When you catch guys staring at your girl

[PapaPrime]

question is, what does your bird do when you aint around to cry about it?

[Vake7000]

When I check out a girl and I see she's with a dude, I usually size him up to his face.

I always keep a straight face, but I'm pretty sure the dude knows I'm thinking, "What is a soggy little ******* like you doing with this girl"

Also I'm now of the mentality that I don't give a **** if you're her bf. You're both strangers to me and I'll have thought about ****ing your girl for 2 seconds of my life. Deal with it

[MeFromG]

That's the thing, sweet fuk all can be done...:/
Short of dating an unattractive girl. But I am really starting to hate that she absolutely has to dress nice everyday and gets mad when I react to attention that she calls on herself. Love a woman that can dress up, but everyday is too much imo.

The time is NOW to dress nice, sexy and pretty. Not when she's a grandmother already. Let her celebrate her sexy appearance as often as she wishes - you are just straining your relationship unnecessarily - cause will she stop, when you're constantly complaining and stressing her out? No... And if she changes her personality for you, than it will make her unhappy; and you have certainly heard about it: Unhappy woman, unhappy/no relationship !

So - stopp gambling your relationship away and enjoy her sexyness every day - as long as she has it and is willing to celebrate.

[tino124]

Hah.. was out with my girl the other night and just walking from the entrance to the bar she had two different dudes try to talk to her. She ignored them both obviously,first one I gave a nice smirk and wink to, second one got a wave, and we both laughed about it after.

No point in getting mad, just laugh because you know you're the one who's going to be smashing her later.

[GreenIvy6]

That's the thing, sweet fuk all can be done...:/
Short of dating an unattractive girl. But I am really starting to hate that she absolutely has to dress nice everyday and gets mad when I react to attention that she calls on herself. Love a woman that can dress up, but everyday is too much imo.

I can tell you this from experience.

The WORST thing you can do is let yourself become visibly upset/flustered at the unwanted attention she gets from men. She is an attractive woman (I assume). Men will always look. She would probably get looks from men even if she was wearing a burlap sack. Men are visual, and staring at attractive women seems to be par for the course.

You do have to understand, however, that any woman with some sense knows that she needs to look presentable/attractive, especially if she already has a boyfriend/husband. We women know that men often complain about the concept of "letting ourselves go" while in relationships. Men believe that women stop putting in effort, appearance wise, once they snag a guy. So, some women put in an effort to remain as attractive as they were when they first met their SO. The problem is that some men react badly to any outside male attention that is received, even if the attention is unsolicited.

That kind of behavior is frustrating, and a turn off. I've experienced this first hand, and I can tell you that it was one of the primary reasons that I broke up with the man that I had the longest relationship with. He was overly jealous. I never cheated, and I never gave him a reason to believe otherwise. His main complaints stemmed from any attention that men gave me when we were out together. If I got cat-called, he raged. If a man approached me while he was in the bathroom, he would try to fight the guy once he got back. He started trying to control how I dress. He began telling me what I could and could not wear. I didn't even dress like a floozy, but my body shape made any outfit more sensual/sexual. It couldn't be helped.

He once tried to start a fight with four men standing on a corner in the inner city after they cat-called me, as we walked by. It was embarrassing and dangerous. I did love him, but I couldn't put up with his obsessive/controlling/jealous/possessive behavior any more than I had to.

I know it might suck OP, but men will always be staring at your girl if she is attractive. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your own behavior. Are you going to fly off of the hinges every time a guy eyes up your woman, or are you going to play it cool?

[LordBroski]

I don't get mad at all. My GF is a stunner and always dresses very classy, and still gets gawked at even when surrounded by sluts who have everything hanging out on display. Sloots get so mad, especially if their BF's are checking her out. If I catch a guy staring at her I laugh because I know they're 'mirin.

She gets straight up creeped out by it though. I don't get angry unless someone has the nerve to say something to her or touch her. But then again she's a BJJ guru and can unleash a world of hurt on men twice her size, so she typically puts an end to things before I can do anything about it.

[SymphonyXXX]

Look straight at the dude's eyes and do this:

[MrSilverback]

Usually when I look back at them they get very uncomfortable and look away or walk away. I can't blame them since I am probably bigger than 98% of the guys I encounter.

Honestly, I don't mind it. It's a compliment. As long as they're respectful I really don't care.

If they're disrespectful, that's where I draw the line.

