When you catch guys staring at your girl

[FitnessBlue]

Touchy subject, and the term "insecurity" will deff get thrown around.

How do you guys react when you catch *******s doing this?
For me, yes it's a compliment, but I would be lying if I didn't admit to my blood boiling a bit if only because I know what they are thinking. There is also a fine line between a modest "hmmm she's hot" and straight eye phucking my girl. When that line is crossed I usually give them the "let's dance" bert stare. But I also get pissed at the level of woman logic goin on. brb bishes get enough attention as is, brb my girl always has to dress up like she is goin out for the weekend, claims that she doesn't care for the attention, blames me for getting flustered. Wish we could turn the table for a weekend brahs. I can honestly say that I don't go around oggling other brahs gfs srs, I still hold my man card stamped with integrity. Course there is prob that quick glance as I notice a girl walking by, by I deff don't spend anymore time on them than I would if I didn't give a fuk.

Trust is there, security is there, just straight animalistic rage due to territory etc. The woman logic tops it off...

[Violator009]

I dont care, thats how I know I have good eye candy on my arm, if no guys look at my woman it means shes fuken ugly and I better find another...

[FitnessBlue]

I dont care, thats how I know I have good eye candy on my arm, if no guys look at my woman it means shes fuken ugly and I better find another...

yes and that is the compliment for sure. But there has got to be a kill point for ya isn't there? Surely you can't be ignorant to that point where it becomes disrespectful. I will admit I am guilty of having a short window of acceptance, very short.

[zackarykapowski]

Who cares bro? It's inevitable with any girl you date just like girls will look at you. Nothing you can do about it or to prevent it from happening. Don't worry about small trivial stuff like this. When you're in a relationship, give no fukks. Don't let her know it bothers you because she eats it up. If your girl cheats, she cheats. Nothing you can do about it. Just live bro and enjoy your relationship.

[FitnessBlue]

Who cares bro? It's inevitable with any girl you date just like girls will look at you. Nothing you can do about it or to prevent it from happening. Don't worry about small trivial stuff like this. When you're in a relationship, give no fukks. Don't let her know it bothers you because she eats it up. If your girl cheats, she cheats. Nothing you can do about it. Just live bro and enjoy your relationship.

All the textbook stuff brahs already know of course. But easier said than done for some. I just can't blind myself with ignorance like some. She says she likes it when girls check me out, that all good and chit though from a woman...women don't eye phuck guys and they surely don't do it in obvious ways. I know I am a good looking mofo, security in that regard isn't a question.

[zackarykapowski]

So you're just insecure that she's going to leave you? What good will it do to remain upset about it bro? You have two options. Break up with her because it's not going to stop or stop giving a fukk because their is no need to give one.

[FitnessBlue]

So you're just insecure that she's going to leave you? What good will it do to remain upset about it bro? You have two options. Break up with her because it's not going to stop or stop giving a fukk because their is no need to give one.

Again, trust is there, security is there, it's beyond that typical bs. Waiting for others that can relate. Basically something that is annoying and will continue to be a piss off just the same as anything else that pushes your buttons. I think I have a very short patience level for retarded human behavior since I work as an LEO.

[zackarykapowski]

I can relate dude. I've had guys stare at my exes numerous times. Just laugh it off. You just want someone to tell you that you're right feeling this way. Not saying you're wrong as you cannot help how you feel, but I would say their is definitely a touch of insecurity involved here.

[FitnessBlue]

I can relate dude. I've had guys stare at my exes numerous times. Just laugh it off. You just want someone to tell you that you're right feeling this way. Not saying you're wrong as you cannot help how you feel, but I would say their is definitely a touch of insecurity involved here.

I just don't see how insecurity applies. I have no doubt she wouldn't cheat, I have no doubt I could easily pull another, I have no doubt I am a sexy mofo. I don't have anything to be insecure about nomsayn. Maybe just pissed that bishes have it so easy that it's up to us men to cave with this kind of bs and "accept it"?.

[soyelrey]

Put your arms around your chick and give him a cheeky smirk. Show him who runs shit. Something like this should do the trick:

[FitnessBlue]

Put your arms around your chick and give him a cheeky smirk. Show him who runs shit. Something like this should do the trick:

errrytime brah errrytime. Except instead of brown eyes, I believe they are red...

[zackarykapowski]

I just don't see how insecurity applies. I have no doubt she wouldn't cheat, I have no doubt I could easily pull another, I have no doubt I am a sexy mofo. I don't have anything to be insecure about nomsayn. Maybe just pissed that bishes have it so easy that it's up to us men to cave with this kind of bs and "accept it"?.

What else can you do besides accept it? Beat the chit out of every guy who looks at your girl then you'll be wondering who's plowing her while you're sitting in jail. What do you propose can be done? I'm interested.

