Being an older virgin really suck

[Chelbull]

damn, i just witnessed a murder lmao.

RIP in peace conceptions, pretty sure 2good123 just took your virginity via the interwebs

[conceptions]

Well yeah, there are physical differences in our brain. I can't imagine what its like to be a turtle or a bird either. Whats so crazy about saying there are barriers to prevent every truly understanding another gender?

I dont know where or why the 45 minutes late thing came from, thats not what we're talking about. I'm hurt that my gf gave up her vagina to someone to try to coax him into liking her more. That hurts a lot! She let a guy use her as a **** hole! A piece of meat! And I kiss her on the mouth when she let herself be treated that way. It hurts. You can't say that doesn't hurt a lot.

Every sexual encounter has a health risk, theres no reason to believe hookers are more dangerous than normal sex in a bar. None at all. Whats to stop a man from cheating on his gf if he banged a hooker once in a dry spell with no emotion attached? It doesnt have to mean anything, it means he used a girl as a **** hole cuz he wanted his dick wet, and now he found a girl he loves and respects and doesn't want to lose.

You're going on tangents.

I addressed your question. If that's a tangent, then you're the one leading me on it.

At the end of the day, you're thinking reductively if you equate a woman having sex because she desires love or more emotional attachment from a man-- something most people desire, and think of positively-- with prostitution, which is illegal in most parts of the US.

I understand the point you're trying to make, but it doesn't carry much weight.

[Spartan5364]

the only thing I know about girls is to not listen to girls when it comes to talking about girls.
Conceptions pls go.

I would never pay for sex strictly for religous reasons however from a secular standpoint it seems to be not that much different than dating an average sloot.

Avg sloot:
-pay for meals
-pay for car and gas to drive her around
-give her social status
-give her sexual satisfaction
-give her affection
-give her this that and the other

she gives you sex

Escort:
-give her money

she gives you sex

[2GOOD123]

damn, i just witnessed a murder lmao.

RIP in peace conceptions, pretty sure 2good123 just took your virginity via the interwebs

Best comment i've read in a while, raped.

[conceptions]

damn, i just witnessed a murder lmao.

RIP in peace conceptions, pretty sure 2good123 just took your virginity via the interwebs

I'll consider myself insulted when someone actually says something clever.

I've been waiting for that moment since Jan 2013.

[shuri]

I addressed your question. If that's a tangent, then you're the one leading me on it.

At the end of the day, you're thinking reductively if you equate a woman having sex because she desires love or more emotional attachment from a man-- something most people desire, and think of positively-- with prostitution, which is illegal in most parts of the US.

I understand the point you're trying to make, but it doesn't carry much weight.

Tangent was referring to the girl showing up late thing, that came out of nowhere imo lol.

Prostitution is legal in other areas, as you mentioned, so what is the point? equating a woman being a ****hole because she wants love which is a positive thing to a man using a woman as a ****hole because he wants sex? Sex isn't a negative thing, most people think positively of it. Actually most people desire sex as well.

Just because you personally place using sex to find love more honorable than using money to find sex doesn't mean they are actually unbalanced. I think we'd need a real logical point to show why its honorable, I definitely see both sex and love to achieve personal happiness as equal, commendable goals.

Plus as a girl esp since u seem in shape and what not its easier to find sex and hard to find love from the guys youd have sex with, so it makes sense you think its honorable.. Its an honorable journey to you. Where as im a guy who finds it harder to have sex (or at least, love from girls who i also want to have sex with), so I think "any means necessary" is more honorable and a way of life as well.

[Matt B]

Sex really isn't worth the emphasis you, and a lot of other males, put on it OP. Jerking off to some good porn feels better (srs).

Don't feel pressured by society, because in the end I think most men chase sex as much as they do because it's a social expectation and a big aspect of social status within groups of males, rather than them actually enjoying sex.

[zackarykapowski]

Sex really isn't worth the emphasis you, and a lot of other males, put on it OP. Jerking off to some good porn feels better (srs).

Yeah, you guys are blowing it up too much. I've been in relationships where I got to the point I'd rather whack than bang.

[shuri]

good night might remember to read your response might not tomrorow, nice talkin to ya pEACE

[likuidbrah]

Sounds familiar tbh Op

You need to stop being so hard on yourself ,buying into all the hype and putting sex on a pedestal,

Stop called calling yourself ugly ( unless your the next elephant man , you ain't ugly (no homo))

(Sex is over hyped to a certain extent anyway)

Back in my rebel ganja days I hit 18 and felt ashamed to be a virgin, I'd had plenty of chances but never took any of them up ,

I literally couldn't hold my head up or look girls in the eye, I was a complete mess ,a recluse

Went on a smoking trip to Amsterdam with the boys and took a trip down the red light district and saw it as a fix for my self inflicted esteem problems, Boy was I wrong ,