I usually walk up and say something "Anything I can help you with buddy?" That usually ends it. I haven't had a problem while out with a girl in I would say almost 10 years.

[ljusmc1371]

Its flattering..but also disrespectful if he knows we're together. I wouldnt do it..

[Ten_Hearts]

You date an attractive woman she will get hit on just how it works. No reason to get flustered, he can't do anything but look. Last guy who hit on my GF, she just started trolling him about pegging him and tearing his *ss apart with a strap on until he got upset.

[TheJizzler]

You like your gf to dress up in hoods and track pants whenever she's in public?

Saudi Arabia ------------->





Only time I've ever been bothered by a girlfriend getting attention was when one of my friends wouldn't stop staring at my girlfriend (at the time) while we were at a pool party. Thought that was creepy and disrespectful on his part more than anything. He continued and went after her less than a week after we split... and got hardcore friendzoned. I didn't say anything; just cut him off. Circumstances that came later have left him broke and FA.

Karma went in dry

[zackarykapowski]

I can tell you this from experience.

The WORST thing you can do is let yourself become visibly upset/flustered at the unwanted attention she gets from men. She is an attractive woman (I assume). Men will always look. She would probably get looks from men even if she was wearing a burlap sack. Men are visual, and staring at attractive women seems to be par for the course.

You do have to understand, however, that any woman with some sense knows that she needs to look presentable/attractive, especially if she already has a boyfriend/husband. We women know that men often complain about the concept of "letting ourselves go" while in relationships. Men believe that women stop putting in effort, appearance wise, once they snag a guy. So, some women put in an effort to remain as attractive as they were when they first met their SO. The problem is that some men react badly to any outside male attention that is received, even if the attention is unsolicited.

That kind of behavior is frustrating, and a turn off. I've experienced this first hand, and I can tell you that it was one of the primary reasons that I broke up with the man that I had the longest relationship with. He was overly jealous. I never cheated, and I never gave him a reason to believe otherwise. His main complaints stemmed from any attention that men gave me when we were out together. If I got cat-called, he raged. If a man approached me while he was in the bathroom, he would try to fight the guy once he got back. He started trying to control how I dress. He began telling me what I could and could not wear. I didn't even dress like a floozy, but my body shape made any outfit more sensual/sexual. It couldn't be helped.

He once tried to start a fight with four men standing on a corner in the inner city after they cat-called me, as we walked by. It was embarrassing and dangerous. I did love him, but I couldn't put up with his obsessive/controlling/jealous/possessive behavior any more than I had to.

I know it might suck OP, but men will always be staring at your girl if she is attractive. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your own behavior. Are you going to fly off of the hinges every time a guy eyes up your woman, or are you going to play it cool?

Listen to this OP. She's right. My ex also was jealous and it made me shut down after awhile.

[MrSilverback]

brb my girl always has to dress up like she is goin out for the weekend, claims that she doesn't care for the attention, blames me for getting flustered.

Wait, you claim to be alpha yet get flustered when dudes look at your woman? LMAO

WTF? I don't even....

Track pants? Hoody?

Bro, man the f**k up, grab your junk, and deal with it.

[MeFromG]

You date an attractive woman she will get hit on just how it works. No reason to get flustered, he can't do anything but look. Last guy who hit on my GF, she just started trolling him about pegging him and tearing his *ss apart with a strap on until he got upset.

And then people wonder, why guys have such a hard time to approach women... :-|

Why is it necessary to "tear his ass apart"?! It's not always obvious a girl is already in a rs and mind readers are rare too.

Taking it as a compliment and being nice to them while refusing their approaches (meaning the nice, genuine, harmless ones) should be the norm instead of the exception (at least when reading some of the posts above regarding guys' girlfriends and their unpleasant behaviour). Stop giving evil eyes, ignoring, upsetting them, tearing asses apart and so on... Cause it's simply awful.

[FitnessBlue]

You honestly don't see how this is insecurity at its core?

No I don't. I have zero doubts about cheating etc. I know I can easily find another girl as well. I don't see how "insecurity" plays a role here.

[Boffothe]

I tried making my chick wear a burka but *******s kept leering at her sexy eyes, that phucking slut. So I built her a gigantic robotic super suit to walk around in but people keep staring because robots rule, so I'm at a loss

[FitnessBlue]

Wait, you claim to be alpha yet get flustered when dudes look at your woman? LMAO

WTF? I don't even....

Track pants? Hoody?

Bro, man the f**k up, grab your junk, and deal with it.

