like a lady but im still doubting.

Long story short, were not back together since I actually broke it off but im contemplating having her as fwb.



not a troll tread m8

****ing piece of **** losers like this who inflate girls' heads ****ing up society

[dabbmw2002]

she will tell OP that she has no interest in him, but was worried he would get upset if he found out she was still friends with her ex. So she lied to protect his feelings, and not to protect her own ****ty behavior. You see, her actions were benevolent, just a little misguided.

[samusprime]

well how do I start this m8's. See, my gf has an smart phone who links her to her "fav" contacts on the main screen. Me along some friends of hers show up there, and this was this other dude... This happened a few weeks ago, but she knew Ive seen it, though in the moment she didnt said anything, neither did I.

Lemme add some background before, when we first started dating she asked me about my ex, and I told her "I broke up with her cause she was flirting with other dudes", so she said "I will never do that". And well she talked about her ex bfs too, and the last one, according to her was the fav of her grandma cause he knew how to cook and shiet, it seemed like regular stuff.

Ok, moving forward to the next day after Ive seen her contacts list.

I get to her house, were chilling and out of nowhere she says, "I was thinking, damn! I have too many gay friends. See" and she gets out her phone and goes through her contact list, and she points out the guy that was marked as fav as a "gay friend". It was weird the way this was approached by her but I ignored it and went about my day.

And here we are, today I was miring her profile pics on fb and I got to a pic where she was smiling (pic from a year ago and she was talking about who was the reason of her smile, have in mind we werent dating at the time). Here is where it gets sketchy... cause guess who was the reason of her smile? yes, the "gay friend" she pointed out a few weeks ago, turned out to be her ex bf, the one who cooked for her grandma.

It gets me mad brahs cause this points that she is still in contact with an ex bf and basically lied to my fukin face.

what you guys think?

Edit: Ive never seen the text or anything.

She obviously lied and if, like you said, she really did bring it up that way, she does have something to hide. However, this should not warrant any phone snooping, revenge screws or screaming. On the other hand, you are entitled to the truth as her boyfriend, so ask her-- simple as that! I'm not saying she'll tell you the truth or that you should believe what she says. As a girlfriend, if she can't be honest, that's her problem-- you can choose to deal with it however you like. Buuuuut she was given fair warning that you have zero tolerance for it, so. Your time is better spent elsewhere, not on frustration, lies, or justification. Take it as a signal to walk away, woo0o0o0o.

[FitnessBlue]

OPs man card is now null and void/10

[aintevenmad]

OP, this is a new low in desperation. stop it.

[retardedtroll]

OP didn't give us any information about the talk he had with gf because he's ashamed.

[MrBungle11]

OP didn't give us any information about the talk he had with gf because he's ashamed.

I have to agree...the one piece of information everyone was waiting for was conveniently left out. I'm expecting to hear that she said the ex was gay all along and just didnt know it so it makes it all cool.

[kjoel007]

Hahahaha, inb4 OP forgives her and takes her back. In4 updates, lol.

[Jatg93]

didn't read thread, if you didn't dump her on the spot you are a cuckold *******

[FU3L]

OP is probably a cuckold now. Watching her 'gay' ex bf buttphuck her while he masturbates in the corner.

[Vake7000]

disgusting

[Mugsysiegel]

Love is blind for sure,but at this point you're telling yourself what you want to hear. Man the f.uck up and drop her,if not your in for a world of hurt. Been there done that.

[BullittEV]

lol what a dumb bitch.


lol at "contemplating" for her to be fwb

strong beta if u are actually wanting to be in contact with a cheater.

cringed when he said possibly keep her as a fwb. in other words, OP doesn't want to look like a beta bich and will end up back w her after he "tries" fwb.

youre obvious brah.

damn thought OP was gonna alpha this chick. oh well. cringed.