All went well until it came to the act itself , then it dawned on me that I had no idea what to do , how to do it or anything , all these thoughts made me flop , (which made it worse) It was humiliating ,

all thoughts of how many had successfully planted they're flag before me , what she was thinking, I felt useless , (if I couldn't f*** a hooker how could I f*** any other girls )

even worse I'd paid for that experience

This buried my confidence and I'd given up , fell into a huge depression and considered suicide srs

( seems ridiculous now I look back)

then I met the girl of my dreams
( not into all that fairy tale bull either , but it seemed to happen that way )

now everything's changed for the better,

Just my 2 cent ,it's up to you

but from my depressing personal experience I wouldn't go down the hooker route , it's meaningless sex and makes you look/seem desperate, have some self respect , I didn't but I wish I had

Find someone who loves you and she won't care if your experienced or not

Life's not a race it's a game , we all take different routes and age should not define milestones/goals in life

Ride it out , chin up, stick with it and your time will come ,trust me on this , don't jump the gun

Peace

strongest first post i've ever seen on the misc. srs.

have some measlies brah

[Incitatus37AD]

Escorts, do it.

[SwolePenor]

You only realised this now? You are only a reflection of your own self-image my friend, if you believe you are ugly/poor/unaesthetic, you will subconsciously project this to others and thus reinforce this negative self-image you have of yourself. Break the habit - because that is what it is, a physical rewiring of your brain to think negative about yourself - and live your life the way you want it to look like.

Now stop being negative and believe in yourself and go out and smash some sloot if you want. There are so many sloots these days - even sloots that fuk midgets and dogs n sht, I'm pretty sure you're better than midgets and dogs bro.

How long would the "rewiring" take? I've heard 3 weeks but not sure

[syth1230]

How long would the "rewiring" take? I've heard 3 weeks but not sure

rewiring is based on exposure therapy. The more you think you are confident the more confident you become.

Be positive brah.

[2Gainz]

Maybe you're a 25 year old virgin because you're an annoying, whiny *******. Hmm.

[Justcallmedaddy]

make an idiot out of yourself not knowing what you are doing when you try to phuck a coworker(probably the only place you will have female contact)

?????

1.Get a hard penis
2.Insert
3.Thrust
4.?????
5.Profit

[StevieSparkZ]

I'll consider myself insulted when someone actually says something clever.

I've been waiting for that moment since Jan 2013.

You completely dodged my question about the benefits of women in the infantry.

[GIGANTAS]

If I were you, I would go to a brothel just to get rid of the idea that is keeping me self esteem low!

[superamped]

I'll consider myself insulted when someone actually says something clever.

I've been waiting for that moment since Jan 2013.

dis bish is feisty as fook!! . . . mmmmmm swole penor!!

[hardnut]

A creative man is motivated by the desire to fuk, not by the desire to fapp.

[JanesLastResort]

I guess bro but the girls I've met would never do anything with me. It's a competition, the more successful guys always win. Even homeless men have confidence, it doesn't mean girls want to be with them

that's actually a good point op.

[likeawashboard]

How long would the "rewiring" take? I've heard 3 weeks but not sure

rewiring is based on exposure therapy. The more you think you are confident the more confident you become.

Be positive brah.

Pretty much this. It can take weeks, months and even years to completely change how you think. But if you can change your perspective (on everything) you can set yourself on the right path within a week. Just start DOING things to better yourself and stop the thinking and doubting.Your confidence will grow exponentially.

And by the way sex is amazing, but it's not nearly as complicated and a big deal as you think it is when you're a virgin. Good luck OP man.

[BigDandyCool]

If I can slay poon on the reg than so can you. walk up to 20 girls in a bar. I am sure you can nab at least 1

[Workout4ever]

day i lost my virginity was such a relief

when things get bad i say to myself..."man whatever.. atleast i wont die a virgin luls"

[Squeeks]

day i lost my virginity was such a relief

when things get bad i say to myself..."man whatever.. atleast i wont die a virgin luls"

still haven't lost it,but I know when I do this is how I will feel lol.

[WhenTheLastTime]

My friend lost his virginity at 28, and he's objectively one of the ugliest people I've seen in my life. No hate, just truth.

[fitnessbyjay]

Ok, let's say you go out to the bar, how many chicks do you hit on? I'm guessing none.

You just have to understand simple statistics, it's a numbers game. Or you could just sit at home on the Misc and complain.

[Rambo26]

maybe lower your standards for now to lose it, could probably get some interest going just because you lift

[Power_Strike92]

If I can slay poon on the reg than so can you. walk up to 20 girls in a bar. I am sure you can nab at least 1

Stop trolling.

[ChickenMadness]

Yeah I realized that. Sorry I just needed to let it out I guess

Why don't you advertise your swole penor? The girls love that.

[NotenoughGains]

Itt op wont be making it.