It's more to do with the disrespectful behavour of the guiys. = bro code violation, fight time/ Alpha

Again I cannot see how it's "insecurity". I have never been cheated on nor fear it.

[FitnessBlue]

I tried making my chick wear a burka but *******s kept leering at her sexy eyes, that phucking slut. So I built her a gigantic robotic super suit to walk around in but people keep staring because robots rule, so I'm at a loss

lold

[goodcupcakes]

No I don't. I have zero doubts about cheating etc. I know I can easily find another girl as well. I don't see how "insecurity" plays a role here.

Because what everyone else is saying is the insecurity lies within you not with your belief in the strength of the relationship. Know the difference.

[MrSilverback]

It's more to do with the disrespectful behavour of the guiys. = bro code violation, fight time/ Alpha

Again I cannot see how it's "insecurity". I have never been cheated on nor fear it.

Ummmm guys look. Girls look.

Girls look at me when I'm out with my girl. I look at girls when I'm out with my girl.

How is it a bro-code violation? Are they supposed to look at the ground when you walk by with your girl?

[Solomonlike]

My last ex g/f and I use to laugh about the staring we both received from the opposite sex. She had a real outgoing personality like me with a strange sense of humor (absolutely loves the Peter Sellers Pink Panther movies). One of us would point out the staring party then whisper things like " I wonder what they are thinking" or "damn they must want you bad" and then look at said party and laugh. That usually made the other party feel really uncomfortable and they would stop staring. She was the one who came up with the idea to "play that little game" with people. With my other ex g/fs, it really didn't bother me. If they wanted to risk trading me for the other party that would have been their loss.

[FitnessBlue]

So I am seeing as how most brahs can't relate...
Guess it is my issue. Wierd

[Ten_Hearts]

And then people wonder, why guys have such a hard time to approach women... :-|

Why is it necessary to "tear his ass apart"?! It's not always obvious a girl is already in a rs and mind readers are rare too.

Taking it as a compliment and being nice to them while refusing their approaches (meaning the nice, genuine, harmless ones) should be the norm instead of the exception (at least when reading some of the posts above regarding guys' girlfriends and their unpleasant behaviour). Stop giving evil eyes, ignoring, upsetting them, tearing asses apart and so on... Cause it's simply awful.

This wasn't a one time thing. Dude persistantly messages her. So w/e she chose to amuse herself by trolling him, this instance took place over ******** so yea by profile picture and status it was kinda obvious she is with me.

There are proper ways to approach a woman that deserve what you say but others don't.

And whats wrong with a good trolling?

[HayZues Christi]

It's more to do with the disrespectful behavour of the guiys. = bro code violation, fight time/ Alpha

Again I cannot see how it's "insecurity". I have never been cheated on nor fear it.

BULL****.


you are scared to death of it. Every post you makes screams it.

im guessing you lied about why you and your ex wife actually separated. you wont admit that though, so whatever.

[FitnessBlue]

Because what everyone else is saying is the insecurity lies within you not with your belief in the strength of the relationship. Know the difference.

OK just having a problem pin pointing it. What is it? Confidence is there, if anything I truly love her and can't figure out what the trigger is.

[FitnessBlue]

BULL****.


you are scared to death of it. Every post you makes screams it.

im guessing you lied about why you and your ex wife actually separated. you wont admit that though, so whatever.

No lies there idiot. Please don't troll up this thread. I very seldom create these threads.

[EthanLiddle]

All you need to do is eye phuck them right back. See how long it lasts

[retardedtroll]

I think OP is saying that it's not about guys checking out his girl on occasion, but when the guys won't take their eyes off of his woman for much longer than "checking her out."

OP, there is literally nothing you can do about this and it just comes with the territory of having an attractive gf. You bury the rage underneath the security of knowing that she's there with you because you're the sh!t.

Also, I wouldn't be upset that your gf is looking good everytime you guys go out. I'd take that as a positive. But if she's doing her makeup and all that other stuff to grab some milk from the gas station, then I can see your point.

[tential]

I'm seeing insecurity all over this thread like no other.

[Rebel11]

question is, man: why try to rationalize it?

it IS instinctive, you ARE an animal.
consider this: what if your blood doesn't boil because of HER, but because YOU feel your Alpha status threatened?
Ain't nothing wrong in having some primal pride, bro.

Accept it. It will happen REGARDLESS of the bish you're with. And if you ask me, it's a positive trait.