[Dreamer889]

I take it as a compliment. I mean there is probably girls checking you out too bro. If you go out and nobody checking you out it means your ugly. Just get used to it. Looking and touching are two totally different things. Not like you can make her ugly.

[FitnessBlue]

What else can you do besides accept it? Beat the chit out of every guy who looks at your girl then you'll be wondering who's plowing her while you're sitting in jail. What do you propose can be done? I'm interested.

That's the thing, sweet fuk all can be done...:/
Short of dating an unattractive girl. But I am really starting to hate that she absolutely has to dress nice everyday and gets mad when I react to attention that she calls on herself. Love a woman that can dress up, but everyday is too much imo.

[FitnessBlue]

I take it as a compliment. I mean there is probably girls checking you out too bro. If you go out and nobody checking you out it means your ugly. Just get used to it. Looking and touching are two totally different things. Not like you can make her ugly.

Oh I know, and I catch them. But the aren't greasy about it the same way guys are. *has more fun at bars solo than with gf crew*

[zackarykapowski]

That's the thing, sweet fuk all can be done...:/
Short of dating an unattractive girl. But I am really starting to hate that she absolutely has to dress nice everyday and gets mad when I react to attention that she calls on herself. Love a woman that can dress up, but everyday is too much imo.

Tell her to wear baggy clothes with human feces all over them. They'll still stare, but for different reasons.

[SCRAM]

I always stare back and don't stop. They notice and move along lol. I take it as a complimentary stare from them but still to be an ass I stare rite back have even thrown a wave at them before

[zackarykapowski]

I always stare back and don't stop. They notice and move along lol. I take it as a complimentary stare from them but still to be an ass I stare rite back have even thrown a wave at them before

This guy gets it.

[FitnessBlue]

Tell her to wear baggy clothes with human feces all over them. They'll still stare, but for different reasons.

lol seriously, had to hit the hospital a few times during the last few days (iv antibiotics) and she came in sweats and a hoodie (same as me) and I fukkin loved it!

[FitnessBlue]

I always stare back and don't stop. They notice and move along lol. I take it as a complimentary stare from them but still to be an ass I stare rite back have even thrown a wave at them before

I prob have a 99% stare back ratio, just tiring battle...

[zackarykapowski]

You can't expect her to dress this way at all times. I understand where you're coming from, but it's not going to change bro. Just gonna have to accept it or breakup. You'll be fine bro.

[FitnessBlue]

You can't expect her to dress this way at all times. I understand where you're coming from, but it's not going to change bro. Just gonna have to accept it or breakup. You'll be fine bro.

Welp, I didn't expect this thread to have any answers, i just wanted to hear other opinions. Of course the obvious answer is "dealwithit.jpg", but chit gets frustrating. Das it mane

[zackarykapowski]

Start masturbating or banging her before you go out so you give no fukkks and are completely relaxed enough to invite the guys over to tell them they can run a cuckold on your girl.

[1mbizzle]

Used to annoy me, now I tend to give them a smile as if I know what they're thinking. Have thrown in a wink a few times (no homo). They mostly go eyes down and shuffle on.

[nathan5]

Wood beat his asss to a pulp then buy him some ice cream. Safe.

[Jiwa]

You mad that I would stare if I wanted to?
take it as a compliment and stop being insecure
don't care if you say there is no insecurity, there is.

[Painz4Gainz]

Put your arms around your chick and give him a cheeky smirk. Show him who runs shit. Something like this should do the trick:

This. A REAL man would do this. Don't get mad, as it WILL NOT help. Why raise your blood pressure on something you can't control? My uncle caught a guy staring at his girl and he simply stated "Like what you see?" Don't get mad brah, you automatically lose. Also you need to get bigger/stronger. Wear fitted shirts that show your abs, traps, 18in bis. You'll demand respect from all the males and will probably get a thumbs up. I usually thumbs up guys who are doing well for themselves. Be smooth, suave, masculine and you win.

[ingoodtime]

I can relate op, sometimes I catch my girl being stared at by her bf. Makes me rage internally but I keep my cool. I know she is his gf or whatever, but it still upsets me cuz I think he just admires her body like it's a trophy or somethin, he doesn't appreciate her the way I would if I was her boyfriend.

[HayZues Christi]

I immediately assume he has a bigger dick than me and get all butt hurt.


Op is an insecure *******. Seriously, how fuking delusional are you to say this isn't insecurity??

[magx]

lol seriously, had to hit the hospital a few times during the last few days (iv antibiotics) and she came in sweats and a hoodie (same as me) and I fukkin loved it!

You honestly don't see how this is insecurity at its core?